Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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I love to know how I can figure out if my husband is telling me the truth..Iknow that he was talking to the other woman on line.please help me to do something how I can find out what he is doing on line ,,I want to know how I can used this keylogger.hopefully I can will find it and I can rest my mind I am always guessing he is not telling the truth..please help me
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Lately these past 3 months my boyfriend has been acting very weird & different. In January I caught him talking to girls & flirting while we went away for a couple days. He said he wouldn't do it again but ever since then, things got worse. Way worse. Lately these 2 months he's been so rude to me & disrespects me so much & he's on Instagram almost all the time. He goes on my Facebook & everything & he accuses me of cheating & hiding things from him but it's not me.. I think he's still cheating. He's done this to me 4 times through my pregnancy. I'm so confused about everything. He doesn't want to give me his passwords or even let me hold his phone myself when he shows me his things. I have a feeling he's talking to girls still on Kik & Instagram & does things behind my back. Please help ...
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Is watching porn considered cheating?
I just walked in on my boyfriend watching porn. I immediately felt torn about it because I make such an effort to spice things up for us. I do sexy photo shoots, send him videos, walk into the kitchen in lingerie, and yet he still needs to look at another women (despite being behind a screen or not) for pleasure. I understand if things were bland in the bedroom, but no matter how much I do, it is never enough for him. No matter how much I do, he will still be bored and not fully satisfied until he gets a peek of another woman. I don't know what I am supposed to do, This truly was an enormous insult and I'm having a hard time handling it rationally. Should rationality even fall into this equation? I think not, but at this point I don't even know what to do anymore. I've always laughed at my friends telling me stories about their partners watching porn and to be honest, I always found it to be very silly, to ever stress over something like that, since almost every man does it. However, once it happened to me, its as if a huge chunk of my self-confidence flew out the window. I admit, i haven't sent him a picture or video lately, but what am I supposed to think when three months go by without sending him anything and he's immediately looking for another source of pleasure. Its not fair. Its not right. I don't deserve this. He's perfect in every way except when it comes to sex, women, and pleasure. He's the only man that I look at and desire since 01-05-14. He's still the only guy I crave and I beginning to ask myself why? WHy would i want someone that isn't faithful to me? Why would I want someone that isn't fully satisfied with just me? JUST ME. As pathetic as this may sound, a piece of my heart actually broke I think. We've moved s far in life, and to find out something like this just sets us back, me back, almost to the starting line. My lack of trust in him has sky rocketed because of his lies and my lack of self confidence as grown tremendously because of his actions. He clearly doesn't like what he sees. If not that then at least not fully satisfied with that he sees, and this fact breaks me down. I thought I was enough. It turns out I never will be.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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i met someone on chat line lies all lies
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How can I find a certain post number on this site? 183652 a lady wanted advice how to make an escape plan and I wanted to tell her what worked for me.
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Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Hi I really need to get into my boyfriend iPad, a few weeks ago he left his iPad unlocked I looked through it and found some messages on his messenger account he has been sending explicit messages to another girl I pulled him on it and he swore to me he wasn't doing anything wrong so I left it at that. Since then he has changed his passcode on iPad and iPhone now I'm feeling even more insecure I mean if he isn't doing anything wrong then why has he changed his pass codes please help me this is driving me insane just want to know the truth. Look forward to hearing from you. Many thanks.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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look all I want is to know if there is any way of getting into his iPad now his changed passcode and believe me if what I suspect turns out to be true I will hit him where it hurts without a shadow of doubt. Many thanks.
Issa May (not verified)
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You already found things on his iPad and he lied to you about it. What else do you need?
Brittany night (not verified)
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I am 18 yeah so what I'm young, this is my very first real relationship, he is 23 and I am his 14th girlfriend!
Believe me it's not what you think,
He is the one who gets cheated on I did better research than the FBI!
Anyway when we we first started going out he had a high sex drive he was always hard with me! Now it's like he doesn't want to have sex?
He always says I'm tiered I've been at the gym, he makes a excuse up!
He is still the same in some ways I still see him every other day, nights spend at each others homes,
But he just makes me feel unattractive now that he has me,
Since he got his cell phone! But he lets me go through it the same with his laptop?
I don't know? Can anyone help me?

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Does anybody know if you can tell how long someone has been a member of Ashley Madison? Can someone explain how someone spend $1200 in one month at Ashley Madison.....how they charge their fees....the question is not whether he has cheated, it is for how long it has been going on......I just need to know because he lies straight to my face and I cannot trust his responses. Can anyone answer these questions???
isata mansaray (not verified)
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I thinks my boo is cheating on me
sara dani (not verified)
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Good girld, that like have fun, i like movies, i like clothing,i love music.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
My partner was chatting online
Hi my partner was chatting to woman on Google + behind my back found his profile found pictures of him topless in shower and in my bed found out bored ugly house wife's asked him to strip and sex text them told him they would be there to chat private and be his friend when I asked him why he went along with it he said it got out of hand and they convinced him it was just fun and nothing more.
cheatedonp (not verified)
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This might sound sad but I found this site because I am the boyfriend who's girlfriend cheated on him. It works both ways. Don't be too paranoid but as Robert DeNiro says in one of my favorite movies, Ronin...." whenever there is any doubt, there is no doubt." If you are deep enough to be scouring emails, looking at phone records, or WANTING TO? Something is wrong, time to either abandon ship or if worth it have a serious Come To Jesus talk and get proof. If someone loves you they'll let you check their phone, Facebook, etc and call you crazy later. A true mastermind will lie to you AND make you think you are the crazy one. Just my 2 cents good luck...if it is meant to be it will be.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
If you find out that your boyfriend or husband is cheating
Thank you God !!! Blessing in Disguise !! Let us Pray ! no pun intended !
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Hello to all of you way back i was the one that started this Adam & Eve because I was with a cheater and abuser grazy man. well i told you that on e you feel it once you smell it once you see it you will notice that you have been played in a way that was very cheep, i left him waited for perfect day perfect moment packed everything day dark by day and finaly it was poring rain i loaded up and left him. Im still homless i have a job its just very hard on your own.
Hopefully i find a place soon.
So what i like to say is leave him or here because they never change believe me i left man several times because of abusive behavior or cheater nor i just llookig to to find a place alone. I dont believe in partnerships because we all humans dont even love our selfs so that righr there is the biggest of them all.
All I Say is LEAVE THE ABUSER CHETER its not worth IT findkn fore.
Adam&Eve
333

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
How to Find out if your boyfriend is cheating online
Stay strong !
firefaegirl (not verified)
cheating boyfriend (long distance)
im kinda worried my boyfriend is cheating on me. in a skype call he was fapping and the first few times he denyed it and when he admited it he said it was his first time but it wasnt. it was his 2nd or 3rd time. he says he isnt cheating but im not sure tbh. i asked him for his skype login but he denyed saying something about its his and wanting to keep it his. HELP ME PLEASE!!!!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: cheating boyfriend (long distance)
You are in shock from what you just discovered about your boyfriend. Dump Him NOW before the next thing you find yourself dealing with is his full on physical affairs, your shattered heart, and disease.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Can you help me find out his password?
cornie (not verified)
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Have you ever tried a psychic reading? I think my boyfriend isn't fully faithful. I want to ask a psychic if he is cheating me. There are many online psychic websites, like oranum, kasamba, or mysticly - have you ever visited any of them?
AnonyMan (not verified)
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cornie wrote:

Have you ever tried a psychic reading?

OR.. You can get the same results, but faster, by just flushing your money down the toilet.
DO NOT WASTE YOUR MONEY and these "for entertainment purposes" psychics!

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Can anyone help me understand what my ex was up too always hiding his phone and never on it when he was with me x
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Hi I need help to find out if my boyfriend is cheating but every where I go it seems like I hit a brick wall. I need to get on with my life I have been in this relationship for three years and its killing me... I have found some stuff but when I confront him he just manages to slither out of trouble he is very slimy to catch Sad
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
What does your "gut" tell you? Listen to it. I wish I had...
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Just for my info.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Hi there

I've seen your able to help and could really do with it, my boyfriend is hiding something from me using his internet browser on his phone and deleting the history whenever I'm around but doesn't delete at weekends when we are together it's breaking me apart as he's also lost interest in me in the bedroom department please help thank you

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Hi I've also now created an account so can receive responses thanks
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Hi-
Please help! mom of 3 young kids. I feel that I am wasting my energy trying to make our marriage work. I found porn n his phone before. I also found out that he lied to me about being at work when he was off. I have a very strong feeling that he is up to no good. He also gets spam and ads on his inbox about dating etc..PLEASE HELP!

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