Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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under n over it (not verified)
my fiancee is cheating online
Im positive my fiancee isnt cheating physcially with someone, but online im not so sure. We dont have a computer so we use our phones for everything. I dont care that he looks at porn, but i do care when im not getting any physical attention but once a month if that. Anytime he ask me to answer his phone or smething he always has 12 different things open and there always porn sites and things like meet moms who like to fk in your area. Heres my problem love love love sex and i've never turnd him down for sex i will give it to him anywhere anyhow anytime. So why does he feel the need to jerkoff all the time instead? He swears i still trn him on n says hes just tired n stressed.As a woman it makes me feel unattractive, undesireable. And its not because he has to do all the wrk in bed cause trust me he dsnt. I dint no maybe its all in my head, i have needs to n the fact that his hand gets more action hurts.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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What ever you do always make sure you keep within the law or you could add to your problems!!

Uploading spyware to your partners devices could well be illegal in many states so take care!

Really Mad (not verified)
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Last year I found out He was on live webcam sites, and voyeur sites. I caught him recently through his frequently visited site list, that he is on Chaturbate.com I'm so tired of this. It started when he was with his ex years ago, for many reasons. But when we started to have problems, he'd Sneek onto the couch in the middle of the night and v go to web cam sites. He only likes live porn. And amateur stuff. Now he's at it again. How can I catch him? He's only fooling himself.
Really Mad (not verified)
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And he knows I've caught him, but he won't confess. He even talks bad about cheaters! I'm going to end up fliping out. He's put me through enough as it is. HELP.
Really Mad (not verified)
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Really Mad wrote:
Last year I found out He was on live webcam sites, and voyeur sites. I caught him recently through his frequently visited site list, that he is on Chaturbate.com I'm so tired of this. It started when he was with his ex years ago, for many reasons. But when we started to have problems, he'd Sneek onto the couch in the middle of the night and v go to web cam sites. He only likes live porn. And amateur stuff. Now he's at it again. How can I catch him? He's only fooling himself.
I need to know how to find him on these sites. He lied about even watching porn! He said he didn't need it if he has a girl that he is into. Apparently it's not me. How do I catch him in the act?
Suze (not verified)
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Why do you need to catch him? It's clear that you are not happy with him and it is affecting your life, just break up with him FFS!!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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anacindadunk (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating on you
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Kennysherlock
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How can I trace my girlfriend's chats?
This new question has been moved HERE: can I track my girlfriend's chats?
jennnw (not verified)
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how do I find out if my boyfriend has dating websites out on the web? he keeps getting email from girls in russia and elsewhere and i asked the one girl and she said she saw him on a website,but didnt specify which one.since I dont have access to his home computer to put in the spyware you mentioned how do I scan to see which sites he may be on?These emails are getting annoying and giving me great insecurity about myself and our relationship. if anyone knows how I can do a free scan please email me at -email removed-. even though he says he loves me I cant get out of my mind that he may be looking for someone online. Plus I found one that he made while we were together and he tried blaming his brother. If anyone knows how I can scan his email on a certain website to find out which ones he may be on it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you, Jenn
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Start with putting his email addie in SEARCH - like Google Search. You can go on dating sites and make up a bogus profile - do not put up YOUR photo - then look around. Since he seems to be into foreign women you might look into sites that cater to that. But, still plug yourself into regular, common dating sites and look around those, also. Hopefully, you can find him and learn his user name. BEFORE confronting him, take screen shots and gather information of what you find, AND put his user name in SEARCH. You just might get instant results on where else he is 'playing'. Do this: "his user name" - put in parenthesis. You can do that with his email addie, also -- "his email addie". Results are more specific then.
Anonymous (not verified)
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She has been acting suspicius
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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can anyone help me to figure out his facebook password?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Why cant there be an app for that?? Make things alot easier for sure! If you actually do end up figuring it out and you log in I would make sure it dont show up somewhere like last login info unless your not concerned about him finding out you logged in.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Stupid
myself (not verified)
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please help
Loreedale
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My husband is always online and when I walk in he hurry up and gets off, I know he's doing something wrong,and now he's acting funny and stays in our room all the time. Please help
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

Online on what - a computer/laptop you have access to or a phone?
If it's a computer/laptop check 'History' and cookie and temporary files for some clues.
If it's a phone and isn't password protected you can check it's internet history, also.
There are always keyloggers but I would say stay away from the "Free" ones.
Lots of resource links online about how to do any and all of this.
I don't give details anymore because I have done so a few times in the past but have become weary posting the same thing over and over.
You might want to read prior postings.
Yes, it will take awhile but there are lots of good pieces of information already posted.

*One thing....make sure to take pictures of what you find.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Find out if your husband is cheating
How do I find out if my husband cheated on me?
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terry Seymour
Want to no if my man is secretly dating online
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Please help, I am becoming obsessed with this....
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your husband is cheating online
I've been married for 30 years my husband always puts me down always accuses me of cheating she's a very smart individual and he knows it too I have no self esteem even though Im really attractive unlike my husband he constantly accuses me of cheating just recently I found out he had sex enhancement drugs sent to his school he lies about everything I have no self esteem I am from a different country even doe we married for 30 years still not a citizen of the United States I even kill you a different name from my last husband I feel so bad and dumb I don't know what to do help someone help me please
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
if your husband is cheating online
hi Anonymous Visitor, the reason why tht he accuses you, is bcz he is Insecure, and jealouse of you, and bored of his life. he mistreat you bcz, you are foreigner. he knew, tht you can not defend your self and can not speak up for your self, bcz, its hard to pick up the words in english. you sd tht you are attractive lady, and you know you are not cheating on him,,,,here wht you can do, jst smile at him, ignore him, change all your outfit to sexy, smile a lot, listen to hip hop, be friendly, go meet friends and always think tht you are beautiful. you dont need to worry about not being you.S. citizen. if you have green card, you be find. if you have childrens you be find. if you are Immigrant, you be find. i used to be in your shoes, i also frm other country, unlimited english, unlimited understanding, when i changed my life style, i be came happier. (i divorced him 5yrs now)
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
reading deleted web browser history
is there anyway to reverse the websites after being removed from the history of Google Chrome?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
help catching my husband cheating online
My husband has been lying about his working hour as well as becoming secretive in several months. While he was on the laptop he would quickly switch website on the laptop. He doesn't have a smart phone yet I'd found he delete call on his cell phone. And the number that got delete got discontinued when I tried to find out its owner. I need help to track his email as well as other online activities (Facebook and other sexual webpages) so I have evident before I walkaway from him. We have 3 kids, please help!
Anonymous (not verified)
Re: help catching my husband cheating online
Did you read ANYTHING on the page above? It pretty much tells you exactly what you need to do.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Checking for Cheaters

Not always a good idea to install spyware on a partners devices in many states and countries this is illegal and would get you in serious trouble!

There are online discreet alternatives just search for 'Checking for Cheaters' or similar terms until you find an option you think might help you check out if your partner is faithful or not!

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Why dont we start puttin it out there and given the names of these cheaters thats how were going to catch them, otherwise its he cheated,she cheated, I am curious who these cheaters are so put it on blast ladies and gentleman. Thankyou
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Anyone in overland park ks that will help me see if my mans cheating on me?
beautifuldisaster (not verified)
Find out my husband is cheating online
If theres one thing that im sure of is that my husband is cheating but he's always accusing me. He goes online to different dating and sexual websites and he doesn't know that I've found numbers , emails, screen names and passwords in his pockets.I have been dealing with it for years and have never confronted him..cause he would never confess or admit to any of it . so here is my question..is there any program out there that I can download to his phone remotely and stays in stealth mode that is free? Important...remote install...free and runs stealth.thank you for any help. I just want my life back.I'll have the confidence I need to walk away the minute I have proof

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