Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
I think my fiancé is cheating
I'm supposed to get married soon but I can't shake this feeling that my fiancé is cheating...he's ALWAYS on his computer playing Runescape talking to people he always lays his phone face down and I can never see his what's on his phone he gave me his Skype password twice but both times they won't work for me his spam email is filled with websites about cheating hookup websites I have to force him to spend time with me I do not know what's going on but I can't get rid of this feeling he's cheating and I do not know what to do how can I find out I need to know before I marry him it's not like I'm controlling just pregnant and hormonal
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: I think my fiancé is cheating
Anonymous Visitor wrote:
I have to force him to spend time with me
Then why on earth would you want to marry him?? This sounds like a divorce waiting to happen.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
AshleyMadison.com email list
How do I get this leaked info from Ashley Madison I found several emails on my husband's account and want more info for my lawyer
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
AshleyMadison.com hacked email list
Type ashley madison list in Google Search......
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
ashleymadison.com
Ashley Madison isnt the problem. The problem is the men (or women!) that use it.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: ashleymadison.com
Obviously....BUT...giving the cheaters another place to do what they do best - CHEAT - is a problem. So, yeah, Ashley Madison is definitely part of THE problem. It's just like the in your face 'meat market' at a very popular fitness site that has an app for the phone ....
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
AshleyMadison.com data hack
and a lot of those men (and a few women) are really sweating right now!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
My husband is cheating with women online
My husband has been online 3 years with many different women our marriage is finished who wants a cheater and liar not me
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
is my husband cheating on me?
My husband's name is Frank
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
ashleymadison.com information

I think my wife was on ashleymadison.com looking for someone to cheat on me with. I heard that Ashley Madison was hacked and the hackers have released the list of members.
Does anyone know where or how to find this list of Ashleymadison users and email addresses?

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: ashleymadison.com information
Type ashley madison hack into Search - such as Google's Search -- lots of links come up.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I want to know if he has me blocked from his Facebook account
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

This should be extremely simple to find out all by yourself:
Log on to Facebook
If you can see his page, or search and find/see his account/page, you are not blocked
If you cannot see his page, or when you search it you do not see his photo, and instead just see an image of shadow-head, then you are blocked

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Cheating online
Mine does,with his phone all the time.Trying to catch hom out but it is difficult.He has a memory card files everthing on it .Takes it out at night leaves it at his work.Found do you mis me message on his cell phoned the woman it ended in a big fight I left my husband.But he is using the secret dialing from cell c.He gets voicecalls directly into his mailbox.He is still busy with the same woman.He is a Porn freek .When we fight he gives the phone back to me but there is nothing on it.Thinking of getting someone to help me.He tells everyone I am crazy and seeing things.At this stage it is getting worse because I lost my respect for him.Somedays I want to strangle him and just get him out off my life.He is a big liar klies about everything but his phone bills says a defferent story.He wants the evidence I have he is fooling around on the network.Did sign up on this Alyson maddison dating site cannot find him.It is very disgusting for me to see how many men actually cheat on their spouse .
merchelle valencia (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I am writting to you to tell you i do not want your service i am sorry but i decide not to do this and have trust in my husband i didnt even use your service i believe i owe you one dollar so you can take that but do not take any more money out of my bank i try find a phone number to call you guys but i couldnt fine one so please understand i do not want this service thank you merchelle valencia
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Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

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Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

I have been seeing an older guy for about a year and am falling for him but his internet behaviour is tearing me apart.

He links up with young women from overseas, Russia, Ukraine, Budapest, he calls them scammers but he proceeds to ask to see their breasts and send pictures, which they inevitably do as well as actually video calling on Skype!

He's also a member of numerous dating sites and appears to email and message random women until he gets bored or busy!

I know all this because he's says it's sport and giving them grief for trying to scam him.

He is extremely successful, HNW, divorced.

Is this sick or is it me? I feel like I'm being cheated on.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Have the same problem.Mine has a secret dialing on his phone .I think he saves everything on his memory card takes it out before he goes home.There us two numbers on private dialing one and two.He has a voucecall with a pin.When thet phone ut goes strait into his mailbox.Thats where it stays until monday.I found one cell no when i dial it sends a message to the person then they will call back. He also has passwords on his gmail.
Aussie (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Tell him how you feel. His secretiveness is making you feel insecure and unsafe in the relationship and you can't go on like that. You must be willing to be completely open with him - no secret email accounts, no snapchat, no facetime, no passwords that he doesn't know of yours. It has to be a two-way street - he has access to everything of yours and then you can ask for access to his. You both should have nothing to hide. If you don't get this openness from him then he is not the one for you. Don't waste your time on a relationship that you can't trust. ALWAYS talk to him and don't wait to "catch him out" - it's not a game. The idea is not to make him "the bad one" in the relationship. Just ask for what you want and don't be afraid to walk away if he can't give it to you. He is not a bad person for not being able to give you what you want, it's just that you want different things. Life is short and there may be someone else out there who will give you what you want:to feel valued, safe and loved.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Hi my boyfriend is cheating but not sure on how to access his Facebook and messages with out touching his phone. His always changing his phone passwords so it's really hard to acces his phone with out asking him and when he gives it, he makes sure that he deletes everything.. please help
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
If you "know" he is cheating then dump him, leave, and get yourself tested for STD's.
THert (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Could use help from someone with Kik to find out if my girlfriend is talking to other guys? It's really bothering me....
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
What should I do re husbands secretive behaviour online
My husband was online chatting to an old friend a couple of years ago. I found out by mistake when he left his computer open, a lot of flirting and he even arranged to meet up with her, but further messages proved that she didn't turn up, we live in Spain, he had gone back to UK for a hospital appointment, he was planning to sleep with her as I found condoms in his case before he went, he told me he was taking them back to his friend as he had left them last time he was over. Recently he has been behaving very secretly with his iPad, I guessed the passcode, not difficult, and to my horror he is chatting to people all over the world and sometimes quite explicit and lots kiss motifs
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: What should I do re husbands secretive behavior online
Sounds just like the ass I'm married to but not for long I'm going to show him the game is played
Aussie (not verified)
Re: What should I do re husbands secretive behaviour online
It's up to you. You need to decide whether you want to play "the victim" in your life story of if you want more. You need to be open and honest with your husband, call him on his bull-pucky-rooney-toot-tooty and TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT - whatever that is. Do you want to stay with him? Is he worth it? Is he really the man you want to be with or is it just too hard to leave? Can you stay in a relationship with someone you don't trust? What are you getting from the relationship and what are you losing of yourself by staying with him? Ask him what he is missing from your relationship that he is seeking elsewhere - maybe you can fix things if you want to. Don't give up on him until you are sure that he no longer loves you. Fight for him if you want to but don't sacrifice yourself for your relationship - he should want you as much as you want him.You are worth more than being a backstop to some guy who does not value you. To get your head around an emotional issue you need to write down what you are thinking and feeling. Include a list of why you want to stay with him or reasons why you should leave him. I hope he is just doing what he is doing for an ego-boost and once he realizes how much it hurts you he will stop. Good luck.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
If you want to catch your boyfriend cheating when hes sleeping take his phone try to go ob his email and put forgot password it will send a msg to his phone you will get a verification code and you will be able to go on his email and from there you can acces his facebook account go on Facebook on put forgot password tell send you a code to his email....
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Are you able to help I'm lost hopeless and sure he's to smart to get caught
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
He might be smart quite smart but most do get caught, eventually.
katie.oxo. (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Is my boyfiend cheating on me first time I used this I don't know what am doing so please if you do not mind help I need to now thanks
AnonyMan (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
First time you've used WHAT?

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