Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
My husband is always online and when I walk in he hurry up and gets off, I know he's doing something wrong,and now he's acting funny and stays in our room all the time. Please help
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Find out if your husband is cheating
How do I find out if my husband cheated on me?
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terry Seymour
Want to no if my man is secretly dating online
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Please help, I am becoming obsessed with this....
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your husband is cheating online
I've been married for 30 years my husband always puts me down always accuses me of cheating she's a very smart individual and he knows it too I have no self esteem even though Im really attractive unlike my husband he constantly accuses me of cheating just recently I found out he had sex enhancement drugs sent to his school he lies about everything I have no self esteem I am from a different country even doe we married for 30 years still not a citizen of the United States I even kill you a different name from my last husband I feel so bad and dumb I don't know what to do help someone help me please
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
if your husband is cheating online
hi Anonymous Visitor, the reason why tht he accuses you, is bcz he is Insecure, and jealouse of you, and bored of his life. he mistreat you bcz, you are foreigner. he knew, tht you can not defend your self and can not speak up for your self, bcz, its hard to pick up the words in english. you sd tht you are attractive lady, and you know you are not cheating on him,,,,here wht you can do, jst smile at him, ignore him, change all your outfit to sexy, smile a lot, listen to hip hop, be friendly, go meet friends and always think tht you are beautiful. you dont need to worry about not being you.S. citizen. if you have green card, you be find. if you have childrens you be find. if you are Immigrant, you be find. i used to be in your shoes, i also frm other country, unlimited english, unlimited understanding, when i changed my life style, i be came happier. (i divorced him 5yrs now)
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
reading deleted web browser history
is there anyway to reverse the websites after being removed from the history of Google Chrome?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
help catching my husband cheating online
My husband has been lying about his working hour as well as becoming secretive in several months. While he was on the laptop he would quickly switch website on the laptop. He doesn't have a smart phone yet I'd found he delete call on his cell phone. And the number that got delete got discontinued when I tried to find out its owner. I need help to track his email as well as other online activities (Facebook and other sexual webpages) so I have evident before I walkaway from him. We have 3 kids, please help!
Anonymous (not verified)
Re: help catching my husband cheating online
Did you read ANYTHING on the page above? It pretty much tells you exactly what you need to do.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Checking for Cheaters

Not always a good idea to install spyware on a partners devices in many states and countries this is illegal and would get you in serious trouble!

There are online discreet alternatives just search for 'Checking for Cheaters' or similar terms until you find an option you think might help you check out if your partner is faithful or not!

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Why dont we start puttin it out there and given the names of these cheaters thats how were going to catch them, otherwise its he cheated,she cheated, I am curious who these cheaters are so put it on blast ladies and gentleman. Thankyou
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating
Anyone in overland park ks that will help me see if my mans cheating on me?
beautifuldisaster (not verified)
Find out my husband is cheating online
If theres one thing that im sure of is that my husband is cheating but he's always accusing me. He goes online to different dating and sexual websites and he doesn't know that I've found numbers , emails, screen names and passwords in his pockets.I have been dealing with it for years and have never confronted him..cause he would never confess or admit to any of it . so here is my question..is there any program out there that I can download to his phone remotely and stays in stealth mode that is free? Important...remote install...free and runs stealth.thank you for any help. I just want my life back.I'll have the confidence I need to walk away the minute I have proof
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out my husband is cheating online
SMS tracker is on the google play store...very good app..just make sure you reall you do is install it on their phone and it stays hidden then you can check it from any website just sign in and everything is there.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out my husband is cheating online

Free? Is not something like this worth at least a few dollars to you? But to anser your question, I doubt you will find anything like that for free and depedning on what state you are in, such a thing could land you in jail.
If he has an iPhone, the answer is no..

Why do you need MORE proof when you've already found proof in his pockets?

sherica lytes (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I just hope that hes not cheating while im being faithful
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
sherica lytes wrote:

I just hope that hes not cheating while im being faithful

Probably is..if ya feel it then believe it hunny

Suthida Sapphamak (not verified)
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please if you do not mind help me I just want to find f my husband is cheating online
Anony Mouse (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

Start by helping yourself.
Did you read the page above?
Did you read all of the comments and suggestions below?

Adam&Eve (not verified)
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`I agree help your self he is F... You know what it means they don't care what you do all day long instead they give there attention to whores or manly whore and really it not matter any longer if he is or not.
Only i can say start find out where he is looking and then also create a woman or man with a different profile and seduce your self to him lie about it were you got his nr from or skype him the nr is not listed so he can find out who it is all has to be in a different profile a woman or man you create find pictures of people use it under the free not protected copyright and find out that way. thats all I do and then you see if he wants to Fu// then he cheats simple.
Adam&Eve

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I need a free website that doesn't charge me to search a email address to find out if I'm being cheated on
Wiser (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
If you want to get into someone's email and you have access to their computer, there are a variety of ways to use software and your smarts to access it. Scroll down further in this discussion and you will find some ideas. There is software to recover passwords on a computer so that you can get into the account, and there is also software (you probably would have to purchase it) that will log keystrokes.
Adam&Eve (not verified)
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All I like to say hi it's me again Adam& Eve please girls and guys get out of it it's not worth staying.
All so if you know he is why asking for help leave him or her they never change.
I'm working to get my live back my man just last week fr came home at 9 pm gone at 5:20 in morning he is the Forman for air conditioning
And I checked he lied again so nothing changes and I even can't be my self with talking or what ever it is he discriminate me he fights every word I say and he hides cheats lies even to police so why chould you think a man 57 years old is faithfull if he not already in this age you chould know what and whatnot you do when sharing live with someone I'm scared get aids or what ever he is trash and I am way to good for that person. Working on finding a home to rent in fact I thought all you people how about we helping each other to get out of it and in to a better live. Thus website could start to be the transformation of survive and not stay and let your baby's see that crowing up like there father isent a good thing. So how manny need a place a job a way to leave a car money maby we all could direct each other where we could find this I'm in Dallas erea I need a job and I need a home to leave that's all what about you all lets tzlk about escape a maniac manipulative person that is runnin you and your children I am 100% shure that they not change they sick. My dad did it to my mother he even beat the crap out of her if she would not do what he say so I say go to Hell.
Adam@Eve

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Me and my boyfriend have ben togather for 7 years, I love this Man with alll my heart, he is Mexican and im White, we have 2 kids togather both girls, and 3 more from past realationships but they were takin care of and loved by both of us as one big happy family, chava didnt speak any english, It took me almost 4 years to teach him, we moved in togather probably 3 months after we met, so fast forward everything, He went to work in utah for about a week he gets pulled over, went to jail, had another charge pending from 15 years ago, no d.l no ins. And 3months later march 2014 hes going back to Mexico hes illegal!!!!! I lost the man I love and my kids Dad, all in a matter of a couple weeks after he was transported to mexico, he can never come back, and 2 weeks and Later he just stopped calling me ? Its ben 4 freakin months what the hell or who the hell is more important than the woman that has ben there for you, and your kids? Cheating on me? Well let me catch him in the act!!!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
How do I know if my girlfriend is cheating on me?
I think that my girlfriend is still on some BS. I caught her talking to guys on several chat sites. She had a profile on plenty of fish (I was able to gain control of that one and her meetzur account). This happened a few weeks ago and I confronted her with it. We talked it out but I still have questions and I don't think that she is being truthful. How can I get her to finally be truthful about this?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: How do I know if my girlfriend is cheating on me?

Hi

I have read your post. I dont think a compulsive liar will ever tell you the truth. They are so soaked up on their unfaithful behaviour. They make it seem that everything is okay. But it clearly isnt. We become fools in this world we have created for ourselves maybe because all we want is a happy family, peace and love. We want the truth so badly that we start to hear and believe what we want to hear. And because we have created this fantasy delusion world for ourselves, we become so engaged in this cherade that we lose ourselves. We are good people. Only that we have been taken advantage of.

Wiser (not verified)
Re: How do I know if my girlfriend is cheating on me?

You can't "get" her to finally be truthful. If she's a sex addict, she's addicted! Addicts LIE to preserve their addiction.

When you discover your partner is a cheat and a liar, instead of trying to fix them or the relationship, you leave the relationship and work on your own grief process. You spend some time considering what attracts you to a person who is deceitful, or why you would try to "fix" someone who is so broken. Then you move on to find an honest person you can love and TRUST. Your recovery is all about recognizing that you are worthy of a sincere, authentic partner.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I think my boyfriend is cheating on me and I love to find out
Anonymous Visitorandy (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Find what web sites and puctures
Aner roberts (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Please find out that my man is cheating on me I want to as fast and Harry I believe that he

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