Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
If there arw girls msging you, once another girl msgs you and says they been with them tell them to continue with it and tell them to have proof, should work.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Search all Social Media?
Where do I go for total social media search?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
is my lady cheating please put my mind at ease
5years ago a friend told me my partner of 12years was on a dating site I didn't belive him and I was going threw the emails and found a website that my partner was in its called twoo I asked her she told me it was spam so I went and had a look there was her facebook photograph but it said she wanted to meet males ect and said she was single ect ive asked her again and she denise it so ive keeped quite about it I looked today and I no there was messages from other men that were there and now tho messages ant there im just lost for words how can I catch her out please help
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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My take is going online and hooking up with some psychotic S.O.B.- God forbid then more power to ya ! take your chances - no different than prostitution - have fun ladies or whoever monitoring the site !
HangingOn (not verified)
cheating husband
My husband has repeatedly over the last year been caught cheating 2 times on Plenty of Fish and once on KIK. He even came home with an STD he won't own up to getting after we got married. He has come clean about some of the cheating he did before we were married. Even owned up to sleeping with hookers. Lately his work hours match his paycheck but he isn't responding to my texts most of the time won't answer if I call and really doesn't talk to me unless he needs something. All the same signs he did before when he was talking to women online. Most of which were unattractive. I need to catch him again. What do I do?
EyeSpyU (not verified)
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EyeSpyU (not verified)
Re: cheating husband
We have designed and developed a site called EyeSpyU. We can help you achieve peace of mind if you fear your partner is cheating on you. We are certified Private Investigators who work specifically in searching and monitoring online dating website for you partner. If they have on on line dating profile we will find it. We are in the business of offering peace of mind. Please visit our website www.eyespyu.com and find out more. You owe it to yourself to know.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Caught my husband sending pictures online
I been married to my husband for 10 years, just caught him sending pics to someone on chat rooms. What should I do? I'm so pissed seriously.....
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I love to know how I can figure out if my husband is telling me the truth..Iknow that he was talking to the other woman on line.please help me to do something how I can find out what he is doing on line ,,I want to know how I can used this keylogger.hopefully I can will find it and I can rest my mind I am always guessing he is not telling the truth..please help me
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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dont worry dear,,if you r truthfull with your husband dan one day god will for sure made him prooved in front of you...he will be catched soon..dont worry
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Lately these past 3 months my boyfriend has been acting very weird & different. In January I caught him talking to girls & flirting while we went away for a couple days. He said he wouldn't do it again but ever since then, things got worse. Way worse. Lately these 2 months he's been so rude to me & disrespects me so much & he's on Instagram almost all the time. He goes on my Facebook & everything & he accuses me of cheating & hiding things from him but it's not me.. I think he's still cheating. He's done this to me 4 times through my pregnancy. I'm so confused about everything. He doesn't want to give me his passwords or even let me hold his phone myself when he shows me his things. I have a feeling he's talking to girls still on Kik & Instagram & does things behind my back. Please help ...
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Is watching porn considered cheating?
I just walked in on my boyfriend watching porn. I immediately felt torn about it because I make such an effort to spice things up for us. I do sexy photo shoots, send him videos, walk into the kitchen in lingerie, and yet he still needs to look at another women (despite being behind a screen or not) for pleasure. I understand if things were bland in the bedroom, but no matter how much I do, it is never enough for him. No matter how much I do, he will still be bored and not fully satisfied until he gets a peek of another woman. I don't know what I am supposed to do, This truly was an enormous insult and I'm having a hard time handling it rationally. Should rationality even fall into this equation? I think not, but at this point I don't even know what to do anymore. I've always laughed at my friends telling me stories about their partners watching porn and to be honest, I always found it to be very silly, to ever stress over something like that, since almost every man does it. However, once it happened to me, its as if a huge chunk of my self-confidence flew out the window. I admit, i haven't sent him a picture or video lately, but what am I supposed to think when three months go by without sending him anything and he's immediately looking for another source of pleasure. Its not fair. Its not right. I don't deserve this. He's perfect in every way except when it comes to sex, women, and pleasure. He's the only man that I look at and desire since 01-05-14. He's still the only guy I crave and I beginning to ask myself why? WHy would i want someone that isn't faithful to me? Why would I want someone that isn't fully satisfied with just me? JUST ME. As pathetic as this may sound, a piece of my heart actually broke I think. We've moved s far in life, and to find out something like this just sets us back, me back, almost to the starting line. My lack of trust in him has sky rocketed because of his lies and my lack of self confidence as grown tremendously because of his actions. He clearly doesn't like what he sees. If not that then at least not fully satisfied with that he sees, and this fact breaks me down. I thought I was enough. It turns out I never will be.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Is watching porn considered cheating?
I'm in the same boat with you girl. Its to the point where I get awkward in bed because I'm Wondering if he's thinking about the video... My boyfriend is perfect in every way except the online wandering eye. I hope things get better for you, I'm sure you're a beautiful, strong woman who deserves the best! Good vibes your way!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Is watching porn considered cheating?
He's probably looking at women who are more attractive than you. And he will be imagining screwing them when he is with you because they look better. Nothing to worry about.
Not Amused (not verified)
Re: Is watching porn considered cheating?
Seriously? You have got to be one of the biggest ass*oles in the world. That statement was totally rude, disrespectful and mean. If sarcasm is the flavor in which you prefer to fortify your replies, then I'd tend to think it would be on the funnier side of a touchy subject such as this. You should be ashamed of your self, but I'm almost certain you are not.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Is watching porn considered cheating?
BRAVO !!!!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Is watching sexy movies considered cheating?
I'm a bloke, and sometimes you just gotta have a little tug! simple as that. He won't be thinking about it in a disrespecting manor to you, he'll just be relieving some stress or something. Every guy masterbates, its a lie if they say they dont. Most grow up doing it, and even when married, or taken, it still is just something to do, heck its the easiest procrastination you can do!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Is watching porn considered cheating?

Hi there, in answer to your question, whether a man looks or thinks with lust (wants another woman or touches another woman), looking or touching its still the same, cheating! You are far too good for this guy, stop wasting your time with him, there is somebody out there for you, and you'll have him all to yourself and wont have to share him with anyone, move on and let go. In the bible there is a book called Job, in chapter 31 it says he chose not to look upon another woman, he made a vow, that is the type of guy every woman wants

God bless

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
i met someone on chat line lies all lies
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
How can I find a certain post number on this site? 183652 a lady wanted advice how to make an escape plan and I wanted to tell her what worked for me.
AnonyMan (not verified)
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Change your "Comment Viewing Options" (below the text on the page, but above the comments) to display 300 comments per page, then click this link:
Comment #183652 on this page.

But I'it doesn't look like the one you're looking for.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Hi I really need to get into my boyfriend iPad, a few weeks ago he left his iPad unlocked I looked through it and found some messages on his messenger account he has been sending explicit messages to another girl I pulled him on it and he swore to me he wasn't doing anything wrong so I left it at that. Since then he has changed his passcode on iPad and iPhone now I'm feeling even more insecure I mean if he isn't doing anything wrong then why has he changed his pass codes please help me this is driving me insane just want to know the truth. Look forward to hearing from you. Many thanks.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
look all I want is to know if there is any way of getting into his iPad now his changed passcode and believe me if what I suspect turns out to be true I will hit him where it hurts without a shadow of doubt. Many thanks.
Issa May (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
You already found things on his iPad and he lied to you about it. What else do you need?
Brittany night (not verified)
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I am 18 yeah so what I'm young, this is my very first real relationship, he is 23 and I am his 14th girlfriend!
Believe me it's not what you think,
He is the one who gets cheated on I did better research than the FBI!
Anyway when we we first started going out he had a high sex drive he was always hard with me! Now it's like he doesn't want to have sex?
He always says I'm tiered I've been at the gym, he makes a excuse up!
He is still the same in some ways I still see him every other day, nights spend at each others homes,
But he just makes me feel unattractive now that he has me,
Since he got his cell phone! But he lets me go through it the same with his laptop?
I don't know? Can anyone help me?

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Does anybody know if you can tell how long someone has been a member of Ashley Madison? Can someone explain how someone spend $1200 in one month at Ashley Madison.....how they charge their fees....the question is not whether he has cheated, it is for how long it has been going on......I just need to know because he lies straight to my face and I cannot trust his responses. Can anyone answer these questions???
isata mansaray (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I thinks my boo is cheating on me
sara dani (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Good girld, that like have fun, i like movies, i like clothing,i love music.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
My partner was chatting online
Hi my partner was chatting to woman on Google + behind my back found his profile found pictures of him topless in shower and in my bed found out bored ugly house wife's asked him to strip and sex text them told him they would be there to chat private and be his friend when I asked him why he went along with it he said it got out of hand and they convinced him it was just fun and nothing more.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: My partner was chatting online
WHAT IS HE A TRANS ???

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