Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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Wiser (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
If you want to get into someone's email and you have access to their computer, there are a variety of ways to use software and your smarts to access it. Scroll down further in this discussion and you will find some ideas. There is software to recover passwords on a computer so that you can get into the account, and there is also software (you probably would have to purchase it) that will log keystrokes.
Adam&Eve (not verified)
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All I like to say hi it's me again Adam& Eve please girls and guys get out of it it's not worth staying.
All so if you know he is why asking for help leave him or her they never change.
I'm working to get my live back my man just last week fr came home at 9 pm gone at 5:20 in morning he is the Forman for air conditioning
And I checked he lied again so nothing changes and I even can't be my self with talking or what ever it is he discriminate me he fights every word I say and he hides cheats lies even to police so why chould you think a man 57 years old is faithfull if he not already in this age you chould know what and whatnot you do when sharing live with someone I'm scared get aids or what ever he is trash and I am way to good for that person. Working on finding a home to rent in fact I thought all you people how about we helping each other to get out of it and in to a better live. Thus website could start to be the transformation of survive and not stay and let your baby's see that crowing up like there father isent a good thing. So how manny need a place a job a way to leave a car money maby we all could direct each other where we could find this I'm in Dallas erea I need a job and I need a home to leave that's all what about you all lets tzlk about escape a maniac manipulative person that is runnin you and your children I am 100% shure that they not change they sick. My dad did it to my mother he even beat the crap out of her if she would not do what he say so I say go to Hell.
Adam@Eve

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Me and my boyfriend have ben togather for 7 years, I love this Man with alll my heart, he is Mexican and im White, we have 2 kids togather both girls, and 3 more from past realationships but they were takin care of and loved by both of us as one big happy family, chava didnt speak any english, It took me almost 4 years to teach him, we moved in togather probably 3 months after we met, so fast forward everything, He went to work in utah for about a week he gets pulled over, went to jail, had another charge pending from 15 years ago, no d.l no ins. And 3months later march 2014 hes going back to Mexico hes illegal!!!!! I lost the man I love and my kids Dad, all in a matter of a couple weeks after he was transported to mexico, he can never come back, and 2 weeks and Later he just stopped calling me ? Its ben 4 freakin months what the hell or who the hell is more important than the woman that has ben there for you, and your kids? Cheating on me? Well let me catch him in the act!!!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
How do I know if my girlfriend is cheating on me?
I think that my girlfriend is still on some BS. I caught her talking to guys on several chat sites. She had a profile on plenty of fish (I was able to gain control of that one and her meetzur account). This happened a few weeks ago and I confronted her with it. We talked it out but I still have questions and I don't think that she is being truthful. How can I get her to finally be truthful about this?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: How do I know if my girlfriend is cheating on me?

Hi

I have read your post. I dont think a compulsive liar will ever tell you the truth. They are so soaked up on their unfaithful behaviour. They make it seem that everything is okay. But it clearly isnt. We become fools in this world we have created for ourselves maybe because all we want is a happy family, peace and love. We want the truth so badly that we start to hear and believe what we want to hear. And because we have created this fantasy delusion world for ourselves, we become so engaged in this cherade that we lose ourselves. We are good people. Only that we have been taken advantage of.

Wiser (not verified)
Re: How do I know if my girlfriend is cheating on me?

You can't "get" her to finally be truthful. If she's a sex addict, she's addicted! Addicts LIE to preserve their addiction.

When you discover your partner is a cheat and a liar, instead of trying to fix them or the relationship, you leave the relationship and work on your own grief process. You spend some time considering what attracts you to a person who is deceitful, or why you would try to "fix" someone who is so broken. Then you move on to find an honest person you can love and TRUST. Your recovery is all about recognizing that you are worthy of a sincere, authentic partner.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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I think my boyfriend is cheating on me and I love to find out
Anonymous Visitorandy (not verified)
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Find what web sites and puctures
Aner roberts (not verified)
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Please find out that my man is cheating on me I want to as fast and Harry I believe that he
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Help i know my boyfriend is cheating on me I need to look at his phone
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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What kind of phone does he have? If it's an iphone and you know his Apple ID and password go to teensafe.com It'll give you his current messages and deleted, also call log! And you don't need to touch his phone, he'll never know!!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Catch my husband cheating online
I Know he/my husband is cheating online but i have no idea how..to catch him, everything with his is private i don't have any passwords to phone/bank emails etc. help he has an iphone...
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Whatever the issue you have do take care you are acting legally in the state you live or elsewhere in the world.. Lots of legal options online...
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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I think my boyfriend is cheating he wont give me any passwords or look through his phone. What do I do. I just want to go in his email and see what hes really doin but I dont want him 2 know
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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It's easy to get into his accounts as long as you know one password of his then betting any money he uses the same for everything!. Tell him you want to open a joint Facebook account so that it will stop you from being suspicious but that he can use his old one if he likes. Tell him that it will stop you nagging at him and it's just for your piece of mind and that it'll solve everything, then whilst your making it just casually say, babe password? If he says you pick one tell him you always forget it and just pick anything, remember super casual and if need be pretend your thinking of one but convince him that you'll forget. He'll probably use the same one not thinking you would connect it and BOOM hopefully you will get in and get all your answers. I did!! All the best of luck and reply to let me know how it went
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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I can help you with that. I can search online for you for a small fee. Just send me an email and I'll explain the rest.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Hey can you really help with cheating guys?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Run away as fast as you can! If he follows with his passwords then you have nothing to worry about.... Look up Narcissism and see if it describes him. Good Luck!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
My boyfriend cheats on me

Hi

I have been cheated on numerous times. Every time it gets worse. I have suspected this a long time ago but whevever I ask (with proof), i get thrown every lie and every cover up possible. My boyfriend is from overseas and I am s mother of one. I have found e-mails, whattsapp, text messages, numbers that were erased, i basically had to become a spy. I sometimes feel as if I cannot do it anymore. when he went overseas (without me), and upon return, I checked the call logs, etc. Apparently, he had forgotten to log out of a website that he had created. It was an online web page seeking women of a certain category. I was appalled and he still denied everything. Now i have to deal with pictures of him that he took out of his private areas etc (God knows for whom??) of which he supposedly forgotten to delete off his phone at night. I also work night shifts which is a perfect opportunity for the cat to play when the mouse is away. i am in the medical field and I am a very strong woman. However, when it comes to matters of the heart, it feels as if one has dedicated their entire life to that person and what do you get in return???? Unfortunately social media, porn and other related sites are easily accessible which is a disadvantage to honest people.......
Thank you for your website... If only i had known earlier..

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: My boyfriend cheats on me
I am with you! it happens to me as well.... what about if we help each other to catch them?? like you add him and try to chat with him and I do the same with your boyfriend.. wouldn't be awesome we videochat with them and then join the conversation just to see their faces shocked?? LOL
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: My boyfriend cheats on me
Eh yeah!!! Totally want to do that!!! Mine lies all the time and full cheats! I just want definate proof that he deletes heaps of stuff! I'm totally in as I'm over it all now and want a complete clean break up without second guessing myself!
Busted you (not verified)
Re: My boyfriend cheats on me
Let's do that!!!! That would be amazing and gratifying! I would kill to see his face! Priceless!!!! Let me know what you want to do and we can exchange information and figure it out! Smile
melvb76K
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Member for 10 weeks 1 day
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Re: My boyfriend cheats on me
I think I told you lets do it but I dont know how to navigate thru this site very well and cant tell so holla back whenever and we can figure it out. i know its late but its the only time I can ever have quiet free time because dealin with kids all day
Wiser (not verified)
Re: My boyfriend cheats on me

You cannot change him. You can only change you.

You cannot expect a pathological liar to tell you the truth.
You cannot expect a serial cheater to be monogamous.
You cannot expect a sex addict to stop posting photos of his genitals on adult hook-up sites.

If you're tired of his behavior, get out of the relationship. What's the point of having a boyfriend like that? What you want is a man who is honest... or no man at all.

melvb76K
I am new here at GrownUpGeek.Com
Member for 10 weeks 1 day
GuG-Points: 9
Re: My boyfriend cheats on me
No man all is freakin awesome right now, I did leave and I totally wasnt trying to change him in anyway but for the better of himself. Aside from his deception and cheating I did care about him as the father of my baby girl and wanted him to be happy and tried to teach and show different ways of looking at things and how to handle conflict instead of being the one who creates it in hopes of not teaching my baby negative behaviors When I found out I think I might of had a tear almost come to surface but it went away I looked at all the things that factored into from his childhood and put my big girl pants on gave it the ol 2yr college try but I mostly did it for the nookie J/J but Really my advice to anyone who listens is Dont look to any man/woman to define your self worth and value as a person, know who you are and what you believe is right and wrong dont let anyone ever make you doubt yourself and feel less of a person. People that choose to be deceptive and sneaky continously obviously have no self worth and they dont value their self
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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His cheating
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Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Read private browsing history?

Hi all would like to know how to see what he is looking at on his iphone.
I found an email from a lady just saying hi but it was from hookup website . When I check his history there isn't anything there
I think he uses private before typing websites.when I caught him out before he says he didn't look at it kids used his phone. I work all day he's home alone I got to bed early he's up late .
It's driving me crazy . How can I access if he puts it on private.

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