Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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AnonyMan (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
First time you've used WHAT?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
@Anonyman --- the message is obviously lacking appropriately placed periods... I'm deciphering that the "this" she is using is *this type of site*.........
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Cheating on Ashley Maddison ?
Hi my partner has been a little distant lately and it's not something I would do ever I looked at his phone in his inbox messages it said new image so I clicked on it and there was a link so I pressed the link and the dating site ashley maddison log on page popped up but the message said Andrew which is his name could it be a pop up or by accident or do you think he's cheating ??? Answers accepted gratefully xx
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Cheating on Ashley Maddison ?
You could of clicked on Spam...but maybe not what with his name being mentioned. As much as you don't like snooping, it is time to do just that. Sign up at the Madison Ashley site using an alias and a new email - not the one you use for everyday use - then go look around to see if "Andrew" is really hanging out at that site. IF you find him there - or any other dating site - take SCREENSHOTS of what you find because I can guarantee you he WILL delete his profile in a CYA (cover your *ss) attempt. What you do from there is up to you...
katie.oxo. (not verified)
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please if you do not mind help me find out if my boyfriend james v. (wadey) thats his nick name he got red hair blue eyes thank you from bootle but lives in Yorkshire at minute
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

Put his name, phone number, any known email address, user names, nicknames in SEARCH - just like you would when searching for anything else on the internet.

At TINYPIC.com put his photo to see if you get any hits that way.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
yep, he is cheating on you. If my girlfriend wrote like a 10 year old and was dumb enough to think that making a post on some random website would let her know if I was cheating on her, I'd cheat on her too.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
If your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Once they have a sex addiction, and don't seek help, there is no changing them. To me, they're sociopaths who don't care who they hurt or have no remorse for their actions. You're only recourse if you want to be 100% sure and feel safe again, is to leave. You may say you love them, but do you really want to be with a man/woman who constantly cheats and betrays you? It will not get better. Mark my words. It only gets worse with more and more pain. You may think it's not cheating, but it is! Any kind of lust of that nature, other than with you, is cheating. They're cheats, and to cover it up, they lie...through their teeth. This is a very dangerous addiction to break. Think on that. I got out. He's still sexting, random hook ups on pof, in short, the guy's a pig. I deserve way better and so don't you.
Anonymous Visitor
Husband cheating
I want to know if I need to worry about my man cheating on me
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
If your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
And what if we don't have a computer? He's always on his phone..but he's got a password on it and never leaves it outta his sight....wish I knew how to get into that phone or his email..
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I caught my man cheating with a girl before, he lied about his age and everything. When I asked for him to come see me he juss said he will but never does. I NEED TO KNOW!
Anonymous Visitor Just wanna know (not verified)
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Please I want to know what's really going on. I have yo know please tell me or seee. Its killing me
tasha branaugh (not verified)
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Hi tasha branaugh i need a just a boyfriend right now
suria (not verified)
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I want to find out if my fiancee is cheating on me he lives in another country and we plan to marry next year.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
My husband has cheated on me with my freind actually married her n slept wit her and tried to make moves on my sister..@ this point we still married bt I hv a feeling his cheating again..idno if I'm crazy but at times I feel like cheating on him just so that he cn feel the same pain.. Hw do you catch him wen he deletes his messages and chats?
susan jean Anderson (not verified)
Re: Find out if my boyfriend is cheating online
I have a feeling my boyfriend is chatting to my sister inlaw because when she comes on line he comes on and when I go off he does but when I check he's back on and is on till 4 in the morning same as her and has my status invisible so to me his still off line she sent him a request to chat he told me and I said delete her but he didnt because when I go to my brothers place she's on her mobile when she see me she puts the phone behind her and wont look at me and has a funny look on her face I know she chats to him its A gut feeling I have and Im never wrong when I get this feeling her name is jane he changed his password we plan to marry next year. I want to know who he chats too before I marry
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I am engadged to my fiance since April 23rd 2013 and he has cheated in the past he says hes changed i just want to know if he really has changed or an i waisting my time
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
if your boyfriend is cheating online
I have been* engaged* April 23, 2013* he's am* wasting*
Cheryl Saxon Nitz (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Want to see activities
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Slime bucket husband cheating with two women one close by and the other in Finland. Slimy was put through grad school by my hard work and paid no mortgage, no utilities but evidently took care of himself and his pleasure using Facebook and google and other sites. Sometimes the internet sucks. But cheaters will cheat lie and use whenever and wherever they want.
khuoch (not verified)
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I want to find husband . If you can for me. And my name khuoch mao. Live in cambodia. So who want to ve my husband
touch sokna (not verified)
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Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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We are all in the morning boat here. I found dirty pics on my partners phone, he said it's just porn.... I know the difference between porn pics and selfies lol. He also had bookmarked on his phone an adult hookup website. Again he says it's surely because there's links to porn on there. That was a few months ago. I forgave him. Then last week I see he has received 2 emails from the same girl. There was like 20 pics. From selfies of her face to pics of her masterbating with a Dildo. He then proceeds to tell me again its porn. I'm sorry but this wasn't sent from a porn size. It was sent from a personal email. We have no sex life and he doesn't like intimacy at all. I love the guy but is it worth all the betrayal and lies???? That's something I haven't figured out yet. I know he hasn't cheated on me in person but he definitely has online. I'm 35 and not as nieve as he would like to thin. I'm lost....
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Honey I'm sorry but in my opinion it's not worth it you can sit there and what for him to change but it won't happen if anything it will just get worse sorry but it's the truth
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I feel your pain..nothing more hurtful than being betrayed by the one you love.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
one chick I watched on a site he follows looked like a f k ing monkey I had to laugh !!
Conscience2670 (not verified)
Ways to find out if your boyfriend is cheating online
I would say to email the girl back and say do you make a lot of money for the porn that you are doing? See what her reaction is, if she says yes then she's a porn star. If she says no then he's lieing! Don't let her know who you are, just say your a young lady looking in to doing porn. Tell her you saw the pics on your brothers (boyfriend) phone and he said it was porn.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
My boyfriend
i hope my boyfriend is cheating on me.he does not care about me and he does not want to tell me where he stay for four years
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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i met this guy for 4 years and we have 2 year old boy, My boyfriend he was the one who hate social networks i try to stop chatting.but now he is the one who loves social network and he is very secretive and he doesnt want me to touch his phone and he chatr with gals most and i dont trust at all
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
If your boyfriend is cheating online

He is probably online searching for a woman with higher than a 4th grade grammar level. Stupid girls are not sexy.
Bet you paid attention in class now, huh?

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