Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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Conscience2670 (not verified)
Ways to find out if your boyfriend is cheating online
I would say to email the girl back and say do you make a lot of money for the porn that you are doing? See what her reaction is, if she says yes then she's a porn star. If she says no then he's lieing! Don't let her know who you are, just say your a young lady looking in to doing porn. Tell her you saw the pics on your brothers (boyfriend) phone and he said it was porn.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
My boyfriend
i hope my boyfriend is cheating on me.he does not care about me and he does not want to tell me where he stay for four years
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
i met this guy for 4 years and we have 2 year old boy, My boyfriend he was the one who hate social networks i try to stop chatting.but now he is the one who loves social network and he is very secretive and he doesnt want me to touch his phone and he chatr with gals most and i dont trust at all
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
If your boyfriend is cheating online

He is probably online searching for a woman with higher than a 4th grade grammar level. Stupid girls are not sexy.
Bet you paid attention in class now, huh?

Busted you (not verified)
Re: If your boyfriend is cheating online
I believe you meant "pay" attention. If it were the past tense "paid" as you clearly wrote, then the original poster would have wrote correctly enough for your taste. In addition, you forgot an "a" before "higher". Remember back when you repeated 4th grade? Obviously not. The original poster was clear enough. Do not cast stones my friend or possibly you could stop trolling for how to clear your cheating behaviour on this site. Either way, don't be an a**.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend
my Name is Malaysia Cosand. I'm wanting to find out with my boyfriend is cheating , he doesn't call me like a use to. It sometimes , be a long time before he calls me and his name is TYLE WOODARD
Conscience2670 (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend
Go through his phone!
Kate Valentine (not verified)
Find a boyfriend
Who want to be my boyfriend?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find a boyfriend
I do
PeytonK (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
You can use a keylogger on your computer so that when he is on it you can see everything he does, including who he messages and what he says. You can't just download any keylogger because most have viruses so stick with a c++ download( means it is windows certified safe download). I use one to see what my kids are doing online but it works great for cheater too!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
yes but I really don't know how to download that hopefully you can send to me the steps how to download it and what kind of keyloggers need to be download--I will wait yoru reply.please and thank you,its really hard for me to know surely because my husband is really good in computer so hopefully you can help me thank you very much
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
if your boyfriend is cheating online
Thanks this will help alot
Kim Tuffin (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
As your disclaimer states you can only install this kind of software on a computer or device you personally own, as its illegal in many states and countries to do so on a partners!..If your partner is daft enough to be using you're computer he may also not be browsing privately so you might simply have to look at this history to catch him out (not sure how just google "look up browsing history in chrome" etc.)..There are also online cheater checking services that can run checks for you that are very reasonably priced!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
i am planning to marry my boyfriend of two years but here lately he seems really distant.
michelle (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
My boyfriend is cheating. I see him once a week now but he tells me he works till 9:30 pm. I've had many girls from Facebook say he's tried to get with them. I ask him but he says I'm crazy or there liars. Please help me I need to know.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
If there arw girls msging you, once another girl msgs you and says they been with them tell them to continue with it and tell them to have proof, should work.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Search all Social Media?
Where do I go for total social media search?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
is my lady cheating please put my mind at ease
5years ago a friend told me my partner of 12years was on a dating site I didn't belive him and I was going threw the emails and found a website that my partner was in its called twoo I asked her she told me it was spam so I went and had a look there was her facebook photograph but it said she wanted to meet males ect and said she was single ect ive asked her again and she denise it so ive keeped quite about it I looked today and I no there was messages from other men that were there and now tho messages ant there im just lost for words how can I catch her out please help
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
My take is going online and hooking up with some psychotic S.O.B.- God forbid then more power to ya ! take your chances - no different than prostitution - have fun ladies or whoever monitoring the site !
HangingOn (not verified)
cheating husband
My husband has repeatedly over the last year been caught cheating 2 times on Plenty of Fish and once on KIK. He even came home with an STD he won't own up to getting after we got married. He has come clean about some of the cheating he did before we were married. Even owned up to sleeping with hookers. Lately his work hours match his paycheck but he isn't responding to my texts most of the time won't answer if I call and really doesn't talk to me unless he needs something. All the same signs he did before when he was talking to women online. Most of which were unattractive. I need to catch him again. What do I do?
EyeSpyU (not verified)
Re: cheating husband
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EyeSpyU (not verified)
Re: cheating husband
We have designed and developed a site called EyeSpyU. We can help you achieve peace of mind if you fear your partner is cheating on you. We are certified Private Investigators who work specifically in searching and monitoring online dating website for you partner. If they have on on line dating profile we will find it. We are in the business of offering peace of mind. Please visit our website www.eyespyu.com and find out more. You owe it to yourself to know.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Caught my husband sending pictures online
I been married to my husband for 10 years, just caught him sending pics to someone on chat rooms. What should I do? I'm so pissed seriously.....
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I love to know how I can figure out if my husband is telling me the truth..Iknow that he was talking to the other woman on line.please help me to do something how I can find out what he is doing on line ,,I want to know how I can used this keylogger.hopefully I can will find it and I can rest my mind I am always guessing he is not telling the truth..please help me
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
dont worry dear,,if you r truthfull with your husband dan one day god will for sure made him prooved in front of you...he will be catched soon..dont worry
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Lately these past 3 months my boyfriend has been acting very weird & different. In January I caught him talking to girls & flirting while we went away for a couple days. He said he wouldn't do it again but ever since then, things got worse. Way worse. Lately these 2 months he's been so rude to me & disrespects me so much & he's on Instagram almost all the time. He goes on my Facebook & everything & he accuses me of cheating & hiding things from him but it's not me.. I think he's still cheating. He's done this to me 4 times through my pregnancy. I'm so confused about everything. He doesn't want to give me his passwords or even let me hold his phone myself when he shows me his things. I have a feeling he's talking to girls still on Kik & Instagram & does things behind my back. Please help ...
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Is watching porn considered cheating?
I just walked in on my boyfriend watching porn. I immediately felt torn about it because I make such an effort to spice things up for us. I do sexy photo shoots, send him videos, walk into the kitchen in lingerie, and yet he still needs to look at another women (despite being behind a screen or not) for pleasure. I understand if things were bland in the bedroom, but no matter how much I do, it is never enough for him. No matter how much I do, he will still be bored and not fully satisfied until he gets a peek of another woman. I don't know what I am supposed to do, This truly was an enormous insult and I'm having a hard time handling it rationally. Should rationality even fall into this equation? I think not, but at this point I don't even know what to do anymore. I've always laughed at my friends telling me stories about their partners watching porn and to be honest, I always found it to be very silly, to ever stress over something like that, since almost every man does it. However, once it happened to me, its as if a huge chunk of my self-confidence flew out the window. I admit, i haven't sent him a picture or video lately, but what am I supposed to think when three months go by without sending him anything and he's immediately looking for another source of pleasure. Its not fair. Its not right. I don't deserve this. He's perfect in every way except when it comes to sex, women, and pleasure. He's the only man that I look at and desire since 01-05-14. He's still the only guy I crave and I beginning to ask myself why? WHy would i want someone that isn't faithful to me? Why would I want someone that isn't fully satisfied with just me? JUST ME. As pathetic as this may sound, a piece of my heart actually broke I think. We've moved s far in life, and to find out something like this just sets us back, me back, almost to the starting line. My lack of trust in him has sky rocketed because of his lies and my lack of self confidence as grown tremendously because of his actions. He clearly doesn't like what he sees. If not that then at least not fully satisfied with that he sees, and this fact breaks me down. I thought I was enough. It turns out I never will be.
Aussie (not verified)
Re: Is watching porn considered cheating?
At the risk of stating the obvious: people are not all the same. In my experience there are 3 types: those who don't look/aren't interested in looking, those that look but would never do anything about it, and those who flirt and cheat.It sounds to me like you are type 1 and your boyfriend is maybe type 2. I am type 1 and my husband is type 2 and it can be hard. My husband looks at other women, both online and in public. I've never had a problem with porn/magazines because those women aren't "real" and don't threaten my relationship. I do have a problem with him looking at other women when I am with him because it makes me feel hurt, humiliated and disrespected. I told him this and he was upset to know that it hurt me and he no longer does it. Men respond,almost compulsively, to visual stimuli. He is NOT THINKING when he looks, he is NOT COMPARING them to you, if he has said he loves you BELIEVE HIM - don't waste your life thinking porn is more than it is. He is seeking variety and stimulus. Look up a thing called the "Coolidge effect". Knowledge won't take your pain away but it might help you to understand that he is wired to seek women and it's very hard to control that urge. Please just talk to him. Don't make him feel bad for who he is but let him know how you feel. Just as he is wired to seek new women, YOU are wired to seek security and safety in your relationship and what he is doing is making you feel vulnerable and hurt. Neither of you is wrong but don't give up on a good guy just because of porn. I watch porn with my husband now. He lets me choose what to watch (I don't like a lot of them because they can be degrading or violent) but it's fun to talk about what we like, to discuss our fantasy's, to laugh, and try new things. It has created more openness and honesty in our relationship and things have never been better. My husband now understands the pain he was causing and the effect his behaviour had on me - he was crying when he realized how insecure it had made me and he has promised to "be a better man". So far, so good! Give your boyfriend a chance to be a better man for you.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Is watching porn considered cheating?
I'm in the same boat with you girl. Its to the point where I get awkward in bed because I'm Wondering if he's thinking about the video... My boyfriend is perfect in every way except the online wandering eye. I hope things get better for you, I'm sure you're a beautiful, strong woman who deserves the best! Good vibes your way!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Is watching porn considered cheating?
He's probably looking at women who are more attractive than you. And he will be imagining screwing them when he is with you because they look better. Nothing to worry about.

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