Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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cheekychelss
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Please help me danielle
danielle_95x
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If you need to talk privately sign up to this website I will be able to help anyones boyfriend/husband in the act then send me a private mag here through the site
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please help me find out if my long-distance boyfriend is chatting and maintaining online profiles. Let me know how to proceed. Thank you.
danielle_95x
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Make up an account on the grown up geek website and msg me here
charlton (not verified)
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Are you a therapist?

buyer beware. there are all sorts of perps looking to get into your drama. you can look up my licensure and credentials online at the colorado department of regulatory agencies. i don't know that you can say the same for this person.

so, be wary. and, yes, i get paid for my work. don't you?

danielle_95x
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Unlike you I am helping others for free, maybe that is why you Re saying stuff because you are losing business, and as if I want to get into someone elses drama when I dont even know them, Im just helping out someone for the answers they are desperately looking for as I would love someone to do it for me and couldnt, Im helping cause I know what its like not to get help, I am a girl and they will know who I am when I talk to them privately so if they want to talk to me its up to them not you, I am helping these people out.
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Hey there sweet, are you still available to do this? I need some help.. Thankyou!
Jo (not verified)
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Danielle.. I desperately need your help!! I'm going crazy or he just lies!! Things are getting worse and worse.. It first started when he got a job waitressing. He would be home late. Trying to say he stayed after work waiting with this young girl until her parents picked her up. He was worried about her getting kidnapped because the Cafe was right off the highway. Something in me just didn't believe it. I have never seen young girls working there. Then my brothers ex started working there and she spread crap around town about how my man is always flirting with her!! Honestly, she has a baaaaad rep for doing anybody.. Then he would come home late high as a kite. Saying one of the girls at work smoked him out before he came home. We would fight all the time because I WOULD accuse him of cheating because he's been hanging with other girls and comes home whenever he felt like. Straight to the shower..He moved out for a few days and came back. I looked at his cell one night and almost all of his messages were deleted but a few. Some from his ex with her booty pics, a girl he was trying to hook up with right before he moved in with me, and a girl sent him her address asking him not to tell the people he was living with?? I don't know what that was about unless she f**ked him, but didn't want nobody to know about it. He quit his job, his truck broke down and his cell is broke too! He has a temper from hell! So now I'm providing EVERYTHING for the 4 of us. I have 2 kids. He takes my phone.. Hides in the bathroom for about 30 minutes each time! I have never in my life seen a man that has to s**t as much as he does. The earliest he comes to bed is maybe 4am.. God only knows what he doing all night. Sleeps until 2-3pm everyday!!! I feel like I'm raising another child.. He doesn't do ANYTHING!! Two nights ago... I looked at my phone history.. He deleted his FaceBook conversations with 12 different women. First time, I have ever seen anything because he always has the same pages open (craigslist etc).. I believe he accidentally forgot to change to private browsing. I think that is what he normally does. I asked him to open up his facebook and he blew up. Tearing up my stuff. Kicked 2 large dents in my car. Busted side mirror. He has no control over temper and now he is trying to fight me.. All because I want him to open FaceBook to see if he is talking to other girls. He refuses. Tells me I'm cheating on him which is why I am accusing him of cheating. Bull! I share everything. My passwords are saved at every site I go to. Everything I do, he has details. I do not keep things from him. I share my life with him. He tells me I'm crazy.. My thoughts are lying to me and he's never cheated. I need solid proof so that I can show him.. I'm not crazy.. He is a LIAR!! Made his mom hate me and I knew her way before I ever met him!! She was like a second mom to me and introduced us. I fell in love with him hard too, but damn my life has been chaos since!! Please help me put an end to this mess!
AnonymousVisitor
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You will not believe what I am going through. - hey I had a death threat recently by this bottom-meany-roonie ! be careful around these psycho's ! I caught him on the poon sites one night and he got passed ! once a liar/cheater always a liar//cheater ! If I could hire a PI I would but I don't have that kind of money - I am researching Malice I am a disabled Veteran with PTSD and other conditions I'm not going to mention on the internet - he has re-traumatized me. this p o s has been leading me on for over 1 1/2 yrs - up rooted me from my house near the coast - I won't go into detail - bottom line these lying Mf's need to be taught a lesson ! I fell in love too ! he seemed to be the nicest, sweetest guy and our sex was what I thought to be and according to him fantastic, - up until about 2-3 months ago things have gotten really bizarre ! I spent New Years by myself - no phone call - we were fighting at the time but still how cold ! So he shows up with Christmas gifts (I spent that by myself as well) and everything is supposedly hunky-dory. Yeah right !! He has been talking about sharing me with other guys (don't get me wrong I'm not a prude) doing my handyman, you name it -oh yeah found Secret Encounters and other women's names and numbers in his phone too -I won't confront him about it especially after he broke his phone one time literally tore it apart after I asked about a certain chick whom I was told he spent New Years with ! NOT GUILTY ! WHAT THE HELL IS IT GOING TO TAKE ??? go on the porn sites it will make your head spin - no wonder there is so much divorce and deceit going on !! Ashley Madison site says "Life is short have an affair" !! really ???!! sometimes I want to beat their white trash crappy asses ! I have been in the military and worked for the government - I come from a decent family - my trust for men has diminished ! If I decide to ever date again I will definitely do a background check and not "put out" until I know for sure they are genuine !! Are there any decent men out there ? I'm beginning to wonder ? oh yeah just for the record I met him through his half sister whom I thought to be a somewhat decent individual (only reason I went out with him in the first place) only to find out what a scumbag he is ! successful business people, he stumbled on an inheritance from his parents if they only knew how he conducts himself then again maybe they acted the same who knows ! bottom line I have sown my oats I am 52 yrs. old he is 59 yrs. old and acts a infant/man-child ! where does this crap come from ?the way their raised ?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
if your boyfriend is cheating
And let me just say being a woman is a beautiful thing and you know it deep in your heart but just like anybody else we all need proof and they call me the mistery woman and if he is really cheating r tring to cheat we can catch him for sure and me sayn don't worry its easier said than done i need a name and number and you will have your proof
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How do we get ahold of you.
danielle_95x
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Send me a private msg on here you need to have an account, msg me and we can get started.
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Will you help me danielle?
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i need some help ma'am..
charlton (not verified)
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Are you licensed to be "helping people"? buyer beware. there are perpetrators like this woman all over he internet. you can check my certs and credentials. be WARY. you get what you pay for.
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Ther is no payment needed for my services i think everyone should know who they are dealn with .
AnonyMan (not verified)
Finding out if your man is cheating online
All she is doing is offering to help catch men cheating by sending them emails from a fake female profile. Do we need a license to do that now? And, she's not charging anything to do it, so I don't think "buyer beware" applies here.
charlton (not verified)
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and what i have said over and over as a professional, which i won't repeat again after this is: if your relationship has degenerated to the place that you are hiring (paid or not) someone to "catch" your spouse, then 1. YOU have serious issues personally, 2. your relationship has serious issues 3. either you get professional help or it is doomed 4. buying into playing some game to catch him is only perpetuating the malady. until you step into a mature place of addressing these issues and the causes and conditions - YOU will get sicker and sicker. 5. YOU ARE HARMING YOUR CHILDREN. and for that i will be vociferous. you are directly harming your children by playing these games. sh*t or get off the pot.

i am NOT saying that this is terrifying, scary, hurtful - especially when you do find out... but if your level of trust is so shot that you're on this site you need help. YOU NEED HELP. period. i don't care if you speak to me. go get help. and don't tell me "we can't afford it" cause not getting help heads into divorce and other sickness - physical sickness. these are scientific and medical facts. costing you far far more in the long run by NOT addressing this sickness.

i wish you all well.

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Anyone who needs me to play their boyfriend / husband send me an email at {email removed by moderator} this is my fake email so this isnt my real name, will talk to you privately thru email.

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I really need help because he lies so much and now has hidden all access to his apps and I have asked him what tumblr was because I saw it connected to his account as many other apps and accounts.
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Find out my husband is cheating

Hi

I have been married for almost 10 years - my huband is a civilian contractor at Bagram AFB in Afghanistan he has been working there for 3 years - he is home 2x a year less than 13 days each visit . I am home alone raising our child who has autism - I am a licensed Clinician in behavioral health so I do not the lecture of seeking therapy - I need to find out what is going on with husband for peace of mind !!! We speak 1 x a day for less thsn 10 min it is only to " take care of business" . I see he has a Facebook acct but i am unable to hit friend request on his page - i know he was extremely active Facebook with everyone but myself and my son because at one time we were friends so i could see some of his posts --

He has several phones iphones adroids ... He has multiple phone numbers i only know one its a Magic Jack -- i know clearly there is something going on he is always on words with friends n all his linkedin contscts are woman .

I need to know how to actual proof in hand -- with no access to his phones , pc , tablets or majoc jack numbers and skype .

When he gets mad i will receive a text from a hookup sight from a user - he will respond in text with a different user name than the text i forwarded asking what this text was about n if he was screwing with me - he denied any knowledge - yes lie i know .

Who can i hire to search every nook n cranny of the web for his activity ?

Thank you

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Find out if my girlfriend is talking to other guys
I know my girlfriend and soon to be wife was talking to other guys before but said she wasnt anymore and said she wasnt talking to them anymore how can I possibly find out so I don't make the mistake and marry her
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: I think my husband is cheating on me
I am desperate and PARANOID about this matter.Please give me an idea to hack my husbands email account?Can somebody do it ofr me?This is for good purpose and I am a very loyal wife since we got married an i love him more than anything else in this world.But i dnt get the same feedback i expect from him.Please do help me some one?
charlton (not verified)
Re: I think my husband is cheating on me
if you are THIS distrusting of your husband, you desperately - YES DESPERATELY need therapy. for you individually and for you as the couple - with him. have you been in other relationships where "he" cheated? did your father cheat on your mother? have you ever had any therapy? i am a therapist practicing in Colorado, USA and have vast experience with betrayed spouses and saving marriages.
R.U. Experienced (not verified)
Re: I think my husband is cheating on me
So. It appears that your advice to all the hurting souls in desperate need of answers on this blog {concerning the possibilities of weather or not these so-called-men (or women) they have wound up with, are practicing adulterous situations that either began or are continuing over the internet} is that they HAVE TO go to therapy. That sounds like a wonderful idea! But...Gee whiz, the only thing wrong with THAT, is that a vast majority of the people who appear so desperate for answers, and have become OBSESSED with catching the accused are far beyond the point working it all out in an office somewhere for $50-$150 per hour. Because God only knows they can't afford that, what with husband/ wife of the year spending that much online with the whores they so DESPERATELY want to be with. No. What they came here for was proof. And for what they have been through, I think that this blog's purpose of helping the not-so-computer-savy find ways to seek the truth , is a tool for getting then closer to divorce court with evidence in hand. If you look back at a number of the questions asked or situations explained here, NOTHING could be more of a recommendation than to remove these toxic philandering wastes of flesh as far away from themselves and their children as possible.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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I don't know what to say here
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if my husband is cheating online
Can I just read his emails?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
How do I catch my boyfriend?
hi ive been on here before about my boyfriend being on chat sites, but now he's good at keeping his phone super clean and this time I think he is seeing someone at work. and I know I know why don't I leave him well I have two kids with him and I want them to have their dad in there lives plus for me I need to catch him. A month ago we got in a huge fight about me working there, he came up every single excuse in the book to keep me from applying even started screaming over me when I said just let me try, put a good word for me in whats the big deal. No he got very defensive about it and got violent. there has been a time when I called his work the girls on the phone were rude asking whos this and what do you want. and when I told him he stuck up for them. theres another time I caught him texting a girl from work, he said its about work nothing else but then he deleted the text message. he also always seems to get off super late even though he opens all the time. this valentines day he got me chocolates and a stuff animal I told him thank you and showed him I was super happy even though I said no chocolate but its like he didn't care. the next day I found gift bags in the back of the car smaller ones then my V-day gift. I said why did you buy these he said I bought them before I got your gift,there was also a bag missing from it. am I being paranoid or does it seem like hes doing something. please someone tell me what to do how to catch him. or tell me shut up beeeiotch or help me. I read online when I guys cheating they act aloof, start fights, becomes secretive, and violent that's my boyfriend and now a week after valentines day hes been showering me with gifts. not complaining about that but it seems like hes feeling guilty about something??
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: How do I catch my boyfriend?
Where did you read that ? my ex boyfriend has started getting violent !
charlton (not verified)
Re: How do I catch my boyfriend?
going to be blunt: get therapy. individual for you and couples with him. do it NOW. spend the money on a therapist or a divorce/custody arrangement. your paranoia is out of control. not to say he is not cheating. but you are OBSESSED. this is COMPLETELY unhealthy for your children. yes - YOU ARE HARMING YOUR CHILDREN. fact. i am a therapist practicing in CO, USA specializing in helping couples through betrayal and have helped stave off more than 100 divorces.

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