Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your husband is cheating online
Can you update with the progress of yours? I am having the same issue. I want to hack his email account.But i dnt know a way to do so.Please help me if you know anything in hacking or who could help me in that matter.. Thank you
Anonymous Visitor in PAIN (not verified)
i need to know if my girlfriend is cheating!
Hey I am from Perth, Western Australia. I am a 23 years old MALE and have been seeing my Girlfriend for almost a year and i think it's time i found out what she actually get's up to when she goes out for "stays home" not only am i worried that she has lied to me, the fact is she has already lied about her feelings for certain other guys and frequently goes out to the city and parties with her close friends who seem to keep everything from me as i am not EVER invited to any of these events or "parties" I just want to know what's going on, i want to know if she loves me i seriously don't care if she has made a mistake in the past, although if she is currently and continuing to cheat on me i will dump her straight away and make it well known that she is a cheating low life. She literally makes me feel awful so much of the time that when i'm with her i am happy to an extent, although i am also very upset due to the fact she CONSTANTLY be-littles me and says i am "scum" or a "junkie" etc. If anyone knows ANYTHING that can help me find out the TRUTH, I BEG YOU PLEASE CONTACT ME AND I _W-I-L-L_ REWARD!!! YOU!!! thanks, Smile By the way i am crying right now ( I know it's sad! but i LOVE HER more than i have ever loved ANYTHING) so please! Please! help me!.... OH and i'd like to know where she is sometimes is there any sort of software/apps i can use to track her in an emergency E.G... thanks again ..
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I need to know.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Catching your boyfriend cheating online
I'm the type seeing is believing ! however I don't want to risk my health or safety ! these bottom-meany-roonies aren't worth it. - been there done that. ! I've been to jail because an ex was messing around on me could stand the beeeiotch he was ducking either - I just pray to god I get the strength to take care of my health I relapsed because of the crap I've been dealing with and three good friends who stopped talking to me because of this jerk ! its just difficult because I thought he cared about me when he only gives fudge about himself and his Dick ! up until recently he started talking all this shut about sharing me and talking some really nasty shut - don't get me wrong I'm all for having fun in the sack but because he's been looking at porn - I'm pretty he's been chatting and possibly hooking up with these some of these shanks as well, for him the nastier the better - on top of that he's always saying how horny he is. And masturbates daily. A red flag for me in the beginning I wasn't comfortable with. - I know guys do it but this weirdo takes it to the extreme. Not good ! hope this helps. I'm trying to get counseling and support to break this cycle ! And regain my self respect and dignity again. Good luck !
wjenn (not verified)
Accessing deleted Facebook conversations
I feel like I am losing my mind.Even when people tell me things that my boyfriend did he always comes back with some lame excuse. If someone likes dating sites and screwing around on the side than they shouldn't drag someone through hell and back..wondering whether they could trust them or not. If its more than one person making claims its most likely that what they are saying is true. Not everyone in the world is trying to break up someones happiness. Anyway,this site has helped me alot. Sometimes knowing that your not alone makes you feel better. I have my boyfriends facebook password and all,but before he went to the service he would delete the entire conversation so I wouldnt beable to see it. Does anyone out there know of a way that I could retrieve them? I have the password for his email also,but mostly everything was erased beforehand. If anyone knows how I could access deleted facebook conversations it would be greatly appreciated
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if my husband is cheating online
Need you to check if my husband is cheating online Thank You
Fed Up (not verified)
Re: Find out if my husband is cheating online
This thread, and a vast majority of it's comments, are all (in some way or another) here to help YOU find a way to make it possible so that you can make your own discovery of possible infidelities you might suspect your significant other of committing in a technological manner; weather it be through hidden emails or the resurfacing of advertising of pornographic web sites, or seemingly harmless social media sites such as MySpace & Facebook,or hook-up sites like AdultFriendFinder.com that lead to chat-rooms (some with live web-cams)...all hurtful things for anyone to discover their partner participating in without us necessarily giving them a green light to do so. It's cheating. When you ,or anyone else, engage in sexually gratifying behavior on a computer or in person, with someone OTHER than your partner...it's cheating. So, to find the answers to the any questions you have about your partner's indiscretions, and how you may go about obtaining the right tools needed for these discoveries, by either the people who have been there before and have successfully gained access to the secrets lives their loved ones thought they could get away with living behind thier backs, or the beloved Geeks/Nerds who've made it easier for you to obtain this knowledge on how to unlock these secrets yourself are all located right here for your convenience. But...YOU and only you know the questions you've been so worried about finding answers to up to this point. Ask more specific questions on internet based offenses, in particular, and I'm fairly certain that you will find your answers here sooner or later. Good luck...
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if my husband is cheating online
Internet based offenses. ? please explain. I can't do those apps that help you access their computer because its against the law. Were not married - I have seen his name on Freecam commenting on one of the many schanks out there I know he will never admit it but to have the proof help walk away from this and throw it is lying cheating face would definitely help me get some closure and walk away once and for all. I can't help I have deep feelings for him and he knows and besides its another great piece of ass right ? any advise would be appreciated - fyi he goes by the name "trey".
Fed Up (not verified)
Re: Find out if my husband is cheating online
Meaning exactly what you've just described about F Freecams....my jerk fiancé goes on Chaturbate and THAT is what I was talking about. How did you see his name on the site your talking about?
Random Internet Stranger (not verified)
Re: Find out if my husband is cheating online
Ok.. And, just who did you think was going to check on this for you?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
I think my girlfriend is cheating on me
I am wondering if my girlfriend is cheating on me. We live together and barely have sex anymore. She reads all day. She reads romance novels like 50 shades and stuff like that. Any advice?
AnonyMan (not verified)
Re: I think my girlfriend is cheating on me
Anonymous Visitor wrote:
Any advice?
You need to be talking to HER about this, not asking a bunch of strangers on some random website. If you are unable to communicate with her or work this out, then get out of the relationship now unless you want to live the rest of your life this way.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: I think my girlfriend is cheating on me
Oh really! lol where is the guarantee that his girlfriend would tell him the truth? I mean how many people would actually admit that they were cheating? How many times I was using my communication skills and none of my ex boyfriends ever admitted that they were cheating till I caught them doing it! Do you know what usually happens in 99.5% of situations when they start realizing that you suspect something? They just keep doing it but they become extremely careful.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
If your girlfriend is cheating on you
Its kinda hard when their playing games with your head and your heart and aren't man or woman enough to give you straight answers !
diannaa95 (not verified)
Re: I think my girlfriend is cheating on me
Thats not going to work with every boyfriend/girlfriend Ive had three past relationships and asked them they were good liars ir I was just in denile, either way asking them isnt going to work for everyone and easily said then done most of us our last option is asking strangers who have experienced a way or how they found their partner cheating, and btw I am not the person who posted about the girlfriend cheating
diannaa95 (not verified)
Re: I think my girlfriend is cheating on me
I understand what you are saying but a good liar and a cheater is not going to tell you, Ive had three long distant relationships which i came to them and asked and you would swear they were telling the truth, most of us come on here because this is our only option left on finding out. Not every boyfriend/girlfriend is going to work just by asking them. Btw i am not the person who posted about the girlfriend cheating.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: I think my girlfriend is cheating on me
Promiscuity sucks. Its proving it that is difficult part. - either I'm in denial or really ducking stupid. I'm just stuck in my current situation. ! manipulators/psychopathic liars - not sure how much more I can endure. -
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: I think my girlfriend is cheating on me
I am asking as we have communication issues sometimes. It has been up and down for awhile but nothing bad as of late. I think it may be my own insecurities but would like to make sure.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: I think my girlfriend is cheating on me
Any more advice anyone?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
boyfriend's website history
my boyfriend claims that he has never gone to some of the web sights i have found in his website data. if these sights are listed in his website data some more then once does this mean he has accessed these sights
AnonyMan (not verified)
Re: boyfriend's website history
I dont know what you mean by "website data". But if you are looking at his browsing history, and you see websites listed there, then someone on that computer went to those websites. It's possbile that they were web-based browser pop-up ads, but if you see multiple pages for the websites being visited, then someone was viewing/clicking around on those pages. Also, it's a site.. Not a sight.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
This is fun
Anonymous Visitor
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Wtf!!!! I dont get it!! why does a man have to constantly look at porn?? Im right effin here!! I have needs n wants n desires! He looks at big girls with big boobs or old women... Makes me feel as if im not fat enough or my boobs rnt big enough (im a d cup) or im not old enough!! If i dont turn him on anymore than say it!! If he just wants me arnd to take care of his kid n the house n help pay bills than fkn say so n il b your rmmate n you cn pay me to babysit!!! Im gng to b 40 this year i cnt do this nemore. Someone out there will think im pretty, desirable, satisfyn n goid enough n wont feel the need to jerk hisself all the time n neglect me!!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
He probably wants a woman that can speak and spell at higher than a 4th grade level.
Anonymous Visitor
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Really??? Grow up! I was shorthanding some of my words as i usually do if im writing alot! And hes not cheating! He has issues because of his age n medical problems! And dont comment on pplease questions n statements if your just going to put them down or make them feel worse than they already do!!
Samual L Hackson (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

The anonymous poster was probably being mean but there may be a grain of truth/wisdom in what he said. Maybe your man's issue with you is deeper than just how pretty, desirable, or "satisfyn" you are. Perhaps.. Maybe.. He is wanting someone deeper, smarter, or better educated (or higher-class, or something more than just skin-deep looks). Of course he's not going to find that at the pornwebsites, but he may only be looking at those because he is disconnecting from you.

Don't be so fast to get offended by what someone posts and beware that the truth may end up being a put-down, or make you feel worse than you already do.

My opinion is that you should stop whining and complaining, break up with him, and move on to someone that appreciates you for who and what you are.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
When your boyfriend is cheating online
And where might that be ? when most guys think with their dicks ? and yet we get called castrating beeeiotches !
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Um first off i didnt say i was pretty or desireable or classy. I no looks arent everything trust me. If i was that kind of person i wouldnt be with him. And second im not whining, n im very educated and respectful, third all i was doing was venting. Im sure im not the only one with this problem, and if you read my whole reply you wouldve seen that it came out that hes having issues because of his age and medical issues hes had his whole life. Were going to a doc to see what we can do about it. All i was saying is nobody or no relationship is perfect and people need to stop being so quick to end relationships andwork on them! Like i said hes not cheating, and i dont care about the looking at porn i watch it with him. If hes having issues with me than he needs to tell me and he did after i posted my rant. Things are being worked out, im old fashion i dont belive in running from a prob or a relationship if it can be worked out. If you love someone you work on your probs with that person.. If he was cheating i would be gone cause thats not something i belive can be worked on. So unless you know me or the other women or men on here having probs with there boyfriend/girlfriend theres no need for put downs, or telling someone there not good enough for someone. Everybody has issues and prob n nobodys perfect and when i came to this website it was to see what everyone else was going thru and to get input, not to be put down or made to feel bad about myself or my situation or be told im not pretty enough or classy enough or smart enough. So thank you for your input but dont tell someone what they arent if you dont no them.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
i really need to find out if my boyfriend is on any other sites
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I think if he has facebook check his recent friends who are added and also i think we ladies need to help each other out just try playing him if he is interested fake profiles doesnt so justice when ya got a real person do help and vice versa Smile plus you should research a lot of websites about dating i you can check his bank account to see if he was in dating websites cost you money match.com eharmony, lavalife etc.

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