Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Over two years here and still no trust.

Do not take lightly what she did since if it was something that could be so simply disregard like yesterdays newspaper your trust in her would not of been destroyed.

Trying to "pretend it didn't happen" will not work.
It WILL surface at some point.
Actually, the fact that you have no trust - and know it - is proof enough it IS right up in the forefront of your cognitive thought processes.....

Shay (not verified)
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Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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I just recently realized what a jerk I was lying next to every night...then the ass uses my phone. Frugal cams, fubar, singles bee, adult friend finder....you name it... then his id: is -REMOVED- After 9 years... I just can't get over this shit for real
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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wow sorry about what you had happened same things at my place its sucks and really there is nothing you can do only quit relationships or continue and hope God will direct her or him
Anonymous VisitorDonna (not verified)
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I know how you feel. I caught my husband emailing sluts on craigslist. Destroyed my whole world. Trust is gone. I ve changed. Not for the good either. My mind is so messed up that I don't know what to think or do. I doubt everything all the time. My heart an soul was ripped out.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Hey I have reading on your comment I really have been true this shit they other day he is an superintendent and good money works in office tract him with the iPhone and then he buttdialed me and I heart him with a beeeiotch freakin and then he said to a other dud thanks bro and the man said no problem so people that do commercial air and pluming really freakin around all the time I promised that I play his game get me an investigator and then I will legally take everything away and leave his ass I was merit and I cuteness same shit and this time I will fucked up I'm so deprest and they say it's in your head you crazy and shit and there they go and need to fudge someone In they ass or what ever they do because why not because I'm not good looking I'm a good cook do anything I'm a nature person would give you everything and no they got to be fudge offs cheaters liers stealing and destroying everything you have and then they come home and say what's wrong baby that right there really I got to hold my pain inside and wait because payback time is sweet and today I swore to do this for real. T.k.M
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Me too the same feeling and really that all sucks and now really I like this Idea to start a online community that is going true similar things like we do and feel and live with and live by I think that would be help all of us to talk about this ad to find answers that might would help someone out there or at least direct them in a better direction. What I have found out is that a lot of man and woman's using the dating sites which is contacting your phone to hookup and have sex and that's it. I don't understand that they all out there cant stop cheating It hurts and you trying not to loos it and you started to investigate to snoop to see what really is going on with your lover and then you see all of it and cant not prove it sucks because they do not admit it as long as you cant prove anything you need to be quit and wait and get an opportunity save money for a investigator would be a lot of money I wished Cheaters on TV COULD ALL HELP US
T.K.R. (not verified)
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Yes you right I have allot of knowledge on Investigations of cheaters I know what places they hang I also know there are Nr out there you call on the job site and they bring escorts bring one and you can do it and then you just continue working they got a truck and all the cra[p I know because I recorded it. There are so many things involved in to this that really we all need help from a news TV show like the one in Fort Worth we all should also trait our Nr phone Nr or so I’m not scared seen my dad doing the same shit to my mom I m tired of the woman place them self’s like that and man for taking opportunity to this shit I really like to get something going of cores we all can’t tell our spouses we need to find the time to do this I am in.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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I have tryed cheaters and nothing happening I have been merrit before 15 years cheating on me too and now this one I'm with we are to gather about late 2009 and I fell in love and thought he too and things we have been crowing to gather and now the dark side that's what's sucks with them cheating on us saying I love you love you that isent love they sick and need help all of them I would really like to tar jet the porn industry and yes that is how they do it escort services also can support that I almost became a CSI and instead I finished in com tech and art in images and I have so many things done true this I also created another person that don't exist and contacted him over the internet I took over his online crap and I still know he uses random crap and escorts and Holmes maby on the street or what ever I right now have no car no nothing to prove all of it I got recordings also that been tecorded on existent buttdiling i have knowledge over the whole thing and what where they go and how you can go on to his crap too all I need is getting everything going home and shit and live and my business power I need power to pay back or I'm a victim of the crazies for real. Insanety is the word doing something over and over and over again expecting a difrent result is insanity
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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I know how you feel. My husband is constant on dating web sites and always comment on woman's status. He quit facebook, so he said but he was lying and my heart and soul is totally ripped out as well. I don't know what to do because I can't trust him.He is lying from January 2013 and every time the same old story with different woman. He post "young" photos of himself and has a big ego.
the wife too (not verified)
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my husband is the exact same, I even got the dating site so I could see when he was online and of course it was during work hours, He still has his facebook but chooses to only use it about once a week and before that he was always on it. I have found him on about 5 dating sites, a lot of them you can join without paying and search around. My husband came up as a match for me, I didn't add a picture at first and talked to him and he ask if I was his ex, funny I found her number on his phone. I confronted him and the next day it was gone and I was told I didn't see anything, I must be crazy. anyway it is ongoing still and I cannot get a confession, I would like to find out the truth and lay it in his lap. I don't think they ever stop.
WEEZY (not verified)
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the wife too wrote:

my husband is the exact same, I even got the dating site so I could see when he was online and of course it was during work hours, He still has his facebook but chooses to only use it about once a week and before that he was always on it. I have found him on about 5 dating sites, a lot of them you can join without paying and search around. My husband came up as a match for me, I didn't add a picture at first and talked to him and he ask if I was his ex, funny I found her number on his phone. I confronted him and the next day it was gone and I was told I didn't see anything, I must be crazy. anyway it is ongoing still and I cannot get a confession, I would like to find out the truth and lay it in his lap.
I don't think they ever stop.

If you got 'proof' what do you think that would accomplish?Dont you realize he is not only a cheater but an accomplished liar as well?Do you actually believe he would suddenly spill his guts to you?Let me say that that would certainly be rare.Husband or not you must not let him continue to waste your time or life.Please respect yourself enough to dump his ass.get alimony,and anything else you deserve for putting up with his lies,him exposing you to disease from infidelity,making you question your sanity,and making you look stupid.If I was to guess,I would say he cheated on his last girlfriend or wife w/ you.Dont do this to yourself.be your own person and start living

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Why don't you join the sites using fake ID and then state the truth and even post the most unflattering, updated, photos of him or at least a link to a place where women can see them - like at Flickr or some such place.....and then DUMP his *ss...?
the wife too (not verified)
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I read to post the picture on craigs list and see what comes up. that was my next step.
riana (not verified)
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i truly understand you i am in the same position, i don't want to anything and my mind is going crazy and all the time i am anxious and full of stress he made me same things
the wifetoo (not verified)
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that's the way I feel all the time is crazy, and he tries to make me think I am too,
I just want to scream most of the time, but if I confront him he gets mad and tell me
that maybe I am the one being bad, I am not, and I love my husband so much, but I cant
take to much more of this, it has been going on since August of 2013 that I know of. I have
constantly worked at trying to prove it. I am his second wife and I know he physically cheated on
his first wife, but with me it is online affairs, He is afraid to loose face, I told him if he confessed
and deleted the dating accounts that we could try to work I out, but he refuses to come clean. I saw the photograph in
his personal usb drive and found phone numbers in his work phone, but he refuses to admit to it.

jessieh (not verified)
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Probably the best way to find out he is cheating on you is using friblind.com and send him anonymous messages. He will think is a facebook friend and may answer giving you clues of his behavior when you are not around. Good luck.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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is there a free way to search all dating sites using only an email. im trying to find out if my fiance is up to no good..
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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not that i am aware of. look up the key gost. it's simple. you just connect it to the back of his computer. after several days retrieve it. us it on your own computer and see what he's been doing. it's the easiest way that i'm aware of. there are way too many dating sites. hundreds. you will have to pay for the keylogger, but only once.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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***if you have difficulty putting a key logger on your computer try a key ghost. Google it. It's an external device you connect to your computer that will record everything that's happening while you are gone. Time and date stamps, passwords, websites. You can retrieve all the info simply by using your password and it will download everything it recorded. It does not need to load software onto your computer and it's undetectable by your computers software. I used one several years ago with great success. To this day no one knows. I found out volumes!
Lea ann (not verified)
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Listen my boyfreind is so busted he won't let me get on his computer we have been together for 7 years I need to know if I warned all this time. He always tries to turn it around that I'm crazy just odd things please help me I need to move on wit my life thank you so much
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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hello, try a keylogger http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8BiOPBsXh0g you can search it in your pc for a good programm, only you need is you computer and when you make the key logger send to him and then it will trace everything by sending you email about his actions in his computer. try to search better in google. i have the same problem but my husband is not clever and i looked the history in google chrome and all the time i was not home.I found that he had about 10 accounts in dating sites and a lot of other things... i was shocked, i told him what i discover and then he told me that it was nothing for him and make it for just fun and also not to took it for serious. Now one year later about all these i found in the past, i don't trust him at all my life changed.I always stays in home when he is home. If he is not working and he is home wherever i am i am running to come home as faster, so he will not be alone to do something. I know that is wrong but i love him we recently married and i don't want divorce. It's very painful. i don't know what to do
Leaann Mcguire (not verified)
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Yes I spoke you guys the other night and someone said stuped girl back on comment so I was like mind your own business. Right anyways like I was saying the other night I was confused because at one time said he was was looking at hardcore. Don't move. With him but after that they didn't mention it so I'm confused is he talking to girls on line or is he doing this hardcore thing because every time I say something he tells me I'm crazy I busted him along time ago about two years so he promised but he is always on it won't let me use it. I just need to know because I have two little girls we were going to move but I don't know if I can trust him is their anyway to find out what he's doing for sure IS HE CHEATING please help. Thanks I just want it straight out truth
WEEZY (not verified)
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Honey,I would tell you to run don't walk as fast as you can.but there are children involved,so there should an effort to make him toe the line.It may be that he is addicted to the hard core porn which in order for him to get real he needs counseling.If he isn't and only a cheater consider the little girls.The longer you put up with his mind games of 'your crazy' or him not being forthcoming with anything you need to know,the more you model for your girls how women should be treated and cared for.If you can't leave this creep( who is risking everything just to be a playboy)for your own sanity and self respect ,please do it for your girls.If he is cheating,staying with him only postpones the inevitable break up.What for.....TO WASTE MORE of your and your girls lives.Dont.Please ask your questions of him.If he tries to say ANYTHING other than the truth(and you WILL recognize it) Silently leave the room with no crying,screaming whining or shouting(say nothing,give no information) That alone will put him on the defensive.Start your escape plan without his knowledge,bank all the $$ you can ,make arrangements .file whatever papers,put belonging in storage,pack up the kids,cats and plants( don't leave your life take it with you)And starts your new journey to your happy life without this constant stress,chasing a grown man who should know better.Be strong.The reasons women find this so hard to do is because the man has put in there head that they are the best you can do. Not so.There is somebody,right now,who is looking for you and your girls to love but you won't find him when you are preoccupied chasing this inconsiderate man.Good luck and please be STRONG and set a good example for little ones.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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You are not in a healthy enough relationship to move together.
Don't do it.
And if he is playing games now...you 'ain't' seen anything, yet.
Wait until after you move in..
You better strap in tight because you are in for one hell of a ride.
On another note, once you move in, his job to pursue you for a full-time commitment is over.
He's got you then.
Why be the cow who gives away the milk for free, so to speak?
No 'test driving'.
Either he commits to a full-on committed relationship...AND is completely TRANSPARENT...(look up 'transparency' in relationships)or you and your girls will just stay put where you are until he does what needs to be done.
It's up to you...but remember the fact that the girls will see and experience any and all upheaval...
IMO

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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How about a Google Search to see if the ways mentioned to override - recover - crack - by pass - the log on - start up - password work for you. Look for a way to do this without a recovery disc would be first choice or use a Password Recovery Tool to create a disc (do a Google search or get a PC genius friend to help you with this).
There is actually help for this at the HP Support Forums and how-to videos at YouTube.

Just keep in mind the very possible legality issues when gaining access to a computer that is not yours.

OR...skip doing all this and instead bypass all the ensuing heartbreak from actually SEEING what he's been doing, and just leave him...

I See Stupid People (not verified)
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Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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@ I See Stupid People I See that some people just can't help themselves...
Teresa Wright (not verified)
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I never recieve any information by this company and I paid for three months and I was told that my husband was on 71 network which was not true so I waste time and money.

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