Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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Brenda rush (not verified)
my number John Rush
We have been together for 33yr.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
If you catch him cheating
Get a divorce ! for all you ladies out there that are experiencing this crap from these controlling manipulative - women hating (because they'll use the excuse - I was abused by my mommy ! ) give me a f ing break ! now they have a reason to treat women like shit !! BS Buddy put your f ing hands on me and your dead meat not just your penis but you ! I don't give a shit if this is being monitored because 1) I'm not going to let some SOB abuse me because he so sick and obsessed with the beeeiotchES on the poon sites that he's going to now hurt/abuse me 2) I might be dumb but I'm not stupid - I caught you" Red - blue - purple- yellow handed" on the sites so don't try to tell me that your not doing anything wrong !! get away from these self seeking sick SOB'S who are just using you most likely as a booty call to get their get their rocks off ! tell them to call "Rosie" palm if you know what I'm saying ! oh yeah - my recently "ex" has been chatting with some little beeeiotch apparently in Georgia - like I said phish the sites and look for their names or something similar - I had to because I don't live with my "ex" and didn't have access to his computer(Drunk and can't afford a P.I. (thank you Tom Select! - if only !)and is also a called "business" (ladies) man in his eyes !) which is what attracted me to him in the first place - his half sister didn't help, she's the one who introduced us in the first place - anyway long story short - Get the book called "Why does he do that ? " it has helped me so much to understand these twisted bastards,they will lie, manipulate and purposely deceive you for their own sick f ing benefit ! they are mean, selfish and a menious to society - of course the dumb beeeiotches who spread their legs online love it because their getting their $$$. If they only understood what they really are or amount to these bums - nothing but orifices they can stick their so called man parts in and then turn over and go to sleep ! wonderful huh ? instant gratification at its best ! get the book I swear it will open your eyes to all kinds of crap these bottom-meany-roonies pull -
Debbie29 (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
To expose yor husband or boyfriend is cheating online, install on a his computer or laptop keylogger software. These programs can log all messages and screen shots. Then you will be able to view this information that will confirm or disprove your suspicions.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
What if he only uses his cell phone?
confusedat47
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I'm dating a 43 year old man I'm 47 and he has 6 kids with 3 baby mama's. We are now living together and I've been noticing every time he uses his Facebook he logs off. He hasn't been in a serious relationship for 3 yrs until now with me. He says I'm his angel god sent from heaven to help him get his life together. I'm not what he's use to, he's always been with 30 and younger, nice bodies, he always has new friend requests and of course there all young girls. He says he loves me so much, but do I really trust him? I can't go thru another heart broken relationship. Am I just in denial?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
if your husband is cheating online
Someday their going to get older and their bodes won't be so "cute" what comes around goes around - these duds/dudes that are getting old/older have to prove they still have what it takes - mine has false teeth "hey PORN Ladies" gum it baby ! I wonder if he can ever see his own pecker because of his fat hairy gut ! Smile. go figure !
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

To: Confusedat47,

You are not the only one and my boyfriend has been cheat on me for almost 2 years and he kept denied till one of my friend told me that he is still contact with all women and he asked them for nude picture and sex too... it has been hurt me a lot.. I love him so much and he is everything to me than anything but he kept lie to all women and told them that he is single since he don't want them to know that he have me.... Sad

Carrie Baby (not verified)
Finding out if someone is cheating online
Does this really work?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Finding out if someone is cheating online
Does WHAT really work?!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I've been dating a guy who is 43 for 3 months and we live together already. I'm 47, his last relationship was when he was 38 with an 18 year old and she got pregnant, they have a 5 year old now. I'm not worried about her, it's that I see he has so many young girls in there 20 ' s as friends on Facebook and now he always logs out of Facebook after every time he uses it. He says I'm an angel sent to him from heaven to help him get his life together, I was married for 23 yrs and got my heart broken, I'm a very giving and soft hearted woman and I just don't want to be made a fool of. we're officially in a relationship on Facebook so everyone knows, meet his family and children and I love all of them. He says he's never been with someone like me before, he wants a future with me, but can I really trust him ? He's had lots of sexual partners in his life and I've only been with 5 my whole life. What do I do, I am confused.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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I could help you, since I will be 20 in a few months if he is a cheater he may do it again.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Finding out if my boyfriend is cheating
I would like to find out if he is cheating so I can move on in life please help.......
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I want to no too is it possible
chrissyellen
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If there are porn websites and dating sites that are constantly coming up in his SPAM folder does that mean he is currently looking at those sites? We have been together for over a year and he has told me that his ex wife used to go on those sites...I guess it was foreplay for them.. we don't practice that but I notice that there are emails that come thru to SPAM on a daily basis. Does that mean he is still frequenting those sites or is it because those sites are linked to that specific email address. I really don't think he is on them. He works real hard and is not a computer person at all... If someone has the answer please answer me. I was just wondering.. thxs
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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You could be right but i do know once they got your email address they are going to continue sending emails to that address and I'm not tring to step on no toes but you have to think about he was once a computer person he could still be some people change and if its your gut telling you he is then try and catch him if you want i can help you no money needed i was a victim and needed answers to my questions
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Do you have that experience before by your ex? my current boyfriend kept continuing talk with many women and he kept tell them the lie and I did blunt up with him about the truth and he got mad and pissed me off because he kept said to me why i can't trust him ? i told him I do trust him but I caught him talk to with women on phone and even computer through webcam and he kept click x really quickly after i come to living room... he is 54 and still keeping lie to people... sighs.. it is hurt me a lot... I do really love him whole in my life and now he kept cheat on womean.. all i remember he told me he don't love me as person but love me in other way... he want to keep playing game with people since he told me he don't want them to know that he is still with me... geez... how can he learn his learn?? my 2 exes cheated on me and now third one cheat on me.. why me??? i hate it...
AnonyMan (not verified)
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it's impossible to tell for sure. It could be that he signed up on those sites in the past, hasn't visited them since, and is still getting spam/email from them. It is possible he signed up on those sites and was yanking-it to them last night. It could be that he's never even seen those websites and is just getting spam for them.
Ashley Michelle (not verified)
My boyfriend continues to try to cheat on me.
My boyfriend and i have been together 3 years and we are going on our 3rd child, im currently 4 months pregnant. He tried to cheat on me this weekend with his ex girlfriend also mother of his first child. I am completely disgusted and dont even know what to do with myself. This just wont stop no matter how many times he says he wont do it again, my kids love him so much i dont want to ruin that for them but i am EXTREMELY UNHAPPY. What should i do? Will it ever stop? Am i just living in a fantasy land? Guess i need to wake up and smell the coffee huh? Please help.
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Re: My boyfriend continues to try to cheat on me.
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Your Online Therapist (not verified)
Re: My boyfriend continues to try to cheat on me.

What should i do?: Dump him and move on. Your kids will be LESS happy in the long term watching you getting more miserable.
Will it ever stop?: Of course not. You already know that.
Am i just living in a fantasy land?: Yep
Guess i need to wake up and smell the coffee huh?: Yep
Please help: I just did

danielle_95x
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Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
For those who needed my help I inboxed you on this website check it out.. Will start helping asap
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
if your boyfriend or husband is cheating on the Internet
Hi Danielle can you help me understand what he might of been up too so I can understand and walk away x
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Hi I really don't do this but I was reading looking for answer giving to how to find out husband cheating/watching porn online and saw you were answering in an email well could you email me I'm not interested in the key logger the more I learn how to find out he's steps ahead he works with firemen and they all share the secrets. He swears he doesn't I KNOW he does and just want the truth and go from there. Still saying nothing so I'm giving him 30 days then im out or he's out whatever I would like to be able to prove something beside the obvious that he just continues to deny and excuse.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Hi Danielle,

I could seriously use you help. How do I "inbox you" ? I Posted my issue of having been married 10 years and my husband has been working overseas for 3 years - the obvious signs are there but I need proof. I would appreciate any help I can get . To the individual who is stating to be a licensed clinician and referring everyone to therapy - I too am a licensed clinician with license number in Texas - this is not anyone offering therapy - it's simply role playing to catch a cheater I would imagine. If you are a clinician you should at the very least show some empathy and do not call people unstable , paranoid - try offering viable referrals that someone could actually use - if you claim to be clinician ACT LIKE ONE.

Now that I am off my soap box Dabielle can you please help me ?

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I understand and i would want to know its your right to know what's your husband name
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Catching my husband cheating online
Does this really work try Bing to catch my husband cheating. I need that solid proof instead of wondering and guessing. Please help me.
danielle_95x
I am here to help others
Member for 11 weeks 4 days
GuG-Points: 7
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Its hurting ourselves by getting someone to play their possibly cheating spouse!?? I think instead of having that sickness feeling and worried all the time is just as bad if you dont know and we obv dont leave because we still have that ounce of trust that they are faithful, playing them will get the answer you need so you can leave which is what we need, in here to help someone and without pay, i can do almost just as a professional job as the so called therapists when they are getting paid and im doing it for free, someone in the world before getting degrees and stuff had to be good at it before the time of that stuff was invented plus therapists make you feel like your the insane one when you r only searching for answers which i can possibly provide to them , so i stead of ranting and trying to get your business otg here find someplace else because my business is free and kindhearted to the broken hearted people as i am feeling the same way about my boyfriend so if i could help someone do what ive longed someone to do for me id be happy to cause i know what its like to not get help.. For free.
Jo (not verified)
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Hi Danielle, I would like to pick your brain if that is at all possible in anyway?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Thumbs Up to You as I too would of liked to have someone available to do this for me also a few years ago. I'm curious - actually pondering, how time-wise you are going to handle all the requests I'm sure will come your way. You're going to be a very, very busy woman.....
cheekychelss
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Please help me danielle

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