Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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riana (not verified)
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i truly understand you i am in the same position, i don't want to anything and my mind is going crazy and all the time i am anxious and full of stress he made me same things
the wifetoo (not verified)
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that's the way I feel all the time is crazy, and he tries to make me think I am too,
I just want to scream most of the time, but if I confront him he gets mad and tell me
that maybe I am the one being bad, I am not, and I love my husband so much, but I cant
take to much more of this, it has been going on since August of 2013 that I know of. I have
constantly worked at trying to prove it. I am his second wife and I know he physically cheated on
his first wife, but with me it is online affairs, He is afraid to loose face, I told him if he confessed
and deleted the dating accounts that we could try to work I out, but he refuses to come clean. I saw the photograph in
his personal usb drive and found phone numbers in his work phone, but he refuses to admit to it.

jessieh (not verified)
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Probably the best way to find out he is cheating on you is using friblind.com and send him anonymous messages. He will think is a facebook friend and may answer giving you clues of his behavior when you are not around. Good luck.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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is there a free way to search all dating sites using only an email. im trying to find out if my fiance is up to no good..
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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not that i am aware of. look up the key gost. it's simple. you just connect it to the back of his computer. after several days retrieve it. us it on your own computer and see what he's been doing. it's the easiest way that i'm aware of. there are way too many dating sites. hundreds. you will have to pay for the keylogger, but only once.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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***if you have difficulty putting a key logger on your computer try a key ghost. Google it. It's an external device you connect to your computer that will record everything that's happening while you are gone. Time and date stamps, passwords, websites. You can retrieve all the info simply by using your password and it will download everything it recorded. It does not need to load software onto your computer and it's undetectable by your computers software. I used one several years ago with great success. To this day no one knows. I found out volumes!
Lea ann (not verified)
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Listen my boyfreind is so busted he won't let me get on his computer we have been together for 7 years I need to know if I warned all this time. He always tries to turn it around that I'm crazy just odd things please help me I need to move on wit my life thank you so much
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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hello, try a keylogger http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8BiOPBsXh0g you can search it in your pc for a good programm, only you need is you computer and when you make the key logger send to him and then it will trace everything by sending you email about his actions in his computer. try to search better in google. i have the same problem but my husband is not clever and i looked the history in google chrome and all the time i was not home.I found that he had about 10 accounts in dating sites and a lot of other things... i was shocked, i told him what i discover and then he told me that it was nothing for him and make it for just fun and also not to took it for serious. Now one year later about all these i found in the past, i don't trust him at all my life changed.I always stays in home when he is home. If he is not working and he is home wherever i am i am running to come home as faster, so he will not be alone to do something. I know that is wrong but i love him we recently married and i don't want divorce. It's very painful. i don't know what to do
Leaann Mcguire (not verified)
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Yes I spoke you guys the other night and someone said stuped girl back on comment so I was like mind your own business. Right anyways like I was saying the other night I was confused because at one time said he was was looking at hardcore. Don't move. With him but after that they didn't mention it so I'm confused is he talking to girls on line or is he doing this hardcore thing because every time I say something he tells me I'm crazy I busted him along time ago about two years so he promised but he is always on it won't let me use it. I just need to know because I have two little girls we were going to move but I don't know if I can trust him is their anyway to find out what he's doing for sure IS HE CHEATING please help. Thanks I just want it straight out truth
WEEZY (not verified)
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Honey,I would tell you to run don't walk as fast as you can.but there are children involved,so there should an effort to make him toe the line.It may be that he is addicted to the hard core porn which in order for him to get real he needs counseling.If he isn't and only a cheater consider the little girls.The longer you put up with his mind games of 'your crazy' or him not being forthcoming with anything you need to know,the more you model for your girls how women should be treated and cared for.If you can't leave this creep( who is risking everything just to be a playboy)for your own sanity and self respect ,please do it for your girls.If he is cheating,staying with him only postpones the inevitable break up.What for.....TO WASTE MORE of your and your girls lives.Dont.Please ask your questions of him.If he tries to say ANYTHING other than the truth(and you WILL recognize it) Silently leave the room with no crying,screaming whining or shouting(say nothing,give no information) That alone will put him on the defensive.Start your escape plan without his knowledge,bank all the $$ you can ,make arrangements .file whatever papers,put belonging in storage,pack up the kids,cats and plants( don't leave your life take it with you)And starts your new journey to your happy life without this constant stress,chasing a grown man who should know better.Be strong.The reasons women find this so hard to do is because the man has put in there head that they are the best you can do. Not so.There is somebody,right now,who is looking for you and your girls to love but you won't find him when you are preoccupied chasing this inconsiderate man.Good luck and please be STRONG and set a good example for little ones.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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You are not in a healthy enough relationship to move together.
Don't do it.
And if he is playing games now...you 'ain't' seen anything, yet.
Wait until after you move in..
You better strap in tight because you are in for one hell of a ride.
On another note, once you move in, his job to pursue you for a full-time commitment is over.
He's got you then.
Why be the cow who gives away the milk for free, so to speak?
No 'test driving'.
Either he commits to a full-on committed relationship...AND is completely TRANSPARENT...(look up 'transparency' in relationships)or you and your girls will just stay put where you are until he does what needs to be done.
It's up to you...but remember the fact that the girls will see and experience any and all upheaval...
IMO

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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How about a Google Search to see if the ways mentioned to override - recover - crack - by pass - the log on - start up - password work for you. Look for a way to do this without a recovery disc would be first choice or use a Password Recovery Tool to create a disc (do a Google search or get a PC genius friend to help you with this).
There is actually help for this at the HP Support Forums and how-to videos at YouTube.

Just keep in mind the very possible legality issues when gaining access to a computer that is not yours.

OR...skip doing all this and instead bypass all the ensuing heartbreak from actually SEEING what he's been doing, and just leave him...

I See Stupid People (not verified)
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Ok, we're helping.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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@ I See Stupid People I See that some people just can't help themselves...
Teresa Wright (not verified)
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I never recieve any information by this company and I paid for three months and I was told that my husband was on 71 network which was not true so I waste time and money.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Actually, they showed you the 71 sites they draw information from - whether or not your husband was at any of them - BUT that fact isn't really clearly stated...
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Hi i just found out my boyfriend has a account called Bigdick chat. He had pictures up of his junk and i dont know what to do next because i wad snooping when I found it.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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hey I understand and I have too by the way found things like that I know its snooping and its not right either. I just know it is very hard to not to slip.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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DUMP HIS ASS
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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You got to snooping because your intuition told you something was amiss.
Don't ever beat yourself yourself up over that...nor allow that to become the core issue!

You have a few options:
1 - Not do anything
2 - Look around to gather up as much proof as you need to confront him with - hint: take photos of the screen with whatever camera source you have..
3 - Decide how you are going to confront him
4 - Move on and dump his *ss...since he is probably doing a whole lot more than what you are presently seeing.

Your choice.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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I have to words.... Thank you.Smile
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Anytime...
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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I would like to find out if my boyfriend is cheating on me on social networks the problem is he uses a cellphone and not a computer
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Do you know the email address he uses for his cellphone? If so, start there - meaning put it in Google Search. You might want to put his phone number in Google Search, too. Last but not least, put his name in Google Search. You never know what will come up. Take 'Spokeo' for instance. You might find something there. If you know which social network, you could always go in, make up a fake profile (no photograph necessary), and look around.
the wife too (not verified)
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I got a match.com and that is where I found him, once I got his user name I googled it and the picture he uses came up in images but it really gave no information I also got spokeo and uses his username and it came up and showed me picture and what he had written on his profile in Match.com,. Apparently he was paying for the Match and not out of our account so therefore I know he has another bank account somewhere. I have been searching forever but if they are computer smart they can fix it where it is almost impossible to find. He does his dirty work on his work computer and work phone. and has his personal phone set up to only work with his work pc. good luck,,,still searching.
Jasmine Campbell (not verified)
How do I get a keylogger on my computer?
Im currently in a different country and i want to know what my family is using my computer for especially my bad ass kids. I understand what a keylogger is but how can i get it install on the computer back home with out physically being there. I heard before I can send a file with a keylogger that automatically installs but the problem is how do i get in it a file and how do i get to see what is logging from my location.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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I have one comment to all:

i have had a similar situation in the past and we still love each other. If he wont show you his silly email and texts WHY would you give up the goods and still live with him as more than friends?

ml833
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I am not telling from Los Angeles, CA
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 I've used Elite Keylogger and it is easy to use and worked how it was supposed to. I ran virus and spyware after it was installed and neither detected it. Make sure you're ready to see what you might find before you do this though! 

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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for keylogger I have have a problem. my boyfriend is long didtance. do you know if there is anything else i can use, or a website? it is so fustrating having this feeling and only comming up with little peices here and there.and alot of hidden sites also.he wants me to move down there and marry him. i feel in my heart he is cheating by his actions and the way he has been acting but i dont have solid proof.I have tried doing a fake profile and turned myself into the absolute perfect women for him. the only problem is that i signed up for so many i forgot half of my user names and passwords and forget about the websites all together. now i look stupid because he went on spokeo and i have a match.com account and who knows how many more? i love him so much and im really desperatly needing help getting solid proof. what do you recomend?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Just a suggestion.

Don't move!

Don't get married!

You are not ready for this and that is a GOOD THING (!) because your intuition is desperately trying to tell you something is very wrong but you keep allowing enough doubt to override your internal red flag warnings.

If you are going to make up fake profiles, you ALSO need to make up a NEW email addy and of course user name(Drunk for this purpose. Don't use your regular daily use email account. When you use ONE email account for all your 'detective' work that makes it easy to keep track of where all this information is stored.
Each site should have a user name / password recovery system set up where you simply type in your email addy to have the information sent the email addy you used to sign up.

At Spokeo and other people type sites you can fill in the necessary form for your information at that particular site be REMOVED. Go there and do that.

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