Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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cheatedonp (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
This might sound sad but I found this site because I am the boyfriend who's girlfriend cheated on him. It works both ways. Don't be too paranoid but as Robert DeNiro says in one of my favorite movies, Ronin...." whenever there is any doubt, there is no doubt." If you are deep enough to be scouring emails, looking at phone records, or WANTING TO? Something is wrong, time to either abandon ship or if worth it have a serious Come To Jesus talk and get proof. If someone loves you they'll let you check their phone, Facebook, etc and call you crazy later. A true mastermind will lie to you AND make you think you are the crazy one. Just my 2 cents good luck...if it is meant to be it will be.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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So true. Good advice.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
If you find out that your boyfriend or husband is cheating
Thank you God !!! Blessing in Disguise !! Let us Pray ! no pun intended !
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Hello to all of you way back i was the one that started this Adam & Eve because I was with a cheater and abuser grazy man. well i told you that on e you feel it once you smell it once you see it you will notice that you have been played in a way that was very cheep, i left him waited for perfect day perfect moment packed everything day dark by day and finaly it was poring rain i loaded up and left him. Im still homless i have a job its just very hard on your own.
Hopefully i find a place soon.
So what i like to say is leave him or here because they never change believe me i left man several times because of abusive behavior or cheater nor i just llookig to to find a place alone. I dont believe in partnerships because we all humans dont even love our selfs so that righr there is the biggest of them all.
All I Say is LEAVE THE ABUSER CHETER its not worth IT findkn fore.
Adam&Eve
333

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
How to Find out if your boyfriend is cheating online
Stay strong !
firefaegirl (not verified)
cheating boyfriend (long distance)
im kinda worried my boyfriend is cheating on me. in a skype call he was fapping and the first few times he denyed it and when he admited it he said it was his first time but it wasnt. it was his 2nd or 3rd time. he says he isnt cheating but im not sure tbh. i asked him for his skype login but he denyed saying something about its his and wanting to keep it his. HELP ME PLEASE!!!!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: cheating boyfriend (long distance)
You are in shock from what you just discovered about your boyfriend. Dump Him NOW before the next thing you find yourself dealing with is his full on physical affairs, your shattered heart, and disease.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Can you help me find out his password?
cornie (not verified)
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Have you ever tried a psychic reading? I think my boyfriend isn't fully faithful. I want to ask a psychic if he is cheating me. There are many online psychic websites, like oranum, kasamba, or mysticly - have you ever visited any of them?
AnonyMan (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
cornie wrote:

Have you ever tried a psychic reading?

OR.. You can get the same results, but faster, by just flushing your money down the toilet.
DO NOT WASTE YOUR MONEY and these "for entertainment purposes" psychics!

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Can anyone help me understand what my ex was up too always hiding his phone and never on it when he was with me x
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Hi I need help to find out if my boyfriend is cheating but every where I go it seems like I hit a brick wall. I need to get on with my life I have been in this relationship for three years and its killing me... I have found some stuff but when I confront him he just manages to slither out of trouble he is very slimy to catch Sad
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
What does your "gut" tell you? Listen to it. I wish I had...
shirleyhaas
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Just for my info.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Hi there

I've seen your able to help and could really do with it, my boyfriend is hiding something from me using his internet browser on his phone and deleting the history whenever I'm around but doesn't delete at weekends when we are together it's breaking me apart as he's also lost interest in me in the bedroom department please help thank you

helpneeded
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Hi I've also now created an account so can receive responses thanks
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Hi-
Please help! mom of 3 young kids. I feel that I am wasting my energy trying to make our marriage work. I found porn n his phone before. I also found out that he lied to me about being at work when he was off. I have a very strong feeling that he is up to no good. He also gets spam and ads on his inbox about dating etc..PLEASE HELP!

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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If he is getting dating websites/ porn website spam, its because he at some point visited them. (Believe me i know) i weng theough this with my husband years ago. dont accuse him until you know- but maybe tell him how your feeling, and ask him if hes happy or if hes hiding anything. Tell him mayve counseling would bring you guys closer.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Hi I need to know my boyfriend password, can you help?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Dirty Pig - Dirty Liar might help. phish the sites for their names
Cheri Watts (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Please help me. I need to know.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Me and my boyfriend have been together now for 8 yrs but I have a feeling he's been cheating, plus I got a glance of his recent email that someone is interested in him and waiting for his respond where to? Is there any way to find out?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
He is accusing me and I'm not and I believe he is. He likes porn.
Brenda rush (not verified)
my number John Rush
We have been together for 33yr.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
If you catch him cheating
Get a divorce ! for all you ladies out there that are experiencing this crap from these controlling manipulative - women hating (because they'll use the excuse - I was abused by my mommy ! ) give me a f ing break ! now they have a reason to treat women like shit !! BS Buddy put your f ing hands on me and your dead meat not just your penis but you ! I don't give a shit if this is being monitored because 1) I'm not going to let some SOB abuse me because he so sick and obsessed with the beeeiotchES on the poon sites that he's going to now hurt/abuse me 2) I might be dumb but I'm not stupid - I caught you" Red - blue - purple- yellow handed" on the sites so don't try to tell me that your not doing anything wrong !! get away from these self seeking sick SOB'S who are just using you most likely as a booty call to get their get their rocks off ! tell them to call "Rosie" palm if you know what I'm saying ! oh yeah - my recently "ex" has been chatting with some little beeeiotch apparently in Georgia - like I said phish the sites and look for their names or something similar - I had to because I don't live with my "ex" and didn't have access to his computer(Drunk and can't afford a P.I. (thank you Tom Select! - if only !)and is also a called "business" (ladies) man in his eyes !) which is what attracted me to him in the first place - his half sister didn't help, she's the one who introduced us in the first place - anyway long story short - Get the book called "Why does he do that ? " it has helped me so much to understand these twisted bastards,they will lie, manipulate and purposely deceive you for their own sick f ing benefit ! they are mean, selfish and a menious to society - of course the dumb beeeiotches who spread their legs online love it because their getting their $$$. If they only understood what they really are or amount to these bums - nothing but orifices they can stick their so called man parts in and then turn over and go to sleep ! wonderful huh ? instant gratification at its best ! get the book I swear it will open your eyes to all kinds of crap these bottom-meany-roonies pull -
Debbie29 (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
To expose yor husband or boyfriend is cheating online, install on a his computer or laptop keylogger software. These programs can log all messages and screen shots. Then you will be able to view this information that will confirm or disprove your suspicions.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
What if he only uses his cell phone?
Fed Up (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
That's what I've been trying to find out for months.
confusedat47
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I'm dating a 43 year old man I'm 47 and he has 6 kids with 3 baby mama's. We are now living together and I've been noticing every time he uses his Facebook he logs off. He hasn't been in a serious relationship for 3 yrs until now with me. He says I'm his angel god sent from heaven to help him get his life together. I'm not what he's use to, he's always been with 30 and younger, nice bodies, he always has new friend requests and of course there all young girls. He says he loves me so much, but do I really trust him? I can't go thru another heart broken relationship. Am I just in denial?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
if your husband is cheating online
Someday their going to get older and their bodes won't be so "cute" what comes around goes around - these duds/dudes that are getting old/older have to prove they still have what it takes - mine has false teeth "hey PORN Ladies" gum it baby ! I wonder if he can ever see his own pecker because of his fat hairy gut ! Smile. go figure !

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