Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
if your boyfriend is cheating
And let me just say being a woman is a beautiful thing and you know it deep in your heart but just like anybody else we all need proof and they call me the mistery woman and if he is really cheating r tring to cheat we can catch him for sure and me sayn don't worry its easier said than done i need a name and number and you will have your proof
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Re: if your boyfriend is cheating
How do we get ahold of you.
danielle_95x
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Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Send me a private msg on here you need to have an account, msg me and we can get started.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Will you help me danielle?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
i need some help ma'am..
charlton (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Are you licensed to be "helping people"? buyer beware. there are perpetrators like this woman all over he internet. you can check my certs and credentials. be WARY. you get what you pay for.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Ther is no payment needed for my services i think everyone should know who they are dealn with .
AnonyMan (not verified)
Finding out if your man is cheating online
All she is doing is offering to help catch men cheating by sending them emails from a fake female profile. Do we need a license to do that now? And, she's not charging anything to do it, so I don't think "buyer beware" applies here.
charlton (not verified)
Re: Finding out if your man is cheating online

and what i have said over and over as a professional, which i won't repeat again after this is: if your relationship has degenerated to the place that you are hiring (paid or not) someone to "catch" your spouse, then 1. YOU have serious issues personally, 2. your relationship has serious issues 3. either you get professional help or it is doomed 4. buying into playing some game to catch him is only perpetuating the malady. until you step into a mature place of addressing these issues and the causes and conditions - YOU will get sicker and sicker. 5. YOU ARE HARMING YOUR CHILDREN. and for that i will be vociferous. you are directly harming your children by playing these games. sh*t or get off the pot.

i am NOT saying that this is terrifying, scary, hurtful - especially when you do find out... but if your level of trust is so shot that you're on this site you need help. YOU NEED HELP. period. i don't care if you speak to me. go get help. and don't tell me "we can't afford it" cause not getting help heads into divorce and other sickness - physical sickness. these are scientific and medical facts. costing you far far more in the long run by NOT addressing this sickness.

i wish you all well.

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Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

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Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I really need help because he lies so much and now has hidden all access to his apps and I have asked him what tumblr was because I saw it connected to his account as many other apps and accounts.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Find out my husband is cheating

Hi

I have been married for almost 10 years - my huband is a civilian contractor at Bagram AFB in Afghanistan he has been working there for 3 years - he is home 2x a year less than 13 days each visit . I am home alone raising our child who has autism - I am a licensed Clinician in behavioral health so I do not the lecture of seeking therapy - I need to find out what is going on with husband for peace of mind !!! We speak 1 x a day for less thsn 10 min it is only to " take care of business" . I see he has a Facebook acct but i am unable to hit friend request on his page - i know he was extremely active Facebook with everyone but myself and my son because at one time we were friends so i could see some of his posts --

He has several phones iphones adroids ... He has multiple phone numbers i only know one its a Magic Jack -- i know clearly there is something going on he is always on words with friends n all his linkedin contscts are woman .

I need to know how to actual proof in hand -- with no access to his phones , pc , tablets or majoc jack numbers and skype .

When he gets mad i will receive a text from a hookup sight from a user - he will respond in text with a different user name than the text i forwarded asking what this text was about n if he was screwing with me - he denied any knowledge - yes lie i know .

Who can i hire to search every nook n cranny of the web for his activity ?

Thank you

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Find out if my girlfriend is talking to other guys
I know my girlfriend and soon to be wife was talking to other guys before but said she wasnt anymore and said she wasnt talking to them anymore how can I possibly find out so I don't make the mistake and marry her
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: I think my husband is cheating on me
I am desperate and PARANOID about this matter.Please give me an idea to hack my husbands email account?Can somebody do it ofr me?This is for good purpose and I am a very loyal wife since we got married an i love him more than anything else in this world.But i dnt get the same feedback i expect from him.Please do help me some one?
charlton (not verified)
Re: I think my husband is cheating on me
if you are THIS distrusting of your husband, you desperately - YES DESPERATELY need therapy. for you individually and for you as the couple - with him. have you been in other relationships where "he" cheated? did your father cheat on your mother? have you ever had any therapy? i am a therapist practicing in Colorado, USA and have vast experience with betrayed spouses and saving marriages.
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Need help from you
How can I get hold of you to talk about this? please do reply me
R.U. Experienced (not verified)
Re: I think my husband is cheating on me
So. It appears that your advice to all the hurting souls in desperate need of answers on this blog {concerning the possibilities of weather or not these so-called-men (or women) they have wound up with, are practicing adulterous situations that either began or are continuing over the internet} is that they HAVE TO go to therapy. That sounds like a wonderful idea! But...Gee whiz, the only thing wrong with THAT, is that a vast majority of the people who appear so desperate for answers, and have become OBSESSED with catching the accused are far beyond the point working it all out in an office somewhere for $50-$150 per hour. Because God only knows they can't afford that, what with husband/ wife of the year spending that much online with the whores they so DESPERATELY want to be with. No. What they came here for was proof. And for what they have been through, I think that this blog's purpose of helping the not-so-computer-savy find ways to seek the truth , is a tool for getting then closer to divorce court with evidence in hand. If you look back at a number of the questions asked or situations explained here, NOTHING could be more of a recommendation than to remove these toxic philandering wastes of flesh as far away from themselves and their children as possible.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I don't know what to say here
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if my husband is cheating online
Can I just read his emails?
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
How do I catch my boyfriend?
hi ive been on here before about my boyfriend being on chat sites, but now he's good at keeping his phone super clean and this time I think he is seeing someone at work. and I know I know why don't I leave him well I have two kids with him and I want them to have their dad in there lives plus for me I need to catch him. A month ago we got in a huge fight about me working there, he came up every single excuse in the book to keep me from applying even started screaming over me when I said just let me try, put a good word for me in whats the big deal. No he got very defensive about it and got violent. there has been a time when I called his work the girls on the phone were rude asking whos this and what do you want. and when I told him he stuck up for them. theres another time I caught him texting a girl from work, he said its about work nothing else but then he deleted the text message. he also always seems to get off super late even though he opens all the time. this valentines day he got me chocolates and a stuff animal I told him thank you and showed him I was super happy even though I said no chocolate but its like he didn't care. the next day I found gift bags in the back of the car smaller ones then my V-day gift. I said why did you buy these he said I bought them before I got your gift,there was also a bag missing from it. am I being paranoid or does it seem like hes doing something. please someone tell me what to do how to catch him. or tell me shut up beeeiotch or help me. I read online when I guys cheating they act aloof, start fights, becomes secretive, and violent that's my boyfriend and now a week after valentines day hes been showering me with gifts. not complaining about that but it seems like hes feeling guilty about something??
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: How do I catch my boyfriend?
Where did you read that ? my ex boyfriend has started getting violent !
charlton (not verified)
Re: How do I catch my boyfriend?
going to be blunt: get therapy. individual for you and couples with him. do it NOW. spend the money on a therapist or a divorce/custody arrangement. your paranoia is out of control. not to say he is not cheating. but you are OBSESSED. this is COMPLETELY unhealthy for your children. yes - YOU ARE HARMING YOUR CHILDREN. fact. i am a therapist practicing in CO, USA specializing in helping couples through betrayal and have helped stave off more than 100 divorces.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
How can I catch my boyfriend?

Charlton, quit solicting for crying out loud. methinks the therapist is mirroring his own needs. Are you so detached and clinical that the fact your spouse, your partner in life is either out to destroy or just does not care about their own spouse. I hope you are lucky enough to have that special trusting relationship and never get betrayed.

These posters want proof they can in an iron clad provable way be able to say not only was my gut right, here's proof.

I go to a support group for healing harm from the past and the women who have found good men are very guarded and it's almost like a businesslike arrangement with marriagelike moments. They are all extremely careful to not expect their new spouses to provide for them financially, emotionally or any other way. Do you think their spouses have a clue that they are so distanced?

Premartial counseling might be a way to prevent many issues. This site is to verify if a boyfriend/spouse is cheating online. Maybe some people will need counseling if they verify their fear or find their fears to be unfounded. Your posts are certainly repetitive and almost hounding.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: How do I catch my boyfriend?

I have found a way to track what they log onto on the internet, even if they delete their history OR use a private browsing window, which is supposed to be untraceable .....it isn't!
1. Click on the START menu
2. Tpye in CMD in the search box
3. A window will pop up, type in ipconfig/displaydns
4. Press ENTER
Everything he has logged into that day will be displayed, deleted or not, for 24 hours. Good luck!

AnonyMan (not verified)
Re: How do I catch my boyfriend?
Doing this will show all of the DNS connections in the last 24 hours (or for however long).. So this isnt just "everything he has logged into" .. this is everything the computer connected to.. So if he got a spam email with images in it, you would see those connections. if he got a pop-up ad for a porn-site, you would see those connections. i'm not sure this is a good method for viewing history because it shows too much other stuff with no way to know if someone actually "logged into" a particular domain.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: How do I catch my boyfriend?

This is true, however, if it is something he logged into directly, it will usually start with www. and then the name of the website, all the pop ups and adds don't usually start this way.
If you are not sure, right click on the record name or code (eg: 125.0.01.5 for example), click on Mark and hi-light it, then open a new window and type in the address https://who.is and do a search and it will tell you what it is.
A little common sense is called for, but direct searches are usually obvious as there will be multiple displays of that same address, as it shows up every time they click on something within that website.
Do it a few days in a row for your own searches, and you will soon be able to tell the difference.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: How do I catch my boyfriend cheating?
If I were you I would go to his work on the sly and see what he is doing, from the things you are saying I think he is cheating.. A man who loves you wouldnt stop you from working at his workplace, I would get a regular phone that you are not using , have two apple or android phones so you dont need his and put the phone tracker in his car hidden, mute the phone from every sound and you will be able to see wherever he drives.without him knowing. It worked for me, also, if you like I could msg him and play him for you? ive done that a lot and worked for girls catching their man in the act!
Kay (not verified)
Emails sent from my boyfriend

I found messages sent to girls on dating sites from my boyfriends email address in his 'sent' folder. he says he knows nothing about them. is it possible someone could have hacked his account?

charlton (not verified)
Re: Emails sent from my boyfriend
no. time for therapy. you-individual and both - for couples. pay a therapist now or a lawyer later... if you have kids, you WILL NEED a lawyer if you divorce. i am a therapist practicing in CO, USA specializing in helping couples through betrayal and have helped stave off more than 100 divorces.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Emails sent from my boyfriend
NO. if it's actual messages in his sent folder he is a cheating liar, I am sorry. I am having a similar situation however I don't have any solid evidence just websites. He's in denial as well but I would definitely call him out on his bs.. don't believe him because you want to either., you've seen the messages.. maybe even try finding the profile lol and really think about it why would people hack his account just to talk to girls on a dating site, that sounds just stupid.

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