Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
I want to no too is it possible
chrissyellen
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If there are porn websites and dating sites that are constantly coming up in his SPAM folder does that mean he is currently looking at those sites? We have been together for over a year and he has told me that his ex wife used to go on those sites...I guess it was foreplay for them.. we don't practice that but I notice that there are emails that come thru to SPAM on a daily basis. Does that mean he is still frequenting those sites or is it because those sites are linked to that specific email address. I really don't think he is on them. He works real hard and is not a computer person at all... If someone has the answer please answer me. I was just wondering.. thxs
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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You could be right but i do know once they got your email address they are going to continue sending emails to that address and I'm not tring to step on no toes but you have to think about he was once a computer person he could still be some people change and if its your gut telling you he is then try and catch him if you want i can help you no money needed i was a victim and needed answers to my questions
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Is there any way you could help me I'm having same problem we have kids and I need help with this its tearing us apart, and I have gut feeling some things not rite
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Do you have that experience before by your ex? my current boyfriend kept continuing talk with many women and he kept tell them the lie and I did blunt up with him about the truth and he got mad and pissed me off because he kept said to me why i can't trust him ? i told him I do trust him but I caught him talk to with women on phone and even computer through webcam and he kept click x really quickly after i come to living room... he is 54 and still keeping lie to people... sighs.. it is hurt me a lot... I do really love him whole in my life and now he kept cheat on womean.. all i remember he told me he don't love me as person but love me in other way... he want to keep playing game with people since he told me he don't want them to know that he is still with me... geez... how can he learn his learn?? my 2 exes cheated on me and now third one cheat on me.. why me??? i hate it...
AnonyMan (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
it's impossible to tell for sure. It could be that he signed up on those sites in the past, hasn't visited them since, and is still getting spam/email from them. It is possible he signed up on those sites and was yanking-it to them last night. It could be that he's never even seen those websites and is just getting spam for them.
Ashley Michelle (not verified)
My boyfriend continues to try to cheat on me.
My boyfriend and i have been together 3 years and we are going on our 3rd child, im currently 4 months pregnant. He tried to cheat on me this weekend with his ex girlfriend also mother of his first child. I am completely disgusted and dont even know what to do with myself. This just wont stop no matter how many times he says he wont do it again, my kids love him so much i dont want to ruin that for them but i am EXTREMELY UNHAPPY. What should i do? Will it ever stop? Am i just living in a fantasy land? Guess i need to wake up and smell the coffee huh? Please help.
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Re: My boyfriend continues to try to cheat on me.
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Your Online Therapist (not verified)
Re: My boyfriend continues to try to cheat on me.

What should i do?: Dump him and move on. Your kids will be LESS happy in the long term watching you getting more miserable.
Will it ever stop?: Of course not. You already know that.
Am i just living in a fantasy land?: Yep
Guess i need to wake up and smell the coffee huh?: Yep
Please help: I just did

danielle_95x
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Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
For those who needed my help I inboxed you on this website check it out.. Will start helping asap
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
if your boyfriend or husband is cheating on the Internet
Hi Danielle can you help me understand what he might of been up too so I can understand and walk away x
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Hi I really don't do this but I was reading looking for answer giving to how to find out husband cheating/watching porn online and saw you were answering in an email well could you email me I'm not interested in the key logger the more I learn how to find out he's steps ahead he works with firemen and they all share the secrets. He swears he doesn't I KNOW he does and just want the truth and go from there. Still saying nothing so I'm giving him 30 days then im out or he's out whatever I would like to be able to prove something beside the obvious that he just continues to deny and excuse.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

Hi Danielle,

I could seriously use you help. How do I "inbox you" ? I Posted my issue of having been married 10 years and my husband has been working overseas for 3 years - the obvious signs are there but I need proof. I would appreciate any help I can get . To the individual who is stating to be a licensed clinician and referring everyone to therapy - I too am a licensed clinician with license number in Texas - this is not anyone offering therapy - it's simply role playing to catch a cheater I would imagine. If you are a clinician you should at the very least show some empathy and do not call people unstable , paranoid - try offering viable referrals that someone could actually use - if you claim to be clinician ACT LIKE ONE.

Now that I am off my soap box Dabielle can you please help me ?

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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I understand and i would want to know its your right to know what's your husband name
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Catching my husband cheating online
Does this really work try Bing to catch my husband cheating. I need that solid proof instead of wondering and guessing. Please help me.
danielle_95x
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Its hurting ourselves by getting someone to play their possibly cheating spouse!?? I think instead of having that sickness feeling and worried all the time is just as bad if you dont know and we obv dont leave because we still have that ounce of trust that they are faithful, playing them will get the answer you need so you can leave which is what we need, in here to help someone and without pay, i can do almost just as a professional job as the so called therapists when they are getting paid and im doing it for free, someone in the world before getting degrees and stuff had to be good at it before the time of that stuff was invented plus therapists make you feel like your the insane one when you r only searching for answers which i can possibly provide to them , so i stead of ranting and trying to get your business otg here find someplace else because my business is free and kindhearted to the broken hearted people as i am feeling the same way about my boyfriend so if i could help someone do what ive longed someone to do for me id be happy to cause i know what its like to not get help.. For free.
Jo (not verified)
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Hi Danielle, I would like to pick your brain if that is at all possible in anyway?
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Thumbs Up to You as I too would of liked to have someone available to do this for me also a few years ago. I'm curious - actually pondering, how time-wise you are going to handle all the requests I'm sure will come your way. You're going to be a very, very busy woman.....
cheekychelss
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Please help me danielle
danielle_95x
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If you need to talk privately sign up to this website I will be able to help anyones boyfriend/husband in the act then send me a private mag here through the site
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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please help me find out if my long-distance boyfriend is chatting and maintaining online profiles. Let me know how to proceed. Thank you.
danielle_95x
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Make up an account on the grown up geek website and msg me here
charlton (not verified)
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Are you a therapist?

buyer beware. there are all sorts of perps looking to get into your drama. you can look up my licensure and credentials online at the colorado department of regulatory agencies. i don't know that you can say the same for this person.

so, be wary. and, yes, i get paid for my work. don't you?

danielle_95x
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Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Unlike you I am helping others for free, maybe that is why you Re saying stuff because you are losing business, and as if I want to get into someone elses drama when I dont even know them, Im just helping out someone for the answers they are desperately looking for as I would love someone to do it for me and couldnt, Im helping cause I know what its like not to get help, I am a girl and they will know who I am when I talk to them privately so if they want to talk to me its up to them not you, I am helping these people out.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Hey there sweet, are you still available to do this? I need some help.. Thankyou!
Jo (not verified)
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Danielle.. I desperately need your help!! I'm going crazy or he just lies!! Things are getting worse and worse.. It first started when he got a job waitressing. He would be home late. Trying to say he stayed after work waiting with this young girl until her parents picked her up. He was worried about her getting kidnapped because the Cafe was right off the highway. Something in me just didn't believe it. I have never seen young girls working there. Then my brothers ex started working there and she spread crap around town about how my man is always flirting with her!! Honestly, she has a baaaaad rep for doing anybody.. Then he would come home late high as a kite. Saying one of the girls at work smoked him out before he came home. We would fight all the time because I WOULD accuse him of cheating because he's been hanging with other girls and comes home whenever he felt like. Straight to the shower..He moved out for a few days and came back. I looked at his cell one night and almost all of his messages were deleted but a few. Some from his ex with her booty pics, a girl he was trying to hook up with right before he moved in with me, and a girl sent him her address asking him not to tell the people he was living with?? I don't know what that was about unless she f**ked him, but didn't want nobody to know about it. He quit his job, his truck broke down and his cell is broke too! He has a temper from hell! So now I'm providing EVERYTHING for the 4 of us. I have 2 kids. He takes my phone.. Hides in the bathroom for about 30 minutes each time! I have never in my life seen a man that has to s**t as much as he does. The earliest he comes to bed is maybe 4am.. God only knows what he doing all night. Sleeps until 2-3pm everyday!!! I feel like I'm raising another child.. He doesn't do ANYTHING!! Two nights ago... I looked at my phone history.. He deleted his FaceBook conversations with 12 different women. First time, I have ever seen anything because he always has the same pages open (craigslist etc).. I believe he accidentally forgot to change to private browsing. I think that is what he normally does. I asked him to open up his facebook and he blew up. Tearing up my stuff. Kicked 2 large dents in my car. Busted side mirror. He has no control over temper and now he is trying to fight me.. All because I want him to open FaceBook to see if he is talking to other girls. He refuses. Tells me I'm cheating on him which is why I am accusing him of cheating. Bull! I share everything. My passwords are saved at every site I go to. Everything I do, he has details. I do not keep things from him. I share my life with him. He tells me I'm crazy.. My thoughts are lying to me and he's never cheated. I need solid proof so that I can show him.. I'm not crazy.. He is a LIAR!! Made his mom hate me and I knew her way before I ever met him!! She was like a second mom to me and introduced us. I fell in love with him hard too, but damn my life has been chaos since!! Please help me put an end to this mess!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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Hun, your man is a NARCISSIST! Or similar. I know you need proof of his cheating, but i honestly believe that his behaviour is plainly showing what he is hiding. He is using you as a soft place to sit on his arse and do nothing.. Until he finds someone else and hen he will just walk away with no remorse. Kick him to the kerb and dont let him back in your home. Hes a true Cheater and i have the same problem. Did that Danielle help you? Dunno what she can do except give advice. I wish i could help others like this as its soul destroying for us, but for them. Its funny cos they do not have a soul!! Good luck hun..
AnonymousVisitor
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You will not believe what I am going through. - hey I had a death threat recently by this bottom-meany-roonie ! be careful around these psycho's ! I caught him on the porn sites one night and he got passed ! once a liar/cheater always a liar//cheater ! If I could hire a PI I would but I don't have that kind of money. this p o s has been leading me on for over 1 1/2 yrs - up rooted me from my house near the coast - I won't go into detail - bottom line these lying Mf's need to be taught a lesson ! I fell in love too ! he seemed to be the nicest, sweetest guy and our sex was what I thought to be and according to him fantastic, - up until about 2-3 months ago things have gotten really bizarre ! I spent New Years by myself - no phone call - we were fighting at the time but still how cold ! So he shows up with Christmas gifts (I spent that by myself as well) and everything is supposedly hunky-dory. Yeah right !!

He has been talking about sharing me with other guys (don't get me wrong I'm not a prude) you name it -oh yeah found Secret Encounters and other women's names and numbers in his phone too -I won't confront him about it especially after he broke his phone one time literally tore it apart after I asked about a certain chick whom I was told he spent New Years with ! NOT GUILTY ! WHAT THE HELL IS IT GOING TO TAKE ??? go on the porn sites it will make your head spin - no wonder there is so much divorce and deceit going on !! Ashley Madison site says "Life is short have an affair" !! really ???!! sometimes I want to beat their white trash crappy asses ! I have been in the military and worked for the government - I come from a decent family - my trust for men has diminished ! If I decide to ever date again I will definitely do a background check and not "put out" until I know for sure they are genuine !!
Are there any decent men out there ? I'm beginning to wonder ? bottom line I have sown my oats. where does this crap come from ?the way their raised ?

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
if your boyfriend is cheating
And let me just say being a woman is a beautiful thing and you know it deep in your heart but just like anybody else we all need proof and they call me the mistery woman and if he is really cheating r tring to cheat we can catch him for sure and me sayn don't worry its easier said than done i need a name and number and you will have your proof
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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I set this gmail up to catch him. All lies and denial from him. He visits china for work once a year and then has a one week private holiday in Hong Kong. On his return he really has not tyre passion or sexual drive for me. How strange after being away from me for 3-4 weeks. Always on his phone and iPad. Ongoing security and passwords he has on everything. I ha ve found and exposed his purchase of lingerie for hookers which he sends from Australia to Jong Kong or other Asian countries. I have confronted him but he says it was just a gesture and l would not understand. Funny thing his gestures keep happening. I also caught him sending roses Tina local female and now tells me it is over. He has changed all his passwords again. I want to catch him red handed and shame him because all his friends think he is mr wonderful and the perfect family and father figure. The safest thing on to is he has neglected jus son for the past 3/4 years but again it's not his fault. Us he ficked in the head or trying to make me go crazy! Help

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