Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online


Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like Ashleymadison.com, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or Ashleymadison.com have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What most cheaters do not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 

 

Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.

 

If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.

  

* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.

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erlinda (not verified)
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Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
My husband made up fake emails and fake names! It's so sneaky and evil how would I have ever known. On Moccospace tuck!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Find out if your boyfriend is cheating online
GOOGLE YOUR MAN'S NAME!! Simple as that. What's even better is Google the names of what he might use as a username on dating sites or in chat rooms. Lots of times they will use their email as a username.... Trust me, Google that shit.... You will also find out if they have been to jail lots of stuff will pop up good looking out girls sorry to be so shady but its what we have to do these days.
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Re: Find out if your boyfriend is cheating online
Anonymous Visitor wrote:
Google that sh!!t.... You will also find out if they have been to jail lots of stuff will pop up good looking out girls sorry to be so shady but its what we have to do these days.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend is cheating online
Cant find nothing
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if your boyfriend is cheating
Ya know......there is a site to list him at cheaterregistry.com and cheateralert.com
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

I have been dating my boyfriend Jamie for two and a half months. He has two other facebook accounts. One of them is normal. We started dating at the end of June...he is my everything and I love him so much. We text every day but texts me every three hours.

He told me from the beginning when we started dating he didn't lie or cheat.... Now I am starting to have second thoughts about that. He constantly accuses me of cheating. I am a faithful person. I do not lie or cheat. He only responds when I text him baby.. I have a feeling he is cheating on me because I saw one of his facebook accounts with visible information on it and I saw at least 4 girls. If not 5. I am not sure if he is cheating because the one with the visible information on it he says he does not know the password.

It hurts me to find out that the man I am in love with is talking to other girls. From what I have seen he has not responded to any of the girls messages. But I am starting to think he is lying about not knowing his facebook password. I don't know what to do anymore. I found out last night and it is devastating for me to hear. The dates of the facebook posts are all in July. I found July 4th, July 10th so far.

I have confronted him about it but I think he is lying to me....I cry myself to sleep every night and I cry all day every day. I will find out eventually if he is lying and cheating.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

How is he accessing his accounts?
If it is with your computer you can install a keylogger.

If he doesn't know his facebook password he can request it..

As for seeing him for only 2&1/2 months, if he has not put a ring on your finger, then he probably taking advantage of the free "milk". You haven't been around him long enough to know him nor he you. Sorry, don't mean to come off preachy.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

What if the guy has a business Blackberry phone provided by his company...
He's in IT dept and pretty computer savvy.
The phone also locks wiyh a password.

Can I install on that?

I'm also sure that he has at least one secret email address.
Can I find out his em addresses.
I do know one of them.
Thanks for any help.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
It comes down to transparency. If he refuses to let you see his phone - offer yours up for him to see - then there is a problem. But make sure you research how his phone is set up - try YouTube - so you know where to look for things.....
BillC (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

That blackberry is going to be pretty locked down, so you won't be doing anything on it.

Without knowing where he's using the secret email address, short of installing a network sniffer (and learning how to use it) on your/his home network, i don't think you will be finding any of those secret email addresses.

..and you're with this guy why?

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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I suspected my partner was cheating online, by the "stuff" he forgot to delete, IE; names of porn sites left in Winamp, history not deleted etc.

I thought real hard about what to do, and came up with, what i thought was a genuis solution. I acted like a computer dummy. I needed to nail his ass so bad, and show the proof i'd collected on the lying creep. So, eventually, by asking questions on how things got on the pc, he had kind of taught me where to go to look for things lol.. I Became Miss Expert, and used Regedit to, check, save, and then delete his filth. Hidden folders etc. He was stumped.

Before i kicked him to the curb, I posted a lot of info to his family, friends, ladies he had chatted to, etc. Funnily enough, he moved to another city, and hasn't been seen since..

POWER TO THE WOMEN!!!

I see stupid people! (not verified)
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Anonymous Visitor wrote:
POWER TO THE WOMEN!!!
How about just "Power to anyone wiling to take the time to learn something new!!" ? Good on you though..
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online
Oh, Absolutely.. Power to The Person who Catches, Their so called Partner out..I advertised in Every site I Knew My Partner was going to, And told everyone about His Dirty Lttle online sex addiction.. lol.Alas, He denied he had one, So I sent them the Proof. He's probably at The North Pole, Hoping to Get a Job With Santa.. hahahaha..
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Re: Find out if your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife ...
i online date all the time while having a wife. She used a keylogger on me and confronted me with it. I really hate those softwares. Because of them, i now no longer have a wife. At least i can online date without having to hide it anymore.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
boyfriend cheating online
Total arsehole
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Re: Find out if your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife ...
What a Creep!. No guts to leave the Mrs? I hope you fall madly in love with an online lady, And she treats you, the way you treated your wife!.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife ...
If you think its ok to lie to your wife you dont deserve her! Why marry a woman just to talk to other women or maybe even men behind her back? You dont deserve her and im glad there is something we can do when we feel like our man is being sneaky because we are usually right. Women arent stupid and hopefully if were strong/smart enough do the right thing, leave and forget all about the bottom-meany-roonie who wasted yrs of her life! Just because your home on a pc not in person doesnt make it ok. Ughh men are so stupid ann piss me off I swear were better off alone.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife ...
You don't have a wife because you are a cheater NOT because of software. She probably already had her suspicions she just needed proof and she got it. Online cheating is still cheating and its wrong.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: Find out if your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife ...
NO its YOU'RE OWN FAULT you don't have a wife anymore because you are a lousy piece of shit.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Busted cheating online
Wow. I'm sure she's better off. Men like you are disposable.. LOSER!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
husband cheating online for 18 years
My husband has been cheating through the online dating site for our entire marriage. Everyone tells me it must be my fault, I must not be giving him good pussy.He counsels all the young couples around us that marriage is great and how they should behave. When I confronted him he took my car from me since it was in his name and told me that I couldn't have 1/2 the house and then he claimed that he tried to hang himself. I am beat and tired and have only one way out. Life is sad, love is evil.
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
Re: husband cheating online for 18 years
Give him a hand at hanging himself.. What a Mongrel!!
Been there and still going through it (not verified)
Re: husband cheating online for 18 years
It is NOT for him to decide about the house. THAT is the COURTS decision UNLESS he owned it before you two were married and he didn't add you to the deed/loan after you two were married.. He will be forced by a court order to buy out your half (pay you) if he wants the house or else give you something else of equal value. Don't fall for his crap!
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
boyfriend cheating online
i find e-mails him talk to other woman
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I had been with my boyfriend 8 years and never once suspected or ever thought he would cheat on me. I noticed he had looked at mylife.com and asked him about it and he was like oh look this is cool, you put your name in and find out who is looking for you. It was a little unsettling but i let i go. When i put his name in a girls name came up that I knew and I asked why she would be looking for him and he acted like he didn't know. A few days past and i just had a feeling like i needed to look at his phone. I found text messages and emails between him and her and at the end she is saying Lov ya. well, i freaked out and he swore nothing was going on.

Apparently he dated her when they were teenagers. I found her on Facebook and she said that he told her that i was a jealous girlfriend. She is happily married and that she has no interest in him. I was very angry and he said he would never talk to her again. I let it go. About a month later, I decided to go on her Facebook and find her email. Well i made an email account with almost exactly the same email name with one number different but her exact name and emailed him. I wrote... Hi, if you need to speak to me, use this email because my husband found my phone and wont give it back to me.. It worked like a charm. His email is hooked up to his phone and he ran out to the car to write back while i jumped in the shower. when he went to bed i checked it, and he said, OK i will leave you alone get in touch when you can. The next morning i sent another email saying. I should apologize to your girlfriend she is a nice girl. Well this is what came back... He was pissed. He said I told you, my girlfriend is lazy and hasn't worked in a year. he said, how bout i tell your husband what you have been doing. I cant remember everything but I wrote her a Facebook message saying I told you to stay away from him now I am going to tell your husband. She begged me to call her and she told me everything. Meanwhile I played her and my boyfriend against each other. he was on the road and gave me his email password to his office computer and had me block her from contacting him. It couldn't have gone better than it did. I became good friends with the girl, LOL!

I stayed with him and thought he would never do it again but one night he came home from the races and left his phone in the car. I didnt go out to the car to look but in the morning something told me that i had better look. This was Friday the 13th, 5 days after my birthday. There was a message on his phone that said...Nite nite, dont let the bed bugs bite. well here we go again. we broke up for 1 month. we are together again and i cannot stop looking for it to happen again and i am in an unhealthy place in my life. I will never trust him and Im not sure I will ever get what I want from this relationship.

I have to stop because i feel like i am writing a book at this point,lol. But the email thing worked like a champ if you can find out who he is talking to.

Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
I feel like we relate I would like to talk to u and share story.
I feel you I court my boyfriend texting another girl n now I don't trust him he said he don't talk to her even change his number but there's something in me that just don't feel rite like I think he still talks to her I never told my family or friends cus I don't like them to no to much in my love life but I need to talk to someone to get they view n help is there away to change emails
Anonymous Visitor (not verified)
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I am a product of an online relationship. My spouse goes online and searches, looking at women on the same site we met on. He does not have a paid membership though.

Men are going to look at ass online. There is nothing you can do to stop it. I have learned to not be insecure, jealous, or controlling. Let him be. As long as he comes home at night I don't care. he has no time to cheat.

I put him out after seeing him online searching, but he did not have a paid membership. It was the worst thing I could do, I have turned psycho after that checking his phone and emails. Now, I have learned to relax and let it be. If a man s purely cheating it will come out to light. A woman should not have to drive herself crazy looking for it.

JaneDoe (not verified)
boyfriend or husband is cheating online
While I see your point, do keep in mind that if he/she is cheating, there is a big risk for transmission of STD/STIs. Let them be is not always the best remedy when considering one's physical health and, for most significant others, mental health. I am glad that a husband potentially cheating on you does not bother you, but do keep in mind that very idea can be unbearable to go through. Protect yourself first and then see what you will and will not take. I do recommend protected sex with your husband given the situation/risk.

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