How can I catch my husband chatting ?


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wendy4sale
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I know my husband is chatting from his Blackberry to a girl at work who has a Iphone but i can't figure out how they are communicating? Its not through a download instant message because he has none downloaded on his phone? She is a big Facebook user but she is not on his friends list? Help?

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sunflowerbutton
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Re: How can I catch my husband chatting ?

When he's logged into his facebook -   if you have another computer - lot onto his facebook at the same time -  if he is chatting via facebook you can sit and read whatever they are writing at that time..

 

source: accidently did it.

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Re: How can I catch my husband chatting ?

Install commercial spyware. It's 100 percent fool proof.

But be prepared with an advance plan and course of action if you find the data you suspect.

Secondly, get total control of all finances so you know where the money goes. men typically cannot conduct affairs w/o money or opportunity. women cannot conduct them with out a phone or opportunity.

Third, look at any phone billing records and call data records.

Wonderland
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Re: How can I catch my husband chatting ?

 Best bet is to confront him with no hesitations...you're married to him and he owes you the truth...easier said than done?  Absolutely. But when in doubt do your investigative work.  She may have you blocked as was mentioned before...if you know his password I say log in as him...if not, ask him to show you his FaceBook page while logged in..nothing to hide?  No reason he should say no...


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snazzy
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Re: How can I catch my husband chatting ?

if she blocked you on facebook you wouldnt see her in his friends list. id just confront him. then after he denies it shave his eyebrows off while he sleeps.

animestrinity
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Re: How can I catch my husband chatting ?

Could also be using something like Meebo.com if their phones support it... which has the most used standard messengers, but does it through a website, instead of a program...

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Re: How can I catch my husband chatting ?

I'm sure they could be using many things - but one could be Yahoo messenger IF his Blackberry supports the web-based Yahoo chat.. But, how are you sure she isn't on his Facebook friends list? Could she be listed with a fake name? He could also have more than one Facebook account.
..finally.. Did you ASK him about it ?

beebee (not verified)
Re: How can I catch my husband chatting ?
same my problem and i talk with hi many time but he say no and no but i knew he still chat with her make me sad he chat on yahoo messager.
wendy4sale
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Re: How can I catch my husband chatting ?
Yes I did ask but he always plays it up as not knowing much about computers or the hgh tech stuff! Yea right! I did discover he signs through for emails for work to Windows live office from home! Do you know anything about how the communicating goes on there? Is it hrough the WL Messenger or can you click on your office contact list and just chat or I'm back and forth?

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