Ok so I was just thinking about this today.
You hear people say "oh he/she is (or was) the love of my life". Now I know some people throw this around a lot and it doesn't really mean anything. So I started thinking, who is/was the real love of MY life, and, have I ever been someone's? Well I don't think I have been the love of anyone's life . As sad as it is to say, I was married for a very long time, and he was so selfish I don't believe he is capable of loving anyone, and IF I was the love of his life, well then love is a scary biotch.
Do I have a real "love of my life", I can't really answer that, I do remember thinking I was crazy in love, both before I got married and after I separated, but I guess you would just call that infactuation obviously because it didn't last.
Will I ever find the love of my life? I sure hope so, but who knows.