can i view Secret messages / emails made from my cheeting wife's facebook account?


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gravenX
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I have lately been very suspicious about my wife. Her behaviour has been very dodgy indeed. Every time I leave the room I can hear her quietly talking to somebody on a phone. She possibly has a secret mobile that I don’t know about. I have also noticed that she has suddenly become very secretive and protective about me viewing her facebook profile on her laptop.
I have also got a facebook account and she is on my friends list. The only thing is that I’m unable to see any recent messages she has been sending to people.
I know she’s been sending them as I have sat and watched her typing away on facebook for ages but when viewing her profile it states that her last comment on anybody’s profile was made months ago.

She is also heavily into the vampire wars / mafia wars and many other similar games. I have also become a member of these games to see if I can see any messages she’s made on there. But no joy!

Is it possible to see any hidden messages?

I have lightly challenged her with my suspicions and she became very defensive about it.

Any help?

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kayc
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Re: can i view Secret messages / emails made from my ...

hi,  i cant see how you can , i would think you would need her password , email address, to log into her facebook account, & if she is up to anything shes not going to tell you these, & i dont now of any other way.

MariaO
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Re: can i view Secret messages / emails made from my ...
gravenX wrote:

Is it possible to see any hidden messages?

Are you talking about messages she sends to her friends or are you talking about wall posts she sends to her friends? The messages are only viewable in her inbox and outbox. You would have to be standing behind her to read those. The wall posts are weird lately - if you view them from your new live feed - they all don't show up.

It does sound like she is up to something but maybe it's something innocent. Depending on your situation - sometimes it's best to back off or you may push her away even further. If you give her a little space it could work wonders - or it may not. If you talk to her - don't be mean. Best wishes!

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Re: can i view Secret messages / emails made from my ...
gravenX wrote:

I have lightly challenged her with my suspicions and she became very defensive about it.

Any help?

Challenge her again - this time, less lightly. If you hear her talking to someone on the phone walk in and ask her who she's talking to.

ghettogirl
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Re: can i view Secret messages / emails made from my ...

Good advice there in my opinion.  Dragging something like this out will make it even more aggravating.  Also, if you can find a way to resolve the situation one way or the other without seeing her FaceBook info, I'd suggest that.  Sorry to say this, but seeing the real evidence can be rough. Also, sorry but I don't know how you can see the stuff you talked about.  

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