Are You A Giver or Receiver?

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Hot2na
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Neither :( My ex husband totally tore down my self confidence[/quote]

um, would he happen to have a myspace page? would love the chance to re-adjust his confidence Surprised!

Tuna ><((((*> the other white meat! I am Keeper Of The Whip!

CritterKeeper
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[quote=Hot2na]

um, would he happen to have a myspace page? would love the chance to re-adjust his confidence Surprised!

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Nope, he's a computer idiot (and a real life idiot too!)  LOL, my current guy can tell you the first time I gave him a compliment. He jokes around saying, a girl that's been mentally abused is the best kind to get, cause apparently they have low self esteem and think you're great even if you just treat them half a$$ ok. He's joking... I hope...

Be yourself...... Everyone else is taken!

GuGgirl
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Me too....I've been needing to cyber punch somebody lately!Laughing.....hey critterkeeper what helps me when my self confidence is a running on empty and I feel a little insecure in a situation....I tell myself that whatever I'm worried about (my body, my hair, my face etc) that everyone around me is just worrying about the same thing. The truth is and the key to surviving in this world is this: most of the time everyone is SO busy worrying about what could be better about their self that they don't have time to stop and realize they're really the only one thinking they're not good enough. Your ex (the JA) sounds very insecure. What a JA$$ I'd love to let the air out of his tires anytime, you just lemme know if you ever need back up :)

CritterKeeper
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Awwww... thanks guys. Yous guys rock! 

Be yourself...... Everyone else is taken!

missb
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[quote=critterkeeper]My ex husband totally tore down my self confidence[/quote]

Mine tried but didn't succeed. Keep working at it, you'll get there.

ravenhead
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you people all rock so much.  i love getting on here after a rough day at work to see such conversations taking place. 

myself, i'm more of a giver.  it's fun.  but i suppose i need to practice receiving...

Hot2na
Are You A Giver or Receiver?

give. give. give. give. give. but today, unexpectedly from a stranger, i received a big one. and it even appeared genuine. *woot*

Tuna ><(((( '> the other white meat! I am Keeper Of The Whip!

animestrinity
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I'm a receiver...... always have been... and a bad one at that...

I hate getting compliments... it kinda freaks me out... and I don't know what to do... or say... and I feel awkward.... and I think since that's how they make me feel, that's why I don't really give them.... I don't want to make people feel the same way that I feel when I get them..... 

I prefer to give my friendship... I can tell my worst enemy that shirt looks great on them... but true friendship is something far more genuine and special.

Ironically... I'm far more likely to give my friendship to someone who tells me my shirt's on backwards than someone who tells me they like my shoes.........

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