My gripes for the month

Okay, as I have been super busy, I haven't had much time to post on my GuG. By the way I've really missed you guys and promise that  once I move into the new place (Nov 1s), I should have more time to bless you all with my presence...lol. Now since my last few post, I have built up quite a lot to gripe about, so I will use this blog to vent,

Remarkably, Donna sent me a text the other week to see "how I was doing?" This struck me as odd, but I went with the flow anyway. In the end she said she appreciates what I did because I was being a true friend to her. She confirmed that she is still with Andrew and she wants to still have a friendship with me. Honestly, I'm not sure how that would pan out if she and I were friends again. For one thing, Andrew hates me and will only down talk me to her all the time. Also, she hasn't contacted me since that last text which makes me think that she has to contact me on the down low. So not cool. But, as I have other things on my mind this has slipped to the back of my mind.

This whole moving thing is extremely stressful. Making sure that I have everything I need before moving in. Everyone and their mother telling us what we need are kind of annoying. Unless I ask you, I rather not hear all the things that I still need and haven't had the common sense to buy on my own. Just give me a break, it's my first apartment and I'm moving in with Sweetness. This brings me to my next topic.

I love my Sweetness very much. But this move has both of us at our wits' ends. We don't usually argue, but during this stressful time, we have been arguing for the most stupid things. "What's wrong with that slip cover?" 
"It has a bow, and that one has a skirt."  "It's just a slipcover, and the bow is miniscule."  "I don't like it."   "Fine, we'll just leave the sofa as is; scratches and all."
"You bought a black hamper? We didn't agree on the black hamper."   "You said that it would be best because the white gets dingy and yellow."   "Yeah, I said it would be best, but that doesn’t constitute an agreement. Whatever, it's not a big deal."   "If it's not a big deal, then why are we having this conversation in the first place?"

Yeah, lots and lots of fun. At work, I have to deal with this loser worker (not lady sage).  She is so lazy and doesn't do anything. Just yesterday after I did a sh!tload of work, I asked her to do this one thing, and she made a great deal about it. I told her, "You don't do crap, this is the least you can do." And she did what I was, but it was done with lots of attitude.  I don't care as long as it got done. It just still irks me. Grrrr! Sorry for all the complaining.

 

   

   

Comments

 I know! I can't pick out anything without running it by him first, Which is understanding, but still. The color of the hamper? Seriously? I need approval on that? No one is going to see that anyway! lmao

 

 

The Truth Is Out There. Trust No One! Deny Everything!

You're upsetting me....on several levels.

 Yeah my grandmother told me that he better learn two new words...."Yes, dear."

 

 

The Truth Is Out There. Trust No One! Deny Everything!

You're upsetting me....on several levels.

Oh.. you need to straighten your guy out and quick.  Doesn't he know who's boss yet?  His answer to anything regarding the move should be, "I don't care - you can do whatever you want."  :)

I am going through a similar thing as far as moving out with my guy. Everything I say is wrong. And anything that inconveniences me is fine, but heaven forbid he have anything inconvenience him. Not too mention he wants me too drive farther to work, pay more rent, and he wants his own closet plus half of mine. He has a rude awakening coming to him. I hate whatever women turned him into such a spoiled brat!

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