There is more to life than the internet get a life.

I dont appreciate people from this site emailing me about a bunch of BS I dont even know about. Yes I used to be a dancer, Ive quit for 3 years , yes im a drug addict and always will be but im recovering for three years now oh and yes at one time I was a slut. Atleast i can get who I want when I want. Did I mention I dont care what people think about me? I am who I am and yes Ive done some bad things in my life but people grow up and become better people and thats me. You all dont know me so dont judge. The only person who I care that thinks anything about me is god and not anyone else.

Oh if you have the nads email me and give me your name and stop being a titty baby. I would have a lot more respect for you as a person.  This is all kiddy BS. I dont care about anyone dramas blah blah.. I come here to help people and get help im not interested in your little fights.

I do have a life instead of spending it on the internet all day. If people continue to threaten me and send crappy email, or threaten me I will take action. I do have many immediate family members who practice law and criminal justice. So get a life!

Oh and I dont like people talking bad about many of my good friends either. I dont mean any disrespect to hubby or the geek but im just saying what has been happening to me. I love this site and about 95% of the gugs.


EDIT: I would also like to add that I've never once been rude or disrespectful to anyone here or talked behind their backs, because if I have something to say I will say it to you personally! So no one has any right to talk behind my back or be rude when all I have done is be nice and polite. However I will not stand for people calling me names and judge my charachter when you dont know who I even am. If you all read my previous blogs you would see how devoted of a mother I am and how I vowed to change my life and help others with the same struggles.





 Save the drama for yo momma is what I say too!!  Laughing


Downgirl, don't be down, cause the people who judge you as I'm sure you already know, only do so to make themselves feel better.  Like Dr. Seuss once said.... the people who matter don't mind and the people who don't matter do.  In other words.  If anyone is giving you a hard time, just ignore them, they're obviously feeding off it.  They don't deserve your time, energy or thought.  I think you're great and wish you the best with continuing to be a better person.  Kudos!




Who the hell has been harassing you? What a bunch of lame-o's. No offense to you (and I think you'll see what I'm saying) but if someone think being a drug addicted ex-stripper is bad, I'm pretty sure having nothing better to do than find drug addicted ex strippers on the internet and harass them is worse.



"True knowledge exists in knowing that you know nothing. And in knowing that you know nothing, that makes you the smartest of all

hey downgirl,

 it sounds like you already know this, but i just wanted to add to it or reinforce that, but no one, you or anyone else, ever has to justify their life or past mistakes to any other human. because no one is perfect. and no one has the right to try to judge you or make you feel like crap for any of the things you listed above. having been a dancer doesn't make anyone a lesser person let alone preclude a person from being a great and loving mother. i have a friend who danced to put herself through college (she also did her fair share of substances) and she is a fabulous, loving mom who's face also glows in pictures with her and her son, just like your's does. what's more, it is completely unacceptable for anyone to condemn a person who is in recovery for addiction. why? because it's called addiction for a reason, and it's called recovery for a reason. and three years is a heck of an achievement, it takes immense strength to make that milestone. and who or how many "who's" you slept with is nobody's business anyway. 

and good for you for knowing all of that and standing up for yourself. only a jerk who doesn't know the kind of strength it takes to overcome a serious life obstacle would judge you or try to make you feel bad about yourself for any of that stuff.

as for the drama, i am with you in wanting nothing to do with any of it. i come here for a quick break from real drama, work or otherwise, and i like it here because people are almost always friendly and helpful. 

I'm sorry someone is harrassing you, so uncalled for.  Good for you for standing up for yourself!  I haven't posted often here since I have been able to find answers to my questions before needing to post, but I have seen your posts and you've always seemed really nice and helpful and I am sorry someone feels the need to cut you down in order to feel better about themselves.  Hopefully this person, or people, will now leave you alone.  I hope the rest of your weekend goes well. 

Hey, Downgirl. For what its worth, I think you are awesome!

I hope whoever has been harassing you is now embarrassed! I enjoy reading your posts, you always come across helpful, sweet, and funny! I've seen you mention your past here & there but I never gave it a second thought. What I see in your PRESENT is a loving mommy with great advice to give! It's a shame that people choose to judge you regardless what it is you ever did.

"Don't sweat the small stuff" sweetie, it's a phrase I try to live by. Realize that YOU are the bigger person.

Now leave Downgirl alone you jerks!


xx Sugar

hey downgirl, i am truly embarassed for those of us who love GuG so much, that there are people who would attack you for any way you've chosen to live your life, in the past or presently. my God, i am sorry. it is so surprising to me because i have talked about being a heroin addict and an alcoholic, and the people here have been very supportive and i have made friends that i feel will be friends for a long time. i hope you choose to keep posting here because maybe you and i can become good friends as well....juliek

I would like to give  very BIG THANKS! To everyone who responded to this blog. Im glad that im not the only person who thinks like this. Im all about no drama and making good friends on my fave website! Love you all!


"If everybody is thinking alike then nobody is thinking"

 also no one is a slut - you was just a young person who did not value yourself enough. x





has any one reached adulthood with out making any mistakes? and anyway who says what is classed as a mistake? your experiences in life are what helps you become a real and truly knowledgeable person, and become a good mother - you know what is out there and can help guide and protect your children away from these things. some people can be ignorant of these things and therefor dont have the knowledge to guide their children away from lifes evils . you dont have to justify yourself to anyone. god is our judge. drugs are easy to get and hard to get away from and they do drag you in so easily- its usually the very caring , soft hearted feeling people who get caught and only the strongest characters recover. well done. i dont actually think there is anyone who hasnt tried some form of mind altering substance - from crack right down to nicotine and alcohol. so no one can comment on other peoples lifestyles. also i wish i could dance!! i have totally two left feet - please dont use your energy on things that arent important to your child or yourself - put a big smile on your face be proud of who you are

and remember no one is actually better than you - just different.

ps i dont know anything about this issue but it was sad to hear that someone has been insulting you and upsetting you.

 kind regards x




I'm utterly astounded that people would send anyone unsolicited private email attacks (or public for that matter). 

If you don't have anything good to say.....

a-freaking-men, we've ALL done things we aren't proud of, we're human for crying out loud. sounds to me like you are more together than a heck of a lot of other people i know. keep living your life, loving your son and staying true to you!

What was that saying... I read it in a myspace bulletin...  Something like:

Fighting on the Internet is like competing in the Special Olympics... even if you win, your still retarded.

So don't worry about it, it's easy for people to hide behind a computer and pretend they're cool.


Better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt.


i wouldn't waste any energy on it downgirlie. we all have skeletons in our closet. at least yours can dance Wink! *hope that makes you smile a bit*


Tuna ><((((*> the other white meat!

you go girl!

As i boasted in the chatroom a little earlier, we're now 97% drama-free!


I, too, would appreciate being left outta the silly drama. I dont want or need it. Good for you to stick to your guns and be proud of who you are. 

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