Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What many cheating husbands, wives, girlfriends, or boyfriends may not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 


Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.


If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.


* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.


i would like to know too..if you have any info get back to me.
i need to check up on my boyfriend who is being sketchy aswell. myspace is dangerous.

WOW, I used this program someone on this board recommended and I got into all his accounts online and found about 2 emails from girls that said they hate me and I make them nervous, but no real cheating, just big searches for girls he know back when! I loved that I could get his account email. One girl said she was hesitant to write him 'cause "your wife" reads your email, and he wrote back saying, "She doesn't!" Trust me... This program worked so well. I have all codes and accounts and even a visual photo of each page he went to and one of them was which surprised me. But so far no real cheating. He just has a ton of pay day loans he does not want me to have! Program downloaded from net !

Hi All,

I have found out that my fiance of 2 years has been doing all the same things as all your men online. I moved countries to be with him, now I am stuck here with no job, no friends, no life and I gave up everything, a good job, career, independence, etc , to be with him.

I thought I knew him so well. I always thought I am a good judge of character. Anyway, after being here with him for just 1 month, one month before getting married...I found 4 emails that he had sent to escorts from Craigslist and He also had TONS of dating site profiles up, -eHarmony, AdultFriendFinder, ALT.Com, etc etc etc

Its been almost 7 weeks since I first found those emails wanting to hook up with them. He denied it FLAT. Like any cheating man would. Says he gets into these depressive states from time to time which causes him to "act out" in these ways and its "not sexual". How can emailing whores to meet up not be sexual???

He says he felt better about his life after seeing the degradation of what these people offered.

Never mind he set up similar accounts EVERYWHERE to meet up with these people all over the site! Who knows if he slept with them or not? To me, its still cheating.

I have found more and more out over the past 7 weeks.

Ladies, let me give you some advice, how I would have done things differently:

1. Google his email addresses - it gives you lists of a lot of the places he has accounts. Sign yourself up to check out what he is doing there
2. If you find something bad, DON'T confront him immediately! This was my biggest mistake and I still keep doing it! Give yourself time to calm down and DO MORE DIGGING/web research before you say anything or he will go and delete it all and hide things better and change passwords, so keep calm and keep digging! You will hate yourself if you found an email to another woman, confront him, he denies meeting up with her, but then its too late, he cleaned it all up and you will wonder forever.
3. If he is going into places like Eros.Com, Craigslist, ALT.Com - dont be fooled! These are not friendly social networking sites like Facebook. The first 2 are sites where prostitutes and escorts advertise their services to hook up with people. Watch out! Its not innocent! Same for ALT.Com - its an alternative lifestyle website (ie Bisexual curious) where you load up profiles to meet other people with taboo sexual interests and to hook up discreetly.

Ladies, beware. There are so many temptations out there on the net, never mind the local pub! Watch out for what he is doing online if you dont trust him. The answers are all there.

If he has ever used your computer, you can always do a harddrive repartition, which recovers lost/deleted files. Thats how I found out even more, but still cant prove he slept with anyone. He has done EVERYTHING expect that. But how do you prove that? Send a detective to get it on film?

PFFT - trust your judgment when it comes to them. And good luck

Im still in shock ..reading your post is like I wrote down my life right now!!for the last days is been crazy for me looking online and trying to found out more information..I caught him with some text in his cellphone but now he block it and I only can check the bill..also he is my friend in facebook but seems like he is not doing something bad but I know he still have 2 ex girlfriends as friends and talk in the phone with one of them.

it is really tempting to try these phone spywares...but i dont know if its going to work if hes in another country using a pre paid sim also tempted to ask my friend from the nbi to find things out for me..but am ashamed to ask...if anyone can please help me find him online or help me on how to get his calls and text messages...

please help me find him on not very good with computers..i want to find out everything that i could about him..

we're in a long distance relationship, so its hard to find out, she gets too comfortable with guys and that bugs me, and really comfortable with 1 guy who i assume is the guy she's cheating on me with, i really dont know what to do, help ?

my boyfriend is also in another country..and i think hes cheating on there any way for me to find his contacts on his ym account..and if theres a way of finding out whom he texts or calls...

Not really/not legally.. Unless you ask for his Yahoo Messenger password.

all his emails are shared and he gave it up when I ask I really think that is stupid and now found another e-mail today Yahoo is connected to his phone only so I will tonight get that too .. T.K.M


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