Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What many cheating husbands, wives, girlfriends, or boyfriends may not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 


Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.


If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.


* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.


Why not start tracking his cell phone? There are many applications out there that allow you to listen in on calls, view text messages, monitor location and see the address book in your boyfriend/husband's cell phone. Do some searching online. You can do all the monitoring from any computer with Internet access. Isn't technology amazing?

He watches porn on these websites but i want to know if he is having internet chats how do i figure that out?

Read the page above.. Keylogger software on your computer (if he uses a computer owned by you) will reveal everything he is doing.

If you are convinced enough to install a keylogger or GPS tracker, you don't trust your SO. If you don't trust them, there's no point to having a relationship. Just saying. When it gets to this point the relationship is already trashed...

i have been married for 2 years to a man who constantly lies and argues... hes very sneaky with his phone and computer and ever since i looked through his phone he put a passcode on it.. the good thing is im the primary account holder for his phone because hes using my second line and my gut was right... he was sending pics of himself and getting nude pics of girls and sending sexual texts to girls and on his laptop he has tons of porn.. just recently i looked in his laptop and he was downloading porn and the next day when he came home i said " what are you downloading"? his response was documentaries... WTF why would he lie like that to my face so i said are you downloading porn and he said no... wow i have evidence and he wants to freaking lie to my face... im married to this insensitve a**h**** and i have 2 kids by him.. he better get ready to pay child support and never to see his kids again because im taking custody... he has put me through so much s***... also i forgot to add, has anyone noticed that your man is friends with the same girl/girls on all his different websites?? i know in my heart hes unfaithful and a man whore who cant keep his d*** in his pants... i will shock his ass with those divorce papers but first i must try counseling because i want our family together but if not were getting divorced and i have all the proof i need for the courts... he will be looking like such a dumb ass infront of the judge... my husband must think im stupid and i will never find out about all the escapades but i did and it just proves how stupid he is and a dumb ass at that...

Well i honestly dont know what to think about my relationship with my boyfried and i. We have been together for a long time and it was just recent that i have had this feeling in my gut. There was one night i was in the hospital and i was trying to get a hold of him. I guess the number came up private but when he answered i heared two people having sex i thought he was watching porn so i was like wtf and hung up. I called back again and the mic wasnt working properly on the phone and he said "why do you call me with blocked call and not say who it is" WHILE HE WAS HUFFING AND PUFFING and then i heared the girl in the back asking him if he wanted to go out for a smoke with him and he replied back. I was so emotional that night. The next night after i got ahold of him and said to him you know i was trying to call you but then i heared this on the phone and he said "well someone was calling me blocked call and i didnt know it was you so my friend and his girl were playing a joke on the phone". I didnt know what to think about that one. But last week his cell was cut off so i havnt been able to get a hold of him so i was calling his house phone and his aunt or uncle would ALWAYS say hes not home. I have not seen him in like 8 weeks he lives an hour away but a 3 hour bus travel. What do i do

[quote=Anonymous Visitor]What do i do[/quote]

Really?! Get a new boyfriend!

I think it says 100% of what needs to be said..
Perhaps someone will disagree and give some better advice.

I agree with hubby... if not for the probability that he was being unfaithful, any reason that you're in the hospital that has you using their phones to call him is a reason he should have been there with you in the first place... not with a girl... not with a 'friend and his girl'... and at a very minimum, NOT LETTING SAID 'FRIEND' use his phone to joke around since he should be waiting for you to call since, I dunno, you were in the hospital...

But from the information you provided us, you already have a gut feeling, a near confirmation that you already think he's lying about, and evidently a boyfriend that isn't making any effort to be with you or even return your calls... just that last part on its own is a reason to get rid of him... trust me, there are plenty of guys willing to treat you better than your current boyfriend is.


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