Find out if your boyfriend or husband is cheating online

Whether your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife is using Facebook, or other sites like, it is possible to find out if he or she is cheating on you.

Catch him cheatingChat-rooms and social-networking websites like Facebook or have made it easier than ever to make new friends, flirt, and even have full-blown love-affairs online. Throw in a low-cost web-cam and you can imagine the fun that he or she might be having behind your back when you aren't around. Is he or she suddenly acting differently? Being more secretive, especially around the computer? Is he or she online during all hours of the night? Is he or she accusing YOU of cheating (guilt avoidance & projecting)? Or, is something just not right in the relationship? If any of this sounds familiar to you, then you might have a cheater on your hands. Even if it's "online only" cheating, it could eventually lead to something more serious. Of course for most people even an online-only relationship behind your back is not acceptable.

Try a 'keylogger'* on your PC - The easiest way to catch him! (or her)

What many cheating husbands, wives, girlfriends, or boyfriends may not realize is that the computer they use to cheat on you with can very easily give them away. Today there are many software packages that you can secretly install onto your computer* to easily and silently track their every move, record every keystroke, take snapshots of the screen and even crack email passwords. These software programs* will run on Windows or Apple computers, are very easy to install and use, and are undetectable to anti-spyware programs or antivirus programs. These programs can be downloaded directly from the internet and installed in minutes. 


Most parental control/keylogger programs run on virtually all versions of Windows, can be installed 'discreetly' (nobody will know), and will record everything typed on the computer for your review at a later time.  These programs are usually not cheap - but they work quite well.


If he (or she) is cheating, it's easy to find out for sure

By using one of the many commercially available cheating spouse, chat monitor, or key-logging programs* you can find out for sure if your husband (or wife!) really is doing things behind your back. Stop wondering and find out for sure - no matter the outcome, you will be happier in the long-run.


* *This type of software is intended for use only on a computer owned by you.  Installing this type of software on a computer not owned by you, or without the consent of the owner of the computer is illegal in most states/countries.


Me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 2 years now and we got back together back in January. With in a week of being back together he already lied to me and told me he had to work cause he was on call but 3 weeks down the road I found pictures of himand his ex at the bar on Facebook and asked him about it at first he tryed to lie about it then finally admitted it like a dumbass I gave him another chance and it was going good for 3 months then all of a sudden his friend was moving out of town and he was gone for a week he told me he was sleeping there and working on his truck so like a dumbass again I believed it! But a couple weeks later my ex told me he seen my boyfriend and some chick at the movies I didn't know if I should believe him or not so I just ignored it once again! now ever since we found out I'm pregnant he's been on his computer when I go to bed he txts at odd hours of the night his phone is password locked the one time I got in to his phone I checked his blackberry messager contacts and there is nothing but chicks and when I ask him who is bbming him he says his buddy. Maybe I'm just trying to ignore it cause I'm pregnant but I don't know what to think or do.

Don't believe him for 1 second. My boyfriend sounds just like yours. He would tell me the texts where from his buddies late at night and then when he was sleeping I would go check and they were from girls. He says they are just friends and he was afraid to tell me because I would jump to conclusions and nothing was going on. My boyfriend is the biggest liar and every problem we have ever had revolves around facebook and all the girls on there. Do yourself a favor and get out. I was soo stressed out all the time while I was with him. You shouldn't have to be with someone who lies to you constantly. That is not a normal relationship

I Know i dont believe him but part of me thinks that everything is ok. He went out again weekend after from half 2 till 4 didn't answer his phone and later his phone was off. He rang me from his phone after 4 saying he staying in his friends but I got mad so he went to his mum. Not mention we are live together. So next day he said he was playing poker and he couldn't answer phone but his phone wasn't off. Then week after he said he is going fix his friend car but he didn't answer phone again and came back home after few hours and admit he was on his boss house party and he left phone in the car. Then few days after he went out for his car meeting, I stay at home surely because is boring for me but again he didn't answer phone for two hours and when he get home he said he don't know where his phone is. He shaving more often he is showering more often two but he saying surely because he working more now. He show me his phone and nothing was there but still... Wat u thinking people?

I'm thinking that you need a new boyfriend ASAP.. I'm also thinking that deep down inside, you already know that or you wouldn't be here asking.

your rite I know this already since ages but I just can't do it dunno how. Plus he is very abusive so im a bite afraid wat could happen.

[quote=Anonymous Visitor]Plus he is very abusive .[/quote]

Oh, well then, you'd better stay with him..

What you do is pick up the phone and dial 800-298-SAFE.  Or go to

NO ONE has the right to abuse you.  Under any circumstance.

Make the call.  It's only a phone call. 

One step at a time.

They will help you take the next step.

One call. 


im 8 months pregnant with me and my fiancees son. hes 24. im 19. im worried.. as only 16 n 17 yer old girls off myyearbook are in his phone.. he gives his number out.. talks to them online...i dk.. theres been instances.but hes convinced me im just being insecure.. somtimes it takes hours for him to text or he wont call. n we dnt really tlk bout much..oddly he says love you..miss you..when he does..iv//got on his FaceBook n seen chats.. but he says it was hacked.. n i guess evryones lying but him.. please.. help?? he doesnt live right with me yet...


Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 years. Just this past April we have been fighting then stopped. We keep getting into fights breaking up then getting back together that same day. I only get to see him maybe 2-3 times a week and when I do it's all about sex with him. Everytime there is never anything else and if I suggest doing something else instead of it always being about sex he throws a fuse. He hasn't been himself lately and he's been toting other people alot more even when I'm with him he keeps saying its his friend. And when I do look at his phone he grabs it from me an says why are you looking at my phone. He deletes his messages because I know he just doesn't txt me. And when I go to call him it takes him 4-5 times to pick up his phone and when he does answer and I ask him why didn't he answer he says oh I was talking to my friend or my parents. I have been having this strong unpleasant feeling in the lower part of my stomach telling me something is up with him. He hasn't been his sweet loving cheerful self lately either. I love him do I don't want to lose him he even preposed to me. WHAT DO I DOOO :'(:'(:'(:'(


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