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tuthake
hi there

help...i think my boyfriend is cheating on me. i feel awful writing to a 'forum', but i don't know what else to do. direct questions are treated with ridicule. any suggestions ? sadme

   

   

hubby
Re: hi there

Well.. lets start with what makes you think he's cheating on you?

tuthake
Re: hi there

hi, thanks for reply. fast shutdown of FaceBook/mysp/ chat, telephone txts from a woman --who wants to see him again soon. i was told she is insane, sends nutty texts..but he has her on various chats. that sort of thing.

MyOwnGirl
Re: hi there

Leave him.

animestrinity
Re: hi there

I believe the next question would be what you're looking for... as in, suggestions for what? Proof?

If he uses your computer to login to any of these accounts (as in, the computer is your property), it would be perfectly legal to install a keylogger that would track his every keystroke, everything he types... pages he visits, etc... it all really depends on the program... also you'd probably need one that has a stealth mode so that he doesn't know...

BUT, in that same breath, if the computer is NOT your property, then putting a keylogger on it is very illegal.

I suppose if he's doing this where you live (don't know whether you live together or what) you could always set up a camera/cameras

If you're looking for suggestions as to what to do in the situation that he's cheating on you... well if you really believe that he is, and he's making excuses for the behavior or disregarding you (ridiculing you) instead of making an effort to make sure this woman doesn't contact him (blocking her, changing his phone number) then I'd say get rid of him for your own sake... 1) you obviously don't trust him 2) he could be putting you at risk 3) he obviously isn't very smart and/or doesn't have the decency to do a better job at hiding whatever he's hiding 4) the fact that he's blatantly hiding anything from you (whether cheating or not) is the sign of an insert-profane-bad-person-adjective-here and only deserves someone that treats him the same (and therefore that hopefully makes you better than him)

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