Need a little help to find an impostor.

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Almost Evil
Re: Need a little help to find an impostor.

I agree that its creepy and not a nice thing to do, but legally- theres nothing that can be done. It doesnt even fall into libel and slander because the person was not making false claims against you. They were just lying to someone else, and unfortunately, lying isnt a crime. While I understand you feel bad for this girl (assuming this girl isnt 'that guy' just messing with you) IMHO, wasting time  trying to find 'that guy' is just that- a waste of time and energy on your part. 

berryfairy
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I have a question...Can you take myspace threats to the cops...My fiance's CRAZY ex girlfriend is coming to our pages, mainly mine and sending threats.  Such as "you can pay money to wipe anything clean including you and ___ so keep it up".  I am not quit sure why she thinks I have done anything to her, she has been doing this since last year.  She says he keeps contacting her first and that is why she won't leave me alone, not the case I have been able to prove all her lies wrong and I think that is why she keeps coming back for more.  We called her home last night and asked her to stop, she then messaged again this " now your man is calling my moms house...a world of pain...bring it on...", all he told her was that she needed to leave me alone or we were going to take the step forward and report her.  She enjoys this crap, I don't.  Before things get to out of hand I just wanted to ask what any of you thought could and should be done.  Thank everyone.

OUTRAGEOUS
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If it were me, I would print out any threatening messages she sent me and take screen shots of any threatening comments/bulletins/what-not and print those out as well. Log the dates, time, and nature of any phone calls made between your fiance and her, you and her, etc.

Also, it wouldn't hurt for both you and your fiance to type up a letter requesting that she leave you alone or you'll persue legal matters. Go down to the post office and send it through certified mail, so you'll get a return receipt with her signature on it so you know that she got it. Save the return receipt!

If she continues (which it sounds like she will), take all your evidence down to the police station and see what they can do for you. They may only issue a restraining order at first, but, I think that if she violates the restraining order, she can be arrested.

I hope you can get this nutty of your back! Frown

"As I lay in bed that night, looking up at the beautiful stars.. I thought "what the heck happened to the roof?"

berryfairy
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Thank you for all your advice OUTRAGEOUS. I have kept everything since day one. I will type up a letter this afternoon and send it certified by mail to her. She already has a felony charge on her record from running from the cops with her two year old little boy in the car, great mom huh. I know if we end up getting a restraining order on her she will violate it, she is freaking nuts, so again thanks for the advice and I will keep you posted on what happens in the future.

OUTRAGEOUS
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With her kid IN THE CAR? How in the heck is she not behind bars already?! Surprised

"As I lay in bed that night, looking up at the beautiful stars.. I thought "what the heck happened to the roof?"

berryfairy
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Moma bailed her out, didn't even have to sit in jail, they just booked her.  

OUTRAGEOUS
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I hate that. She endangered her own child's life and they allow her to be bailed out. I really hope she gets put behind bars before she endangers another child or person.

"As I lay in bed that night, looking up at the beautiful stars.. I thought "what the heck happened to the roof?"

berryfairy
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Yea you have no idea how freaking happy I would be, I would be in heaven!!!  Do you happen to know how to or if it is possible to find out if someone has two myspace pages?  I thought I had seen a thread about it but I don't know where to look.  I think she is now coming to my page through a fake page or a friends page.  I have plugged in the friend id number to get some info but it just keeps telling me this page is private.  The ip addresses aren't the same, I think she may be at a friends house using another computer.  I didn't start getting messages from this "new person" until the night my fiance called her and asked her to stop.  I did notice that the first time this new chick wrote me they were both on my page around the same time, now this new chick isn't going to my page, she only sends me messages.  She is sending messages telling me I am cute, she is bi and she wants me, I told her to take a look at my page, she would be able to see there I am not interested in another relationship.  If you can help me figure out if it is her that would be great!

Moonshooter
Re: Need a little help to find an impostor.

Very good luck to you.

 

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lyndeeluwho
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How young is she? Because if she's under 18 you need to report it to the police as an online predator situation because you dont want any association with that.

 

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