Turned his online cheating on me

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youreallymademethink
Turned his online cheating on me
So i recently discovered that my boyfriend has been visiting various meet local women sites and i discovered it before i had my own phone. He is not the most cell phone internet savy person and tries to clean up his tracks but there is always something left behind. Anyway the problem i am having with it is.... when i confronted him about the dating and meeting locals site he flipped it on me and said that he was looking at old stuff from a previous email i had had. I admit when i was single i did do some online dating but never went on hookup sites like im seeing. I told him it was nonsense and that he really should be honest with me as i am him and that i haven't been on any dating anything for a long time even before i met him. Now what im really conflicted with is... i recently got my own phone so we were no longer sharing because i found myself almost being neurotic about the phones history. Never saying anything of course because i already knew it would come back to me somehow to deflect his own stuff. Well now he has like the toughest lock on his phone and hes practically glued to it. This is extremely dysfunctional to me and i dont want to distrust him but at what point do i demand to know whats really going on. Im an open book and i really dont care about a lot of things like porn or pics but when it comes down to meeting someone i d have a major problem.

   

   

Anonymous Visitor
Re: Turned his online cheating on me
Obviously you don't trust him and/or he can't be trusted.. does not matter which. Save yourself the pain and end it now.
youreallymademethink
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Yea youd think thatd be my obvious decision.
youreallymademethink
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Update: i haven't cared about what he is doing on his phone and it feels better. Then today he had to factory reset because all the old stuff i had on there was creating to much lag but i know the truth, hes deleted files he has no idea are for what, and now nothing will load. So funny to watch but sad in a sense its called a smart phone but for someone that really has no clue about basic computer skills, its becoming his worst nightmare.
Anonymous Visitor
Re: Turned his online cheating on me
Agree. End it now
youreallymademethink
Re: Turned his online cheating on me
Yes its time to work on plan b
Anonymous Visitor
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Help. I have to know
delhirose
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My husband had/has been doing the same. Though I have married a foreign national who I believe married me to defraud entry to my country. He believes love is hard. I had him investigated, he owes me a lot of money etc etc and I live in a foreign country to mine, a 3rd world country. Fight back girls, give these guys up, really it just changes us and make us unsure and love changes within you. I have a police case against him and taking him to court now, I'm a fighter I will not let him get away with what he owes me, that at least, then I can go home and put closure on this part of my life. His ex wife is always involved somewhere as he has an 18 year old son, haven't met the family, he ex continues to put my name to shame and to her own son.......its such bull-pucky-rooney-toot-tooty that adults play such childish schoolyard games. Let him go, I believe in karma, it will come back to him in another way........don't let these cowardly men change you and don't let it go on and on cause the information and the hurtful unfaithfulness will be the same, just different women..................let the sisterhood stand together.........if he cant talk with you about what he needs, he aint worth it, if he goes to another he lacks self worth, his problem, don't let his inabilities to be a truthful human influence you..........yeah it hurts.........but it will pass. Be strong girls.......and guys too.....

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