So i recently discovered that my boyfriend has been visiting various meet local women sites and i discovered it before i had my own phone. He is not the most cell phone internet savy person and tries to clean up his tracks but there is always something left behind. Anyway the problem i am having with it is.... when i confronted him about the dating and meeting locals site he flipped it on me and said that he was looking at old stuff from a previous email i had had. I admit when i was single i did do some online dating but never went on hookup sites like im seeing. I told him it was nonsense and that he really should be honest with me as i am him and that i haven't been on any dating anything for a long time even before i met him. Now what im really conflicted with is... i recently got my own phone so we were no longer sharing because i found myself almost being neurotic about the phones history. Never saying anything of course because i already knew it would come back to me somehow to deflect his own stuff. Well now he has like the toughest lock on his phone and hes practically glued to it. This is extremely dysfunctional to me and i dont want to distrust him but at what point do i demand to know whats really going on. Im an open book and i really dont care about a lot of things like porn or pics but when it comes down to meeting someone i d have a major problem.
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