What would you do???

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trollop
What would you do???

 Here's my DRAMA   lol   no, really    almost embarrassing...

 

I had a situation a couple of months ago.  My ex and I both belonged to a sport-type club and store.  I had been going to that shop for about 4 years and he worked there part time for about 3.  One of his co-workers has a reputation for being cruel which I've experienced first hand from the day I met him.   When my ex and I were splitting, this guy wrote a homophobic slur in the dirt on my back windshield and stuck a sticker from the store next to it.   (Can you tell he is around 45yrs old?)   A week later on their forum, he broke into my account and wrote some pretty derogatory things in my name.  I'm not innocent, I screwed with him right back but, I wasn't cruel like that.   I put some funny/rude comments on his myspace.  Big deal.     Well, I lost my temper and told the store to delete my account and F itself on their forum.   I'm not proud of my actions but, I'm not sorry either.  One of the things he wrote was between the owner and I.  Things the owner had no problem with, I thought...  I'm not a victim nor am I innocent but, we've all had breakups where people start taking sides and things get stupid.  I know now my ex was involved with all of this childish high school stuff.

 My roommate is into the same sport, club, and shop.  He was in Japan at the time and this guy and his wife started writing him telling him I am unstable and he should have the apartment checked on and what not.     My roommate ignored them for a week and when they didn't give up, he told them that he saw everything that happened and was sticking by me.    I've "just happened" (haha)  to have access to my roommates email..point is I saw the emails and know he isn't full of it.

 

This was all 2 months ago ... I put my profile to private, blocked them, and have never EVER gone to their pages.  I think they are sick individuals who need to be hurting someone to feel better about themselves.  Point is, I moved on.   Well, my roommate ran into them 3 days ago and I told him right off the bat, I don't want nor care to hear what they had to say.   Next morning, my roommate blurted a few things and it just set me off.  First, I calmly explained that I didn't want to hear that stuff.  Why is he trying to start shit?  And then, its really sunk in the things these people said.  Most isn't true, most is exaggeration with a speckle of truth for credibility, most is high school garbage.    

Long story short, I took my profile off of private right before Christmas.  I use my page for my sport pics and to keep in touch with all of my friends around the world who are into the same sport.    Well, I started getting a lot of hits and decided to find out what was up.   I got  Profiletracker.us.

    WTH>>>!????!!   These people come to my page repeatedly EVERY DAY!!    It was pretty amusing at first but, I'm now starting to feel pulled back into it.  What the heck are they looking for?  I don't blog.  My page is only for my sport pictures for friends all over the world to see.   And I have a lot of pics and friends.  I wasn't happy putting it to private for the time I did.  

 Well, I used the tracker to block their IP today.   I have taken the high road until now.  The last 2 days I've been getting it in my head to write them, bust them, and ask what they are looking for.  Haven't they done enough?  To tell them to get a F'n LIFE.  I don't want to loose my temper and let them get to me again but, maybe they need a good busting? 

 Anybody?  Advice?      

 

And Thank you ever-so much for letting me vent.     Hmmmm..... I just went back and read all of this and feel a whole lot better.  I'm not going to do anything.  They aren't worth it.  I'm going to post this anywase.  Maybe someone will get a kick out of it.  lol

   

   

revenge702
Re: What would you do???

That's a tough call. I think the correct answer is to just ignore it and move on, but that is easier said than done. I took a break from myspace for a long while because i got tired of my ex-wife and girlfriend at that time snooping back and forth and seeing something and then questioning me about it. i stayed away and the problems went away. then i got sucked back in when my girlfriend suddenly started becoming more and more distant, spending all her time on the computer, so i wanted to figure out what was going on. i started seeing things that were pretty questionable so thats how i came here...

Hot2na
Re: What would you do???

honestly....if i were in your shoes, first - they need to be bright red 4" stilettos, second - - if the "ex & co" want to spend all of their spare time checking out your page.....then i would give them something to look at baby Tongue out!

 

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revenge702
Re: What would you do???

haha, i put THAT situation to bed a while ago. now just dealing with my new situation... trying to figure out whats the deal with my g/f and what i need to do to correct it.

G1ll
Re: What would you do???

That sounds really nasty, they are obviously looking a lot at your profile. If I were you i'd put my profile on private to be honest even though I know you said you don't want it private. Reason being if they are generally out to cause trouble they may go so low as to write to people on your friends list that you speak to or something and say bad things. Hopefully they won't have saved your profile id number or bookmarked your friends page and things already.

 

Otherwise maybe get a new profile and delete that one, use a different e-mail addy to sign up or something ad ad all the people on your old list. Its extreme but it may stop them from looking at your new one.. for example use a nickname instead of your full name or something so you are harder for them to find.

 

I find that when people cause trouble I can't just forget about it, but I think what could be best for you is to stop tracking and seeing what they are up to because its only making you feel anxious. If they do anything else then think about it then, in the mean time try to move on.

 

Hope you get it sorted tho it sounds like a really nasty situation. 

 

trollop
Re: What would you do???

Thank you ever-so much for all the positive support guys.

 

Well, I blocked their IP and now I feel better as the last 2 days, they keep trying to log on.  So, I'm taking a break from checking my tracker now that I have the upper hand.  They can't go to my page and I am happy.  Could care less what they do now.

 

 

Dagastino
Re: What would you do???

Toughen up and ignore it. Doesn't sound like much to get upset about. The alternative isn't worth the time and energy. Think of all the sports you could be doing instead.

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