When a relationship is going sour?

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lilritty923
Re: When a relationship is going sour?

[it's even harder when you look back someday and realize how much of your time you gave to someone who wasn't treating you well]

it sure is...and i think we have reached that point where i feel like the last few months may have been just that...and i'm not the person to sit around and get treated like that by any means...i just have this feeling...i know somethings wrong, and it's driving me nuts that he won't TELL ME, or if he doesn't know SEE IT...whatever it is, i'd accept it, i know i would, even if i wasn't happy about it...the worst part is he was like my new best friend...i never stopped hanging out with my friends, and doing some of my own things...and neither did he...but we always talked about everything...mid January is when things really started to get well...sour...he's from Florida we live in Illinois, so i really thought it had somethin to do with the weather, or something, he HATES the cold...but it just hasn't gotten better...and I do not know, i miss him with all my little heart, but i'm just not positive it will... :(

lilritty923
Re: When a relationship is going sour?

Thanks guys for all the advice. I'm not really sure where things are going to end up, and honestly at this point it's a little outta my control, slept on my thoughts, and after reading the replies i think i'm just gunna lay low...if he wants to reach out to me and figure this out...then i'm up for that...if he wants to let me walk away...then i might be losing a little bit, i care about him, we've had some really great times, and he already knows if he needs something i'd be there for him...but he's loosing way more, and even though i've heard it a million times and i really dont think it makes things "feel" better...IN TIME he'll realize that...and in the time, who knows maybe i'll find something better, maybe i wont...but it'll all work out in the end....thanks again :)

PrincessB
Re: When a relationship is going sour?

That sounds like the best thing to do. I agree with all of the posts below. Sticking around is not the best thing for you. It's a hard thing to end contact with someone you care about even after they treat you poorly, but if you find something to keep you busy the time will fly by and pretty soon it will get easier. If you need something to fill the time GUG is a very addictive and fun place to spend a few hours.

MyOwnGirl
Re: When a relationship is going sour?

I think that is good idea. You got some good advice here and I think you listen to it. I especialy think you read 2na"s post about the other girl. That is a real possibilty. Good Luck!!!

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